I am in same situation, dont have a single friend (used to have them but they soon go their own way and you lose touch), plus dont have any family either as totally disowned them years ago.
Despite being gay people expect me to be out pubs and clubs every week and have huge social circle but not the case, i dont do the pub scene and clubs not for me. Plus gay people use you, they say they want to be friends but they just get to know you draw you into false sense of friendship sleep with you then never hear from you again.
I was an only child so am used to being on own but now am 41 feel lonely at times as no one to socilise with plus being unemployed too does not help.
In a way technology is partly to blame, years ago peple actually made effort to get to know one another but now its iphones, facebook and such like, its all virtual and traditional things seem forgotten
having a social life costs money and when you do not have that it hits you hard.
Are there other people on here who don't have any like me?
I went to boarding school so never got to make friends locally. I have only a couple of friends but they are good friends. I have lots if aquaintances though... people I socialise with
I am in same situation, dont have a single friend (used to have them but they soon go their own way and you lose touch), plus dont have any family either as totally disowned them years ago.
Despite being gay people expect me to be out pubs and clubs every week and have huge social circle but not the case, i dont do the pub scene and clubs not for me. Plus gay people use you, they say they want to be friends but they just get to know you draw you into false sense of friendship sleep with you then never hear from you again.
I was an only child so am used to being on own but now am 41 feel lonely at times as no one to socilise with plus being unemployed too does not help.
In a way technology is partly to blame, years ago peple actually made effort to get to know one another but now its iphones, facebook and such like, its all virtual and traditional things seem forgotten
having a social life costs money and when you do not have that it hits you hard.
I think you've hit the nail on the head. We do seem to be communicating more and more through technology rather than face to face.
Whenever I hear about someone with no friends, I'm always reminded of an eccentric East German dissident in the 1980's, who's only "friend" turned out to be an alcoholic Stasi operative sent to keep an eye on him, and spent all his time at his flat drinking and bringing women back.
Later on, in the 1990's the dissident (then completely free of course) expressed shock and disappointment when released papers revealed exactly who his "friend" actually was.
Whenever I hear about someone with no friends, I'm always reminded of an eccentric East German dissident in the 1980's, who's only "friend" turned out to be an alcoholic Stasi operative sent to keep an eye on him, and spent all his time at his flat drinking and bringing women back.
Later on, in the 1990's the dissident (then completely free of course) expressed shock and disappointment when released papers revealed exactly who his "friend" actually was.
Plus gay people use you, they say they want to be friends but they just get to know you draw you into false sense of friendship sleep with you then never hear from you again.
I wasn't going to but I think this needs addressing. So all gay people use each other and there are never friendly relationships? Let's be frank, it sounds as if you may have had a couple or perhaps more plausible number of bad experiences where you have based this assumption on. Not good for you but you can't tar every gay person with the same brush.
Also please remember not fit into a stereotype because people think because you are gay you should be doing something. There are several clubs etc where other gay people hang out that may have similar interest where you could make friends. Not all gay people are out to have sex with you and push you out the door. That is simply not true.
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I like you. You make points...Which is more than Chel...Ahhh never mind, you see where I'm going with this.
Oh you bitch
Finish 2nd in the league, win the Europa league (:() win the F.A cup. Wont be too bad.
Southampton should do well in the championship next season :D
He DOES have a serious side. :eek:
He'll be debating God alongside you next.
Yeah you're right, we'll be coming back from 2-0 down every week so you'll be in good company!
Chelsea for example. They'll take anyone.
*middle finger*
Despite being gay people expect me to be out pubs and clubs every week and have huge social circle but not the case, i dont do the pub scene and clubs not for me. Plus gay people use you, they say they want to be friends but they just get to know you draw you into false sense of friendship sleep with you then never hear from you again.
I was an only child so am used to being on own but now am 41 feel lonely at times as no one to socilise with plus being unemployed too does not help.
In a way technology is partly to blame, years ago peple actually made effort to get to know one another but now its iphones, facebook and such like, its all virtual and traditional things seem forgotten
having a social life costs money and when you do not have that it hits you hard.
That Chelsea's intimidating the ref tactics? Or is that the amount of times that you're gonna have beaten us by the end of the season?
Lol, all the refs are against us mate.
Yeah yeah yeah...It's a conspiracy I tellz ya! Look over there, there's the men in white coats!
*gives hug*
You been up all night Joe?
I sure have Missy
Good morning to you
Good morning yourself. :cool:
How come you haven't been to sleep?
I slept quite abit on and off yesterday so i'm wide awake.
That, and i've been up all night thinking about how gorgeous you are
I went to boarding school so never got to make friends locally. I have only a couple of friends but they are good friends. I have lots if aquaintances though... people I socialise with
Pass me a bucket, I think I'm gonna puke!
:yawn:
/l\
Lol
Ok i deserve that
I think you've hit the nail on the head. We do seem to be communicating more and more through technology rather than face to face.
Later on, in the 1990's the dissident (then completely free of course) expressed shock and disappointment when released papers revealed exactly who his "friend" actually was.
Do you?
I just think, poor friendless person.
I wasn't going to but I think this needs addressing. So all gay people use each other and there are never friendly relationships? Let's be frank, it sounds as if you may have had a couple or perhaps more plausible number of bad experiences where you have based this assumption on. Not good for you but you can't tar every gay person with the same brush.
Also please remember not fit into a stereotype because people think because you are gay you should be doing something. There are several clubs etc where other gay people hang out that may have similar interest where you could make friends. Not all gay people are out to have sex with you and push you out the door. That is simply not true.