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I might be getting a cat, :)
Bethaneeny
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I've wanted a cat my entire life, but my dad doesnt like them
Him and mum ( idk how happy he is about it) have got this woman from the cat adoption place coming round tomorrow, to assess us, and then I might be getting one, for my 16th birthday
What sort of things will she be assessing us for?
:D I'm SO Excited, I thought I'd let you know
Him and mum ( idk how happy he is about it) have got this woman from the cat adoption place coming round tomorrow, to assess us, and then I might be getting one, for my 16th birthday
What sort of things will she be assessing us for?
:D I'm SO Excited, I thought I'd let you know 0
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Also, the old man who came to visit us refused an old lady a cat because she was getting it after he husband died, and he thought that was selfish! And he refused a man who said he fished, because that showed he was cruel to animals!
But if this lot don't let you have a cat, you can try other places, or you can have a look at adds in the pet stores and vets, because there are always people looking to give kittens away.
My mum says with kittens, you can't tell what their personality is when you get them, like you can with dogs ( I dont like dogs though)
What other things will we be assessed for?
I don't live on a main road, in fact theres little traffic on our road, but there is one about 100 yards away. When they came for my inspection as soon as she came in the house I was told my home wasn't suitable becuase of the main road.
I wasn't after a house cat, but when I asked they said it wasn't an idea they would entertain unless it was an elderly cat or one with FIV. Having just lost my 19 year old cat being told my home wasn't suitable really upset me.
I know CPL only had the welfare of their animals at heart but of the dozen or more cats on my block, in the 12 years I have lived here, not one has ever been killed on that main road, they tend to stick to their own block if anything. But based on their criteria, most of Preston would be unable to get a cat from them.
The RSPCA and a friends cats rescue place would have both homed with me, though in the end I got Macey through somone my OH met at work. If CPL turn you down there will be other rescue centres you can try, some plces don't mind you keeping cats as house cats. Go and visit them and have a look at the cats on offer.
As cute as kittens are, when I visit my friends place it is always the older ones I want to bring home, because you can see their personalalities and it is very easy to fall in love with a fully grown cat who seems to be begging you to pick them.
I hope I can choose a name, I'm thinking either
Alfie
Casper
Sammy
at the moment, but if it just suits a different name, thats good too
Tell me about it, before I got my cat, I went to the cats protection and they would not allow me because I live by what they call a main road. We get a car up here now and again, but only because people live up here.
I got a kitten from someone who knows my next door neighbour and she is now 9 years old, the cat that is.
Home visits should be beneficial to the prospective owner, give you a chance to ask questions and think of how your lifestyle will change with a cat. I know some CPL staff can put people off, but most are friendly and all have the interests of the cats at heart.
Good luck to the OP and anyone else wanting to give a cat a home.
Things like a safe enclosed garden, not too close to a busy road, other pets, e.g. if you had a dog, would it get on with a new cat, whether you can afford the vet / food bills.
Of course, your parents may have taken this route to have an independent person tell you that it is not advisable and take the heat off them!:D
Anyway I hope all goes well and it is ok for you to have one.
Hope that helps.
Probably a good thing, it's not fair to home a cat to somebody who doesn't like cats. You don't know what he'd do to the cat when nobody was looking if it irritated him or got in his way.
Sorry, Bethaneeny, but best to wait till you've got your own place and can give a cat all the love it deserves.
Aww, I know thats a bit dissapointing for you, but you have to think of the cat, you wouldnt want to get one and it be unhappy would you?
My cousin always wanted cats, but my aunt and uncle wouldn't let her, as they lived on a main road, but now she lives in her own house, she has two gorgeous cats, that belong only to her and that she really enjoys as she waited so long to get them
Bascially, the woman put my mum off, by saying things like "It'll riun EVERYTHING" and "Your house is too small", but yet, I know people with MUCH smaller houses, who have 2 cats!
But, mums friend has one that she would like to re-home (She has 3, and thinks she'd find it easier looking after 2), and the one in question has NEVER scratched anything, and she lvies on a main road, and apparently the cat isnt keen on going out anyway. We're going round later to see them
A Cat that has never scratched anything?? :eek: I didn't think there was such a thing?
Hope it goes OK but remember the earlier points made, cats need a lot of time, attention and stimulation....
I am concerned that a poor cat is going to go into a home where there are people who don't like cats, and others that seem to have no idea of cat behaviour or requirements.
Please OP, for the cat's sake, don't get one!
I have to agree.
Also, the cat may not have scratched anything in its current home, but it may be spooked in a new home and turn into a terror.
Why not wait a few years and get one when you get your own place?
The only reason my dad is unsure about cats, was that his dad had a cat that was very unpredictable. One minutre, she'd be sat on your knee purring, the next, growling and running away, and then come back to be stoked 2 minutes later.
Can I ask what you guys are concerned about?
...and a scratch post:D
But that's the whole point (and the reason I think posters are "concerned") cat's are not predictable and cannot *really* be trained!!
For example last night my cat - 14 months old - was one minute snuggled up with me and the next she was hanging off the blinds trying to "catch" a fly. It's what they do OP
Ever heard the term "mad half hour" or "electrical storm" - it's where cat's run around like looney's for no apparant reason. My girl does this almost daily
I waited untill I moved out of my folks and had my own place before I got my first kitty and I could enjoy him properly knowing that if anything was messed up then it was stuff, my problem. You will also form a good bond with a kitty who is all yours, in your own space. I know it seems a while off but it will be worth the wait and better than annoying your parents!
People are not having a go at you Beth - just trying to point out that having a cat is a lot of hard work and you need to be prepared for that.
Say you get an indoor cat, are you happy to scoop out pooh on a daily basis and clean the tray 2/3 a week for the next 20 years?? :eek:
And I'm sure it will win your dad around when it's in a "I want fuss" mode.
I'm in the same(ish) boat. Myself and my partner both want a cat. We both have left cats with our parents when we moved out. Unfortunately, we live in a 2 bed flat with no garden so are waiting out until we get a house.