It's just one more thing to make her feel insecure, he is gradually grinding her down. His behaviour is quite disturbing really. Their whole romance is making me like Kim and dislike him more.
I dislike them both. If she is that vulnerable she should never have gone on the show. After her background I cant believe she is turning into a mouse. She is playing right into his hands. I hope she goes next week.
I dislike them both. If she is that vulnerable she should never have gone on the show. After her background I cant believe she is turning into a mouse. She is playing right into his hands. I hope she goes next week.
Just out of interest, why do you want Kim to go over Steven?
He minds me how rex used to treat his girlfriend and she ended uo in tears in every epidode towards the end Why do women let men dominate them like that because it makes very uncomfortable viewing I mean if she thinks hes got money is it worth it. I thought he still stayed with his mummy so doesnt even look like the money story is true just like him not having a girl friend.
The more I watch Stonk-on and Quimbot together the more they remind me of some twisted version of Terminator: The Sarah Connor Chronicles. She's been sent back in time to protect him and he's loving having a talking sex doll. The only question is which of the other housemates is the baddie terminator out to kill him? My money's on little Chris.
Joking aside for the moment, this brought back memories of absolutely awful time in my life, and anyone out there saying that he is not a controlling, manipulative creep, he really, really is.
I've known abusive people, and this "relationship" makes me profoundly uncomfortable.
Steven is infantilising her. He treats her as a child - and/or as a possession - rather than as an adult or equal.
He wants to control everything about her, and everything she does, or even feels.
Steven is (like) a really creepy, possessive cult leader, who indoctrinates their targets into total and utter compliance. And yet this was the strong, intelligent and independent woman who was initially so vocally opposed to being "treated like a piece of meat."
There's nothing scary about him doing Kim's eyebrows, it seems like a nice way to introduce her to her future life as one of the Goode Family.
Kim might think it's a bit weird at the moment, but when she finds out that she'll soon be sitting in the chair next to granny Goode at the weekly family plucking sessions she'll soon begin to relax and find it all completely normal
Has he ever had a real girlfriend before? Not just a virtual one?
I bet it ended very badly with his last girlfriend and therefore this time around he's decided that in order to protect himself, he needs to have total control of the relationship, hence him coming across as massively manipulative, controlling, smothering and downright weird.
Because they are, usually, damaged people themselves. Damaged people tend to seek each other out - they can have very powerful, intense attractions, that quickly spiral into equally intense relationships.
Some women... Actually, scratch that... Some PEOPLE actually want to be treated in very damaging ways because, tragically, that's what they think love is. This is usually down to horribly unpleasant experiences in their childhood. These experiences at a formative age have screwed up their value systems.
The main alarm bells this week for me were Kim saying how she was unable to emotionally express herself, and her inability to discuss that with cameras running, and her justification of Steven being controlling in a 'powerful way, which is good.' Shudder.
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Steven shows his commitment to their relationship.
Controlling nutjob.
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The post which has made me laugh out loud today .... many thanks!
Sh*t a Brick ....... perfectly describing my own sociopathic ex!!!!!!!!!! (and Steven!)
:D:D
Me too
OH ..... MY ...... GOD!!!!!
Bloody brilliant! (Yet with a serious message)
I dislike them both. If she is that vulnerable she should never have gone on the show. After her background I cant believe she is turning into a mouse. She is playing right into his hands. I hope she goes next week.
Just out of interest, why do you want Kim to go over Steven?
Marcus was a bit too obsessive over Noirin I thought. Although not as bad as Craig or Steven.
- Hahaha. Excellent.
Joking aside for the moment, this brought back memories of absolutely awful time in my life, and anyone out there saying that he is not a controlling, manipulative creep, he really, really is.
Steven is infantilising her. He treats her as a child - and/or as a possession - rather than as an adult or equal.
He wants to control everything about her, and everything she does, or even feels.
Steven is (like) a really creepy, possessive cult leader, who indoctrinates their targets into total and utter compliance. And yet this was the strong, intelligent and independent woman who was initially so vocally opposed to being "treated like a piece of meat."
Profoundly worrying stuff.
Kim might think it's a bit weird at the moment, but when she finds out that she'll soon be sitting in the chair next to granny Goode at the weekly family plucking sessions she'll soon begin to relax and find it all completely normal
I bet it ended very badly with his last girlfriend and therefore this time around he's decided that in order to protect himself, he needs to have total control of the relationship, hence him coming across as massively manipulative, controlling, smothering and downright weird.
Or invite her home to meet "mother":
http://beyondthemarquee.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/psycho_house.jpg
Because they are, usually, damaged people themselves. Damaged people tend to seek each other out - they can have very powerful, intense attractions, that quickly spiral into equally intense relationships.
Some women... Actually, scratch that... Some PEOPLE actually want to be treated in very damaging ways because, tragically, that's what they think love is. This is usually down to horribly unpleasant experiences in their childhood. These experiences at a formative age have screwed up their value systems.
The main alarm bells this week for me were Kim saying how she was unable to emotionally express herself, and her inability to discuss that with cameras running, and her justification of Steven being controlling in a 'powerful way, which is good.' Shudder.