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sexual harassment for WOLF-WHISTLING

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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    benjamini wrote: »
    I wonder what the comments were ? That could be quite intimidating depending on the content.,

    There were no comments in the vid
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Not everyone needs men leering to feel attractive

    No, not everyone, however she should think about that when she posts countless selfies with half her breasts hanging out. Or do you think that isn't for attention or to feel attractive?

    Me thinks she's a grade A liar frankly.
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Electra wrote: »
    It's on-street harassment.

    So i as a male was harassed at work last week when a woman wolf whistled at me?
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    gdjman68wasdigigdjman68wasdigi Posts: 21,705
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    I've never had hose days

    Ah what must it be like to be attractive :(

    shes nothing special really
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    ElectraElectra Posts: 55,660
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    No, not everyone, however she should think about that when she posts countless selfies with half her breasts hanging out. Or do you think that isn't for attention or to feel attractive?

    Me thinks she's a grade A liar frankly.

    That's on her own terms & she's entitled to do it. It doesn't give every passing neanderthal carte blanche to single her out on the street. She's not 'asking for it'.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    shes nothing special really

    She's gorgeous

    That said I only had one pic in the mirror to go on
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    VulpesVulpes Posts: 1,504
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    So i as a male was harassed at work last week when a woman wolf whistled at me?

    Does this woman wolf whistle at you every day?
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    EvieJEvieJ Posts: 6,036
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    I abhor victim blaming and ok, she may not like it but having seen the video, I'm sorry but she's being a bit of a drama queen. Reporting that and producing that incident as evidence seems like attention seeking.

    Don't the police have better things to do with their time?
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    CELT1987CELT1987 Posts: 12,358
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    I miss those days of being wolf whistled .... :(
    Have a wolf whistle on me. ;-):D
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    Bulletguy1Bulletguy1 Posts: 18,429
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    That's disgusting! That bird should be in jail!
    Disgraceful and shocking isn't it? :D
    Electra wrote: »
    Pointless 'whataboutery'. This thread is about one woman's reaction to being whistled at.
    And don't we know it too!

    What next....a ban on whistling?
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    Kaz159Kaz159 Posts: 11,824
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    flower 2 wrote: »
    I miss those days of being wolf whistled .... :(

    I was going to post the same, many a year since I got a whistle :cry:
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    Bulletguy1Bulletguy1 Posts: 18,429
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    I've never had hose days

    Ah what must it be like to be attractive :(
    She's 23......bib won't last forever! ;-)

    One day she will be a fat old frump that nobody will look twice at let alone once!
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Electra wrote: »
    That's on her own terms & she's entitled to do it. It doesn't give every passing neanderthal carte blanche to single her out on the street. She's not 'asking for it'.

    No one said she was asking for it :confused:

    But to sit and cry sexual harassment when posting selfies like that speaks volumes about this story.
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Vulpes wrote: »
    Does this woman wolf whistle at you every day?

    Does it matter? Its a wolf whistle either way.
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    Bulletguy1Bulletguy1 Posts: 18,429
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    No one said she was asking for it :confused:

    But to sit and cry sexual harassment when posting selfies like that speaks volumes about this story.
    Exactly! It doesn't do much for her case does it? Popette Poppy is hardly some shy little wallflower.
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    VulpesVulpes Posts: 1,504
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    Does it matter? Its a wolf whistle either way.

    WelI, yes, it kinda does. There would be no story had it been a one-off occasion.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    Bulletguy1 wrote: »
    She's 23......bib won't last forever! ;-)

    One day she will be a fat old frump that nobody will look twice at let alone once!

    Ah, I'm a fat frump no one looks twice at now lol
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    Sorcha_27Sorcha_27 Posts: 138,869
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    Bulletguy1 wrote: »
    Exactly! It doesn't do much for her case does it? Popette Poppy is hardly some shy little wallflower.

    So anyone who isn't a covered up little timid frump is a liar and deserves harassment
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    HeavySaurusHeavySaurus Posts: 4,767
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    No one said she was asking for it :confused:

    But to sit and cry sexual harassment when posting selfies like that speaks volumes about this story.

    Oh good lord. This really is starting to sound like rape-apologism. Would you be making that same argument if she was actually assaulted? Where is the line where those selfies can still be used as an excuse? Is a tap on the bottom still ok? A proper grab? Grinding against her?
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    ElectraElectra Posts: 55,660
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    Stiggles wrote: »
    No one said she was asking for it :confused:

    But to sit and cry sexual harassment when posting selfies like that speaks volumes about this story.

    Only in the minds of warped misogynists
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    charliesayscharliesays Posts: 1,367
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    Bulletguy1 wrote: »
    She's 23......bib won't last forever! ;-)

    One day she will be a fat old frump that nobody will look twice at let alone once!

    I dunno. There's plenty of desperate dirty old men out there...
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    HeavySaurusHeavySaurus Posts: 4,767
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    Bulletguy1 wrote: »
    Exactly! It doesn't do much for her case does it? Popette Poppy is hardly some shy little wallflower.

    Are you saying it'd be less ok if he was a shy girl next door type?

    This is exactly what happens when women report harassment, minor or more serious. Her personal history gets examined, as if that excuses being an asshole towards her.
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Oh good lord. This really is starting to sound like rape-apologism. Would you be making that same argument if she was actually assaulted? Where is the line where those selfies can still be used as an excuse? Is a tap on the bottom still ok? A proper grab? Grinding against her?

    What on earth are you talking about? Rape, grab?..... :confused:

    Anyway, of course i wouldn't. It was a whistle. Nothing more no matter how much you want to think it was.
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    StigglesStiggles Posts: 9,618
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    Electra wrote: »
    Only in the minds of warped misogynists

    Yeah, of course...
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    SOHCAHTOA88SOHCAHTOA88 Posts: 2,314
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    Are you saying it'd be less ok if he was a shy girl next door type?

    This is exactly what happens when women report harassment, minor or more serious. Her personal history gets examined, as if that excuses being an asshole towards her.

    This.

    A couple of selfies and people have determined her personality and her motivation.
    That's a bit of a reach.
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