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chrisii2011
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TMI but i could use some advice as i cant get to the doctor ATM
Last Thursday i got bleeding it was very dark almost brown,i assumed it was my period because it was day 35 of my cycle,it then turned to red.It continued until yesterday morning then it stopped.Ive had no lining during this time and no brown stuff which i get the last day of my period. They usually last 5-6 days but this has only lasted 2 and a half days.Could it be implantation? Ive not been any more stressed than usual,and ive been doing the same amount of exercise and eaten the same as usual.
Last Thursday i got bleeding it was very dark almost brown,i assumed it was my period because it was day 35 of my cycle,it then turned to red.It continued until yesterday morning then it stopped.Ive had no lining during this time and no brown stuff which i get the last day of my period. They usually last 5-6 days but this has only lasted 2 and a half days.Could it be implantation? Ive not been any more stressed than usual,and ive been doing the same amount of exercise and eaten the same as usual.
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you could try on of the early tests now and see what happens, but a lot of doctors don't do the blood test either so that might not even be an option!
Anyway, no one on here can tell if you're pregnant, so do a test.
That's not really helpful. I cant stand criticism over my age. Why is it wrong to want kids at 21?
Well don't ask then.
You're only 21 but come across as desperate for a child. Why? You should be having the time of your life, not worrying about getting pregnant.
I was asking peoples opinions on my symptoms as i cant get to a doctor ATM or get a test. And everyone wants different things at different ages. Some want kids in their 20's others older.
It not wrong to want children at 21, assuming you are in a stable relationship it's a great time of life to have kids, much more challenging if you are on your own though.
The point about being only 21 is a positive one
You are young, you have probably at least a decade and a half of fertile years still ahead of you, there's no real rush, you don't have the stress of feeling like you are running out of time. In the meantime just enjoy the process of trying.
Yes, I hear what you're saying. I still think 21 is toooooo young, but good luck with it anyway.
Try not to obsess too much over it - My Python and I took 11mths to conceive our daughter and I was doing ovulation charts and all sorts. As soon as I stopped and chilled out a bit, then it all happened. As for being too young at 21, well there's pros and cons at any age, just be aware of them. `My mum had her first at 21 and she's a fantastic mum (in her late 70s now bless her!).
Oo errr!
Yes it was
may I ask why you are using this method? I dont understand what the benefit of it is.
We werent sure whether the swimmers were getting up there
did you stand on ya head for an hour after sex..that works
why not?
I dont understand why you would have that concern.
Millions of people fall pregnant using the *ahem* standard method.
Chrisi - from this post - it is obvious that others here have a better idea of your history. I don't. And have no agenda.
But please - what is your personal history? I have no idea why getting pregnant at 21 is so important to you. But if you are in a stable relationship with someone who is also ready to take on parenthood - then who am I to judge?
But please do think. You have many, many years of fertility ahead of you. Is this the right decision at the right time?
If you have a child at 21 or 22, then you have a whole life ahead of you - caring for a baby, a stroppy toddler, an infant and then finally a teenager.....who will be fiercely judgmental at the decisions you make now. You will have no freedom -no choices. Your child will be the only thing that matters.
You are thinking about chucking your own young life away to look after another. Are you really ready for that?
With love.
Looking at your history, you want to do a level 2 qualification in animal care and go to college and be a vet. Now you want a kid. Once you realise you need higher level qualifications and lots of work experience, then how will you fit everything in?
You seem a bit all over the place. Are you sure you're emotionally mature enough to bring a child into this world? Sorry to be so blunt but you seem to have your head in the clouds.
Can't we give the OP a bit of a break on the "are you sure" as she's had that on her last few threads?
OP, really do suggest you see the GP if this isn't a sign of pregnancy. Just in case it's something else that may need attention.
I fear youre wasting your breath there. On every single thread numerous people have suggested the op visit a gp but she wont. Instead she leaves it up to the forum to decide why she cant conceive and give advice to help increase her chances of becoming pregnant.
the main problem with her conceiving is probably stress due to trying too hard at 21 she should be enjoying sex with her partner not sticking his sperm in a baster