I think the days of having to get married before a baby is born are over, even for those with old fashioned family values.
If a person constantly tells you they have a set of values then they should live by that set of values ...not pick n choose the ones they like to fit what they want..you either have them or dont
You don't have to get married to have a happy long lasting relationship, and you don't have to marry someone to prove your are committed to them for life. (and you can get married and cheat/ be cheated on)
You don't have to get married to have a happy long lasting relationship, and you don't have to marry someone to prove your are committed to them for life. (and you can get married and cheat/ be cheated on)
I agree but the point is what do we need to know for. Its disrespectful to Emily to tell the world you have no plans to marry. I bet she feels so special carrying his baby and all.
If a person constantly tells you they have a set of values then they should live by that set of values ...not pick n choose the ones they like to fit what they want..you either have them or dont
You don't have to get married to have a happy long lasting relationship, and you don't have to marry someone to prove your are committed to them for life. (and you can get married and cheat/ be cheated on)
Again, it's not really about the rights and wrongs of marriage with someone like him, is it?
This is the same script as the Kp relationship, although I suspect the price tags are smaller.
Again, it's not really about the rights and wrongs of marriage with someone like him, is it?
This is the same script as the Kp relationship, although I suspect the price tags are smaller.
My point was Andre keeps telling us how old fashioned he is and how he wants to take his time with this relationship and do it "right" having a baby with someone you don't even live with not old fashioned at all..
If a person constantly tells you they have a set of values then they should live by that set of values ...not pick n choose the ones they like to fit what they want..you either have them or dont
Precisely.
It doesn't matter a jot to me whether people get married or not.
But it's clearly an issue for PA - particularly given the amount of wittering he's been doing about "doing things properly" and how "different" things are this time.
I agree but the point is what do we need to know for. Its disrespectful to Emily to tell the world you have no plans to marry. I bet she feels so special carrying his baby and all.
Did he actually bring up the subject of marriage? I haven't been here for a couple of weeks so missed a lot
There is nothing wrong at all with having a child and not being worried about marriage but why mention it at all?
Exactly.
It's just PA all over.
He does the pathetic "tummy patting" thing, which has the effect he was intending - masses of speculation - and then he "grudgingly" responds to the speculation HE caused, by announcing that the blessed Emily is indeed carrying the Spawn of Andre.
It does seem that the only person who is pushing the engagement/marriage issue is PA himself - by going on about the fact that he's not going to do it (yet).
I agree but the point is what do we need to know for. Its disrespectful to Emily to tell the world you have no plans to marry. I bet she feels so special carrying his baby and all.
That's kind of how I feel, it's not the fact their not getting married, it's purely down to him feeling he had to tell the world.
Did he actually bring up the subject of marriage? I haven't been here for a couple of weeks so missed a lot
There is nothing wrong at all with having a child and not being worried about marriage but why mention it at all?
I think he mentioned it in his column or somewhere that he wasn't in a rush to marry her, hence all the speculation as to why not.
He'd have been far better saying nothing but saying nothing doesn't give him the column inches he so desperately craves;)
Precisely.
It doesn't matter a jot to me whether people get married or not.
But it's clearly an issue for PA - particularly given the amount of wittering he's been doing about "doing things properly" and how "different" things are this time.
Exactly.
It's just PA all over.
He does the pathetic "tummy patting" thing, which has the effect he was intending - masses of speculation - and then he "grudgingly" responds to the speculation HE caused, by announcing that the blessed Emily is indeed carrying the Spawn of Andre.
It does seem that the only person who is pushing the engagement/marriage issue is PA himself - by going on about the fact that he's not going to do it (yet).
This is why it is important that this is seen as a "happy accident". It was only May he was banging on about wanting more kids. And lo, did the Sainted One not fall pregnant within a moment of that. :rolleyes:
Honestly, I know the adage "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" but the CAN repertoire is more repetitive than Neighbours and their legendary plot recycling.
This is why it is important that this is seen as a "happy accident". It was only May he was banging on about wanting more kids. And lo, did the Sainted One not fall pregnant within a moment of that. :rolleyes:
Honestly, I know the adage "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" but the CAN repertoire is more repetitive than Neighbours and their legendary plot recycling.
Or did he know she was pregnant already so was paving the way for their announcement... By saying he wanted more kids just before they announce it ..it makes them look happy it's happened
Or did he know she was pregnant already so was paving the way for their announcement... By saying he wanted more kids just before they announce it ..it makes them look happy it's happened
Oh I think he knew alright.
He seems to forget what he's said almost the minute it's out of his mouth.
One minute they are "taking things slowly/doing it properly" blah, blah blah, and the next minute, she's pregnant by a "happy accident" and poor PA is being forced to deny that he won't be proposing (until they've done a mega-bucks deal with some crappy magazine or another).
ARSE.
