Back off?
Goodboy2686
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Ok, so this guy that I have been seeing moved away a week ago, we knew he was moving for 8 weeks due to his job but a couple of days before the move he seemed to change a little, got all quiet, didnt speak as much, that sort of thing. Since the move he has remained the same.
The thing is we were getting on so well and I was really falling for him but now I kind of feel like i've been played and he just wasnt that into me. I have asked if everything is ok and if something changed but he just said everything is fine and he has been stressed about the move and work hasnt gone right since the move. I have been supportive and given words of encouragement etc. I always write beautiful and stuff on my messages and he never says anything back like that.
I am starting to think I should lay my cards on the line and tell him that I really like him but that I am going to leave the ball in his court as I feel like a nuiance. Somedays I will text him and hear nothing at all back from him until the the end of the day.
I dont really know what to do
The thing is we were getting on so well and I was really falling for him but now I kind of feel like i've been played and he just wasnt that into me. I have asked if everything is ok and if something changed but he just said everything is fine and he has been stressed about the move and work hasnt gone right since the move. I have been supportive and given words of encouragement etc. I always write beautiful and stuff on my messages and he never says anything back like that.
I am starting to think I should lay my cards on the line and tell him that I really like him but that I am going to leave the ball in his court as I feel like a nuiance. Somedays I will text him and hear nothing at all back from him until the the end of the day.
I dont really know what to do
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Give him a chance, it's only been a week.
Thats what I kind of think too but surely things shouldn't change regardless?
Although if he doesn't answer your texts sometimes it may be that your feelings for him are stronger than his for you.