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My mother died today

Gusto BruntGusto Brunt Posts: 12,351
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Out of the blue. It's crushing. Only 57, in hospital. I'm gutted.:(
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    Joni MJoni M Posts: 70,225
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    Oh gosh, I remember how pleased you were that she had started getting better in your other thread.

    Must be a total shock, I'm so sorry to hear this Gusto :(
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    Gusto BruntGusto Brunt Posts: 12,351
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    Joni M wrote: »
    Oh gosh, I remember how pleased you were that she had started getting better in your other thread.

    Must be a total shock, I'm so sorry to hear this Gusto :(

    Yes, it's killing me. Thanks for your support.
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    Sorry to hear that, my thoughts are with you.
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    Gusto BruntGusto Brunt Posts: 12,351
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    Bex_123 wrote: »
    Sorry to hear that, my thoughts are with you.

    Thank you so much. I am trying to hold it together. She had a massive heart attack. :(
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    stvn758stvn758 Posts: 19,656
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    Sorry for your loss. :(
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    NoFussNoFrillsNoFussNoFrills Posts: 4,642
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    So very sorry. X
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    Babe RainbowBabe Rainbow Posts: 34,349
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    That's terribly sad, Gusto.

    I hope you have folks around to help you cope.

    xXx
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    So sorry to hear that Gusto. Particularly sad as she seemed to be recovering.
    Take care xx
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    Agent KrycekAgent Krycek Posts: 39,269
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    Really sorry to hear this Gusto :(
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    stargazer61stargazer61 Posts: 70,937
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    Very sorry to hear about your mother. You must be very shocked at such dreadful news:(
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 204
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    Sorry for your loss Gusto, it's heartbreaking :(
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    Gusto BruntGusto Brunt Posts: 12,351
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    i_l_yx wrote: »
    Sorry for your loss Gusto, it's heartbreaking :(

    It's absolutely crushing. You don't the pain until it hits you. :( Thanks for your kind words.
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    yellowparkyellowpark Posts: 2,125
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    Sorry for your loss, I lost my twin brother two months ago.

    Have to be strong and realize the love you have for your mum is inside you and it will always be with you.
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    davordavor Posts: 6,874
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    I'm sorry mate.
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    chaoticspiritchaoticspirit Posts: 282
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    My thoughts are with you. I lost my dad just over 2 weeks ago so I know how you feel. Although we knew my dad was terminally ill we never expected to lose him so soon, and no matter how much warning you have you're never prepared for it when it happens. Sincerely sorry for your loss. X
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    Lucy LouLucy Lou Posts: 8,574
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    I couldn't just pass this thread by without saying I am so very sorry for you Gusto Brunt. I wish I could find the right words but all I can say is that I am so very sorry for you're loss.

    x x
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    Lucy LouLucy Lou Posts: 8,574
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    chaoticspirit wrote: »
    My thoughts are with you. I lost my dad just over 2 weeks ago so I know how you feel. Although we knew my dad was terminally ill we never expected to lose him so soon, and no matter how much warning you have you're never prepared for it when it happens. Sincerely sorry for your loss. X

    (((hugs))) x
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    1965Wolf1965Wolf Posts: 1,783
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    So sorry Gusto. Thoughts and prayers at this desperately hard time.
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    Smithy1204Smithy1204 Posts: 4,352
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    I'm so sorry to hear that, nothing can ever prepare you for how awful that grief is, and there are no words that will ever be able to make it feel better.

    Take care of yourself, and try to keep talking and opening up to people as much as possible, it can be very comforting to do so. x
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    CroctacusCroctacus Posts: 18,296
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    Sorry to read this. It's shit to lose your mother but its even more shit to lose them at an age when they should be around for a good few more years.

    Look after yourself.
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    WinterLilyWinterLily Posts: 6,305
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    Take care my thoughts are with you at this difficult and sad time xxx
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    JulzeiJulzei Posts: 4,209
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    Sorry to hear that, 57 is just too young.
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    stud u likestud u like Posts: 42,100
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    Please contact CRUSE. http://www.cruse.org.uk/ I found them jolly useful.
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    RAINBOWGIRL22RAINBOWGIRL22 Posts: 24,459
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    Sorry to hear your very sad news.

    I hope you have a good support network around you? (partner? family? friends?)

    X
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    Jesse PinkmanJesse Pinkman Posts: 5,794
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    Sorry to hear that, mate. I also lost my mum to a heart attack as well.

    Remember there is no right way or wrong way to grieving, only your way. It will take time, so don't rush it or pretend you are over it before you are. Let it out!
    But you did know her so think what she would be telling you right now.
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