That's kind of how I feel, it's not the fact their not getting married, it's purely down to him feeling he had to tell the world.
I think he mentioned it in his column or somewhere that he wasn't in a rush to marry her, hence all the speculation as to why not.
He'd have been far better saying nothing but saying nothing doesn't give him the column inches he so desperately craves;)
Not exactly endearing himself to the in-laws is he.
He has made his little home video to say that the 'article' about him not proposing - missed out the word 'yet'
But wasn't it his 'column' - his own words - (the only place where he says his fans should believe whats written) where he said said there was no truth in the rumours saying he was going to propose?
He has made his little home video to say that the 'article' about him not proposing - missed out the word 'yet'
But wasn't it his 'column' - his own words - (the only place where he says his fans should believe whats written) where he said said there was no truth in the rumours saying he was going to propose?
Maybe he has read the comments in the DM ..and decided to add the Yet so he stops getting slated
Maybe he has read the comments in the DM ..and decided to add the Yet so he stops getting slated
either him or the wifi is working at the CAN barn:D I doubt if he reads DS after all, he has someone to do most things for him. I do wonder if his DJ brother keeps an eye on forums for him etc -
If a person constantly tells you they have a set of values then they should live by that set of values ...not pick n choose the ones they like to fit what they want..you either have them or dont
The bigger the cheque the bigger the wedding. Maybe no mags have got their pens out yet.
If he is doing everything different this time ..he won't sell it to a mag..surely...and anyway so far he hasn't..he got Katie pregnant and then married her...
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Possibly.
But bear in mind that they have already rushed into having a baby, which in my mind, is way more of a lifetime commitment than a wedding.
If a person constantly tells you they have a set of values then they should live by that set of values ...not pick n choose the ones they like to fit what they want..you either have them or dont
I agree but the point is what do we need to know for. Its disrespectful to Emily to tell the world you have no plans to marry. I bet she feels so special carrying his baby and all.
There is nothing wrong at all with having a child and not being worried about marriage but why mention it at all?
Again, it's not really about the rights and wrongs of marriage with someone like him, is it?
This is the same script as the Kp relationship, although I suspect the price tags are smaller.
My point was Andre keeps telling us how old fashioned he is and how he wants to take his time with this relationship and do it "right" having a baby with someone you don't even live with not old fashioned at all..
Precisely.
It doesn't matter a jot to me whether people get married or not.
But it's clearly an issue for PA - particularly given the amount of wittering he's been doing about "doing things properly" and how "different" things are this time.
Exactly.
It's just PA all over.
He does the pathetic "tummy patting" thing, which has the effect he was intending - masses of speculation - and then he "grudgingly" responds to the speculation HE caused, by announcing that the blessed Emily is indeed carrying the Spawn of Andre.
It does seem that the only person who is pushing the engagement/marriage issue is PA himself - by going on about the fact that he's not going to do it (yet).
That's kind of how I feel, it's not the fact their not getting married, it's purely down to him feeling he had to tell the world.
I think he mentioned it in his column or somewhere that he wasn't in a rush to marry her, hence all the speculation as to why not.
He'd have been far better saying nothing but saying nothing doesn't give him the column inches he so desperately craves;)
This is why it is important that this is seen as a "happy accident". It was only May he was banging on about wanting more kids. And lo, did the Sainted One not fall pregnant within a moment of that. :rolleyes:
Honestly, I know the adage "if it ain't broke, don't fix it" but the CAN repertoire is more repetitive than Neighbours and their legendary plot recycling.
Or did he know she was pregnant already so was paving the way for their announcement... By saying he wanted more kids just before they announce it ..it makes them look happy it's happened
Oh I think he knew alright.
He seems to forget what he's said almost the minute it's out of his mouth.
One minute they are "taking things slowly/doing it properly" blah, blah blah, and the next minute, she's pregnant by a "happy accident" and poor PA is being forced to deny that he won't be proposing (until they've done a mega-bucks deal with some crappy magazine or another).
ARSE.
Not exactly endearing himself to the in-laws is he.
If the stories about them are true ..they might be doing a massive sigh of relief that he isn't in a rush to marry her..
But wasn't it his 'column' - his own words - (the only place where he says his fans should believe whats written) where he said said there was no truth in the rumours saying he was going to propose?
Maybe he has read the comments in the DM ..and decided to add the Yet so he stops getting slated
either him or the wifi is working at the CAN barn:D I doubt if he reads DS after all, he has someone to do most things for him. I do wonder if his DJ brother keeps an eye on forums for him etc -
Just my opinion - I have no proof of this.
Nick my line!
haha I new you were watching:D
I agree Betty
Thank you... I just don't get how he is allowed to change the goal posts
If he is doing everything different this time ..he won't sell it to a mag..surely...and anyway so far he hasn't..he got Katie pregnant and then married her...