Lost me with the 'rapey games'. I was once in the position of a man putting me into a position where I felt really unsafe, called him out on it and told him to stop. He tried to make a joke of it saying he was 'only playing' but he was the one with the physical power and I was scared and feeling humiliated. I was saying 'no', clearly and repeatedly but it took a while for the message to get home. That was okay, then, because it was a rapey game? Very rare I wish violence on anyone but I hope he does get a good, firm kicking in the nuts next timehe thinks it's just a bit of fun to pin someone down and play 'rapey games'.
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