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Have you ever been heart broken?
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I haven't but I'm only 20 so the last time I felt heart ache was when S Club 7 split up and Anastacia's last album flopped.
Seriously though, has a relationship ever left you broken hearted?
Seriously though, has a relationship ever left you broken hearted?
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That guy was everything I ever wanted and thought we were perfect together. Distance & his situation (being in the closet in a small Westcountry town) got in the way though. It took me months to get over it & I still think about him sometimes 18 months later
My ex fiance of 5years ran off with a Spanish girl and broke my heart, I was a mess for a few years
I can echo this:(
I don't think you ever entirely come to terms with it. Or at least, I never have. Somebody will doubtless chip in and say give it time, time heals all wounds, etc etc, but it's been 20 years - how long am I supposed to give it?
yes its so painful.I would liken it to an adict without their fix.recently i heard this person had died of cancer.my only thought was if it had resulted in marraige I would be a young widow.
When my first proper-ish boyfriend dumped me I felt heartbroken for about 24 hours, and howled the sodding place down, then got over it completely. It was odd.
Similar here but I was in my 30s
I was a wreck and will be eternally grateful to those who understood and helped me through those dark and somewhat self destructive times.
I've matured and learned to be more forgiving of foibles and am now very happily married to someone else (ten year anniversary coming up soon!) but I'll never forget that feeling of rejection and utter despair. I suppose it gave me more empathy and made me more determined to make things work with my husband, to learn to back down and see things from someone else's point of view. In a way, it did me a favour as it made me a better person.
Yes.
When I was about 21, I met the most beautiful woman ever, personality and looks wise. She was absolutely stunning and by that I mean sensational. She was of mixed race (Australian/Asian) with lovely long black curly hair. No woman I've seen since then has even come close. Unfortunately, I was too young at the time (I was a student), to take on the responsibility of having a full time relationship and getting married. This probably explains why I am single to this day.
I still use the expression 'well'. That's what she used to say to me during breaks in conversations. I still pine after her to this day, 27 years later.
Do you ever wonder if she still thinks of you?
look her up.
I wonder, but see post below.
I don't know where she is.
Which is strange as I've been in a long term relationship that broke up. I became emotionally detached even to myself- it was like I was living each day as though I were a passive observer of my own actions.
The only time I've truly been heartbroken is when I'd been craving a piece of tiramisu all day at Uni and I got back to find my flatmate had eaten it.
Yeah, being an avid coin collector, when I missed out on a fantastic 1869 penny on e bay a year or so back.
Seriously though, on an emotional level, no. Never. I guess I'm just not that devastated when either rejected or dumped. Too much else to be interested in.
Met another girl..if the same happens, that's it with relationships, i'll go it alone for the rest of my final yrs...I'm 55 at the mo