Lingerie...view from men

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 12:14

Just want to get both men and womens views on lingerie (classy stuff), do you - men - like us women to wear it in the bedroom. And women, do you like wearing it for your man.

I won a lovely Damaris set in a raffle (new:D), but feel uncomfortable wearing it:o

Any ideas folks?!

Squishy22 · 08/04/10 - 12:21

Most men love it.

Most women love it.

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 12:25

I think wearing sexy underwear makes you feel sexy which can only be a positive thing for all parties.

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 12:26

Go for it - be brave! Afterwards, you'll wonder why you've not done it before now.

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 12:28

I always look a bit of a mess, or to put it more kindly, kooky on the outside. Underneath though, matching, gorgeous lingerie is a must

Oh and that's for my benefit although sometimes it does benefit others

GaseousClay · 08/04/10 - 12:31

This thread is useless without pictures!!

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 12:37

OpheliaFlower wrote: »

I always look a bit of a mess, or to put it more kindly, kooky on the outside. Underneath though, matching, gorgeous lingerie is a must

Oh and that's for my benefit although sometimes it does benefit others

Now I would really like to see evidence of that.

adopter · 08/04/10 - 12:41

OpheliaFlower wrote: »

I always look a bit of a mess, or to put it more kindly, kooky on the outside. Underneath though, matching, gorgeous lingerie is a must

I'm the same. Always have nice undies on no matter what's on top.

And, yes it's done for my benefit.

Enter_the_monk · 08/04/10 - 12:43

OpheliaFlower wrote: »

I always look a bit of a mess, or to put it more kindly, kooky on the outside. Underneath though, matching, gorgeous lingerie is a must

Oh and that's for my benefit although sometimes it does benefit others

adopter wrote: »

I'm the same. Always have nice undies on no matter what's on top.

And, yes it's done for my benefit.

Its nice to hear women actually say this....all too often women wear mismatched undies! Good for you ladies!:D

PamelaL · 08/04/10 - 12:46

Squishy22 wrote: »

Most men love it.

Most women love it.

What he/she said.

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 13:01

I'd love to wear matching undies all the time but the pants matching my bra size are always so expensive!:(

Altheya · 08/04/10 - 13:09

I have some lovely maching underwear sets but I never wear them because I feel like they're too nice for everyday occasions lol!

I love Ellie · 08/04/10 - 13:11

I love buying my girlfriend lingerie and she loves receiving it.

I bought her some pretty but practical stuff from Figleaves, as a present the last time she came out of hospital (kidney operation - not nice!). She loved it.
I got some serious brownie points from her colleagues in her work!

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 13:14

courtney_synn wrote: »

I think wearing sexy underwear makes you feel sexy which can only be a positive thing for all parties.

This.

I love Ellie · 08/04/10 - 13:27

Altheya wrote: »

I have some lovely maching underwear sets but I never wear them because I feel like they're too nice for everyday occasions lol!

When I buy stuff for my girlfriend, I make sure it's pretty and feminine, yet practical enough to be encouraged as 'everyday' wear to work underwear!

It's such a shame to see lovely stuff stuck at the back of the drawer, only to surface occasionally.

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 16:00

beanhead wrote: »

Just want to get both men and womens views on lingerie (classy stuff), do you - men - like us women to wear it in the bedroom. And women, do you like wearing it for your man.

I won a lovely Damaris set in a raffle (new:D), but feel uncomfortable wearing it:o

Any ideas folks?!

Wear it! I love beautiful sexy lingerie for everyday wear or play. Though there is a 'hooker-type' red and black lingerie set that he bought me, that has been consigned to the back of the drawer! That's men for you! We like sexy, but tasteful

[Deleted User] · 08/04/10 - 16:03

I love Ellie wrote: »

I love buying my girlfriend lingerie and she loves receiving it.

I bought her some pretty but practical stuff from Figleaves, as a present the last time she came out of hospital (kidney operation - not nice!). She loved it.
I got some serious brownie points from her colleagues in her work!

Figleaves is lovely! I like Victoria's secrets too.

I love Ellie · 09/04/10 - 07:21

Riccy wrote: »

Wear it! I love beautiful sexy lingerie for everyday wear or play. Though there is a 'hooker-type' red and black lingerie set that he bought me, that has been consigned to the back of the drawer! That's men for you! We like sexy, but tasteful

How about a nice cream coloured set?

norbitonite · 09/04/10 - 15:05

Few things make you feel better about yourself than knowing you have really lovely, matching lingerie on. I wear 'glamorous but comfortable' pretty much every day (unless I'm exercising, when it's more 'practical and comfortable').

The 'impractical and uncomfortable' is definitely saved for occasions when it won't be on for long

I remember, years ago, my then MDs PA telling me that the way she managed to cope with the various chauvinistic men she had to deal with in her job was by knowing that the luxurious lingerie she was wearing under her smart business suit would reduce them to gibbering wrecks.

[Deleted User] · 09/04/10 - 15:06

Definitely. Not sure about tasteful. What is tasteful. I think you've have to be prepared to let your inner slapper out. A bit. esp on Thursdays

I love Ellie · 09/04/10 - 15:22

norbitonite wrote: »

Few things make you feel better about yourself than knowing you have really lovely, matching lingerie on. I wear 'glamorous but comfortable' pretty much every day (unless I'm exercising, when it's more 'practical and comfortable').

The 'impractical and uncomfortable' is definitely saved for occasions when it won't be on for long

I remember, years ago, my then MDs PA telling me that the way she managed to cope with the various chauvinistic men she had to deal with in her job was by knowing that the luxurious lingerie she was wearing under her smart business suit would reduce them to gibbering wrecks.

I like this. I like this a lot!

[Deleted User] · 09/04/10 - 18:27

Answering as a man..there is nothing quite like something quite sensible on the outside and something unbelievably sexy underneath!! Phwoaar!! Think I need a cold shower on that thought!!

denzl · 09/04/10 - 23:12

As i like a bit of retro, my favourite stuff to glam up my ladies can be found at somewhere like .... http://www.openbottomgirdles.co.uk/ ..... spoken in my deepest barry white voice.

[Deleted User] · 09/04/10 - 23:19

I love Ellie wrote: »

I like this. I like this a lot!

I'd say you just like women's underwear judging from your posts on the 'what are you wearing today?' thread!

autumn · 09/04/10 - 23:22

I hate underwear. Avoid wearing it as much as I possbily can.

[Deleted User] · 09/04/10 - 23:43

Couldnt agree more, am always commando - horrid restricting garments..!

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