First time I've been single since a long time....thats all.
Ok, but put your finger on what's really sad her, being single or the thought of not being in a relationship? Being single doesn't bother me it really doesn't, and I don't need the physical aspect of being in a relationship to make me happy, trust me!
Sounds like that was HER problem, not yours, btman!
Of course ladies need to feel special, but don't confuse that with lavished or spoiled, you can't maintain that falseness forever... I guess when you find the one that fits, none of the superficial stuff matters. It just "is".
Like the Pet Shop Boys said: "Love Comes Quickly, Whatever You Do, You Find Yourself Falling".
And there were some "ooh-oohs" attached to that wise caveat.
As have you told your other half this??? I don't do that we'll either, my downfall in both my relationships....
Possibly the most heartbreaking thing I've ever read here... and I've lurked for years without registering. Really.. If you feel genuinely loved, sure, guard yourself, lay down some ground rules even... but what do you have to lose, really?
What is the worst that can happen?
Or in the immortal words of Marvin Gaye - "What's Going On?"
Possibly the most heartbreaking thing I've ever read here... and I've lurked for years without registering. Really.. If you feel genuinely loved, sure, guard yourself, lay down some ground rules even... but what do you have to lose, really?
What is the worst that can happen?
Or in the immortal words of Marvin Gaye - "What's Going On?"
Thank you truly, I'm a big fan of music! Seriously though, I've 2 great role models and learn by the mistakes of others I'd rather spend my life trying to find the right person or no one at all than rush through life and make the wrong choices, trust me I've seen the consequences and its devastating truly devastating .
Thank you truly, I'm a big fan of music! Seriously though, I've 2 great role models and learn by the mistakes of others I'd rather spend my life trying to find the right person or no one at all than rush through life and make the wrong choices, trust me I've seen the consequences and its devastating truly devastating .
Yep, me too, sticking with the wrong one can destroy you more than a lifetime of carefree singledom.
Music isn't the answer to everything, but it's close enough when you need it to be.
This isn't about staying with a partner for the sake of it - it's about staying true to yourself, with an open mind, open heart, and of course a sense of humour. Because you're worth it, ladies and gentlemen.
Yep, me too, sticking with the wrong one can destroy you more than a lifetime of carefree singledom.
Music isn't the answer to everything, but it's close enough when you need it to be.
It's not from personal experience, but from observation! I have one great friend, of the opposite sex, but that's all he is, a great friend, and aside from my siblings and my parents, I'd trust him with absolutely anything.
I'm quite happy on my own even though my mum reminds me all the time that ill not meet anyone by 'being too picky'
I've been happily single for over 8 years now, before that I was in constant relationships for 10 years, don't really miss sex and have got so used to living alone, I think I would be too selfish to have a boyfriend now!
I agree, I'm just interested to know why the op does think it 'is' rather a negative view, don't you think??
Yes, it is, and there's a lot of pressure on people to be part of a couple, to have an 'other half' (I hate that term) & people are often made to feel inadequate in some way if they are single. I occasionally get people telling me I'll meet someone soon, like that's the most important thing in life ever.
This isn't about staying with a partner for the sake of it - it's about staying true to yourself, with an open mind, open heart, and of course a sense of humour. Because you're worth it, ladies and gentlemen.
Very true. Do not settle. Ever!
And that goes out to folks in ludicrous on/off relationships too.
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Mine and he is a he. I am a bird luv love lol
Yep you ain't wrong.
Ok, but put your finger on what's really sad her, being single or the thought of not being in a relationship? Being single doesn't bother me it really doesn't, and I don't need the physical aspect of being in a relationship to make me happy, trust me!
I can not do it and would rather be alone to be honest.
Ridiculous ...
If you need another person to define your own life then you are the "sad one"
Of course ladies need to feel special, but don't confuse that with lavished or spoiled, you can't maintain that falseness forever... I guess when you find the one that fits, none of the superficial stuff matters. It just "is".
Like the Pet Shop Boys said: "Love Comes Quickly, Whatever You Do, You Find Yourself Falling".
And there were some "ooh-oohs" attached to that wise caveat.
Point still stands. Smile, and keep smiling.
Aw have you told your other half this??? I don't do that well either, my downfall in both my relationships....
Possibly the most heartbreaking thing I've ever read here... and I've lurked for years without registering. Really.. If you feel genuinely loved, sure, guard yourself, lay down some ground rules even... but what do you have to lose, really?
What is the worst that can happen?
Or in the immortal words of Marvin Gaye - "What's Going On?"
http://youtu.be/D3pafy5HHjk
Click and learn ^^^
I feel a "Mull of Kintyre" moment coming on.
I'm not 'looking' for anyone, if it happens, it happens. The more you go looking for partner, the harder it is to find one - I just go with the flow!
I agree, but its still a big adjustment for some:D
Awesome attitude award goes to,,,,,,,,,
Not the Paul McCartney version. Otherwise you'll be single forevermore!!
I hope you disable the cinema sound. I HATE noisy neighbours having fun. :sleep:
Yep, me too, sticking with the wrong one can destroy you more than a lifetime of carefree singledom.
Music isn't the answer to everything, but it's close enough when you need it to be.
http://youtu.be/COiIC3A0ROM
This isn't about staying with a partner for the sake of it - it's about staying true to yourself, with an open mind, open heart, and of course a sense of humour. Because you're worth it, ladies and gentlemen.
It's not from personal experience, but from observation! I have one great friend, of the opposite sex, but that's all he is, a great friend, and aside from my siblings and my parents, I'd trust him with absolutely anything.
I'm quite happy on my own even though my mum reminds me all the time that ill not meet anyone by 'being too picky'
Very true. Do not settle. Ever!
And that goes out to folks in ludicrous on/off relationships too.