To the people who asked how old i am i`m 30 still living with my mum. Please see my other thread on chronic fatigue syndrome. It very hard to find a boyfriend when you not living alone.
Difficult but not insurmountable. There will be a right time and right place, you'll see.
Hi i tried twice to come out to my mum. Both times she said it was a phrase or i haven`t been round girls enougth. She a christian and belives it is wrong to be gay. Have you came out of the closet? Worried about being gay? Do you think it is wrong?
People lead honest and decent lives without religion.
I am sure your Mum would value having a son who is honest with her.
Being gay is not a sin. It is normal,natural and biological.
im bisexual and sadly i wont ever come out, my siblings know and a few cousins and a few workmates but thats it im afraid, people can act like homophobia is over but it isnt, people just arent as brunt anymore thats all. but i feel most people are still homophobic to a degree, some dont evan realise.
I was extremely lucky when I came out, nobody gave a shit! It sounds like your mum is just getting her head round it, you have told her twice now so she can't deny it is happening. I would say just get on with things and don't worry about it, she will come round eventully. If she had a major problem with it she probably would of reacted worse than saying you might be going through a phase
Edit - just saw how old you are if she thinks its still a phase then there is not much more you can do, I would just get on with your life mate
Did you phone that club in Wigan that discriminated against you, you know, the business that doesn't answer it's phone even on a weekend. Did you manage to get through yet?
Hi i tried twice to come out to my mum. Both times she said it was a phrase or i haven`t been round girls enougth. She a christian and belives it is wrong to be gay. Have you came out of the closet? Worried about being gay? Do you think it is wrong?
No, and I suspect your Mum is in denial, as she does.
Hi i tried twice to come out to my mum. Both times she said it was a phrase or i haven`t been round girls enougth. She a christian and belives it is wrong to be gay. Have you came out of the closet? Worried about being gay? Do you think it is wrong?
if you worry what people think ...even your mother you will be stuck in the closet for a long time harbouring these feelings, then end up lonely & bitter, be yourself , i am sure your mum will come around to the idea you are Gay.. or is this a wind up :rolleyes:
if you worry what people think ...even your mother you will be stuck in the closet for a long time harbouring these feelings, then end up lonely & bitter, be yourself , i am sure your mum will come around to the idea you are Gay.. or is this a wind up :rolleyes:
Does anybody else wish they were straight? and why?
Why bother? It won't actually change anything. Acceptance is an early step in the coming out process.
BTW, at 30 it's not a phase. Teenagers have "phases". 30 year olds know what their body responds to. Whether they choose to accept or hide that is the only conflict.
Not another Gay thread? there are already 100s on DS, can't you just post in one of those?
So we have Gay Threads now , well thats interesting , I knew there were threads on gay issues and more than one as like other subjects there are more than one therad as they may cover a different angle but didnt realise the threads actually had sexual orientation, than you for your enlightening and eductional post
So we have Gay Threads now , well thats interesting , I knew there were threads on gay issues and more than one as like other subjects there are more than one therad as they may cover a different angle but didnt realise the threads actually had sexual orientation, than you for your enlightening and eductional post
Yet still he (assuming he) feels the need to read and post.
Hi i tried twice to come out to my mum. Both times she said it was a phrase or i haven`t been round girls enougth. She a christian and belives it is wrong to be gay. Have you came out of the closet? Worried about being gay? Do you think it is wrong?
Everyone have their own values, however, that entails to respect others of their values/beliefs - sincere best wishes mate - I'm genuinely sorry that I can't advise anything further....:(
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Difficult but not insurmountable. There will be a right time and right place, you'll see.
People lead honest and decent lives without religion.
I am sure your Mum would value having a son who is honest with her.
Being gay is not a sin. It is normal,natural and biological.
My Mum knows I am gay.
Move on now and do what you want to do.
I wish you well.
Did you phone that club in Wigan that discriminated against you, you know, the business that doesn't answer it's phone even on a weekend. Did you manage to get through yet?
Yeah but people pick & choose what they read from that dusty, old, rewritten many times book.
No, and I suspect your Mum is in denial, as she does.
if you worry what people think ...even your mother you will be stuck in the closet for a long time harbouring these feelings, then end up lonely & bitter, be yourself , i am sure your mum will come around to the idea you are Gay.. or is this a wind up :rolleyes:
no wind up
ok then, go for it then
I only tend to feel happy when I am not pushing the feelings to one side or trying to make my self attracted to women.
Think now is the time to get out and act on these feelings!
Are there any fellow London guys here that fancy a private chat.
Gosh d4n_d4n, unless you have had some pms, that has killed it. Out of curiosity, did it work?
BTW, at 30 it's not a phase. Teenagers have "phases". 30 year olds know what their body responds to. Whether they choose to accept or hide that is the only conflict.
Please excuse my ignorance, but who is Paul?
So we have Gay Threads now , well thats interesting , I knew there were threads on gay issues and more than one as like other subjects there are more than one therad as they may cover a different angle but didnt realise the threads actually had sexual orientation, than you for your enlightening and eductional post
Yet still he (assuming he) feels the need to read and post.
Everyone have their own values, however, that entails to respect others of their values/beliefs - sincere best wishes mate - I'm genuinely sorry that I can't advise anything further....:(
That would be the OP.
Cheers. Sorry, I do have my moments