Does anyone else sometimes feel asexual?

marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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Recently I just haven't fancied sex, or even felt attraction to many people, mainly over the last few months. As weird as it sounds, I would rather just lay with a woman and caress her, kiss her, snuggle with her etc; the sex isn't important to me at the moment.

The last time I had sex she was amazing and older, so I feel like I've had my fix to last a long while, as for me to get sex like that in the near future is very unlikely tbh.

I just realised while I was walking through my local town centre that there wasn't any girl I was overly attracted to. There were obviously girls that were attractive, but none that I personally found attractive.

Has anyone else here felt asexual recently?
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  • sarahj1986sarahj1986 Posts: 11,305
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    No most definitely not. I've been perving all over the women and men. I'm gagging for some action with my boyfriend, who I'll be seeing next week :-)
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    you don't just feel asexual - you either are or you aren't.

    but hey ho, here we go again .. hope you're ready for the ride marc .. so to speak
  • ChristaChrista Posts: 17,560
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    you don't just feel asexual - you either are or you aren't.

    but hey ho, here we go again .. hope you're ready for the ride marc .. so to speak

    Another day another thread about Marc's lovelife or the lack thereof...
  • Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    You can't really feel asexual, anymore than you could feel particularly heterosexual or homosexual recently.

    But sex drives are fluid, I'd say it's pretty normal for it to vary and for sex not to be as important at some times compared to others.
  • marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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    you don't just feel asexual - you either are or you aren't.

    but hey ho, here we go again .. hope you're ready for the ride marc .. so to speak

    Haha, but I don't know why it is. I just don't feel for sex at all. I can't even be bothered to watch porn and masturbate.

    I don't know what is wrong with me. I thought I'd feel horny a lot more than I am, but it just doesn't seem to be.
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    Christa wrote: »
    Another day another thread about Marc's lovelife or the lack thereof...

    Indeed. I'm just waiting for him to throw all pretence out of the window and start a thread called "Anyone fancy a shag?".
    marc_p88 wrote: »
    Haha, but I don't know why it is. I just don't feel for sex at all. I can't even be bothered to watch porn and masturbate.

    I don't know what is wrong with me. I thought I'd feel horny a lot more than I am, but it just doesn't seem to be.

    all that's probably happening with you at the moment is simply that your sex drive has dipped somewhat. once you find a suitable vict.. i mean .. targ... i mean .. err .. lady friend .. you'll feel "normal" again.
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    marc_p88 wrote: »
    Recently I just haven't fancied sex, or even felt attraction to many people, mainly over the last few months. As weird as it sounds, I would rather just lay with a woman and caress her, kiss her, snuggle with her etc; the sex isn't important to me at the moment.

    The last time I had sex she was amazing and older, so I feel like I've had my fix to last a long while, as for me to get sex like that in the near future is very unlikely tbh.

    I just realised while I was walking through my local town centre that there wasn't any girl I was overly attracted to. There were obviously girls that were attractive, but none that I personally found attractive.

    Has anyone else here felt asexual recently?

    Perhaps puberty's coming to an end and you're now only going to fancy SOME women instead of manically obsessing about girls like a priapic Energiser bunny.

    Or maybe your folks took you to the vet to get you fixed. It was long overdue.
  • Thomas007Thomas007 Posts: 14,309
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    but hey ho, here we go again .. hope you're ready for the ride marc .. so to speak

    Is it days like this Jason where you miss Robert5430? :p
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    Thomas007 wrote: »
    Is it days like this Jason where you miss Robert5430? :p

    Perhaps marc is bob ? .. *cue spooky music* :D
  • marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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    Who are those people? :confused:
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    Thomas007 wrote: »
    Is it days like this Jason where you miss Robert5430? :p

    5340Robert, if you don't mind...
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    marc_p88 wrote: »
    Who are those people? :confused:

    5340Robert is sort of the antithesis of you marc. he was continually starting threads complaining that he couldn't get a girlfriend and basically wondering if he'd die alone.

    back then, daywalking wasn't even a thing and he also wasn't as horny as a herd of horny rabbits as you clearly are ..

    anyway, bob would always ignore every single piece of advice he got in favour of picking and choosing the posts that would keep the thread ticking over.
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    5340Robert is sort of the antithesis of you marc. he was continually starting threads complaining that he couldn't get a girlfriend and basically wondering if he'd die alone.

    back then, daywalking wasn't even a thing and he also wasn't as horny as a herd of horny rabbits as you clearly are ..

    anyway, bob would always ignore every single piece of advice he got in favour of picking and choosing the posts that would keep the thread ticking over.

    REALLY hot sister though.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,811
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    Yes I do.
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    Im new here but have lurked for a while and have read a few of your threads marc and have to say I find myself pmsl at a lot of the replies.Dont know which one it was but one of your threads went completely off the rails and someone ended posting something about the perils of bum shaving.Well I almost peed myself laughing,my poor son thought I was having some sort of seizure,lollol xx
  • Fairyprincess0Fairyprincess0 Posts: 30,075
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    Yep. On a day to day level in completely asexual.

    I'm transgendered, but 'straight'. I can't get attracted to men unless I imagine myself as a woman.....
  • JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    stoatie wrote: »
    REALLY hot sister though.

    You do realise that if anyone mentions bob one more time he'll appear behind you in the mirror ..
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,811
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    You do realise that if anyone mentions bob one more time he'll appear behind you in the mirror ..

    There goes my keyboard again...


    *attempts to soak up lemonade with bog roll*
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,899
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    Indeed. I'm just waiting for him to throw all pretence out of the window and start a thread called "Anyone fancy a shag?".



    all that's probably happening with you at the moment is simply that your sex drive has dipped somewhat. once you find a suitable vict.. i mean .. targ... i mean .. err .. lady friend .. you'll feel "normal" again.
    stoatie wrote: »
    Perhaps puberty's coming to an end and you're now only going to fancy SOME women instead of manically obsessing about girls like a priapic Energiser bunny.

    Or maybe your folks took you to the vet to get you fixed. It was long overdue.

    :D:D:D:D:D
  • BadLadAshBadLadAsh Posts: 28,488
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    I'm surprised Mr Frederick hasn't made an appearance yet.
  • SchmiznurfSchmiznurf Posts: 4,434
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    People who say they feel that way sometimes are people having trouble getting laid so make an excuse so they don't have to feel bad about rejection. Asexuality is something you have or you don't, not a feeling that comes and goes.
  • euphieeuphie Posts: 2,280
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    5340Robert is sort of the antithesis of you marc. he was continually starting threads complaining that he couldn't get a girlfriend and basically wondering if he'd die alone.

    back then, daywalking wasn't even a thing and he also wasn't as horny as a herd of horny rabbits as you clearly are ..

    anyway, bob would always ignore every single piece of advice he got in favour of picking and choosing the posts that would keep the thread ticking over.

    I wonder what happened him - I know he was banned from here, but sometimes I wonder if his life ever did improve, or did he just collapse and die due to the weight of the large chip on his shoulder
  • lea_uklea_uk Posts: 9,648
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    euphie wrote: »
    I wonder what happened him - I know he was banned from here, but sometimes I wonder if his life ever did improve, or did he just collapse and die due to the weight of the large chip on his shoulder

    I wonder if he's on any other forums.
  • Si_CreweSi_Crewe Posts: 40,202
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    Whenever I read one of marc's threads, my overriding feeling is one of regret that Swiss Toni never made a self-help DVD. :(

    That is all.
  • farmer bobfarmer bob Posts: 27,595
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    You do realise that if anyone mentions bob one more time he'll appear behind you in the mirror ..


    Hellllooo....:-D
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