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'Christian Firm' Refuses To Print Gay Couple's Invitations

pburke90pburke90 Posts: 14,758
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As per the title, and a similar case last year in Northern Ireland, a Republic of Ireland company has refused to print invitations for a gay customer on the basis of their strongly held religious beliefs.

http://bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-31753375

The usual lines are trotted out, including not wanting to support the "gay agenda" (we must stop doing that as a group) and also that the owners are incredibly religious, Christian, Bible loving people... (but just only the parts of the Bible that suit them, obviously).

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    itscoldoutsideitscoldoutside Posts: 3,190
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    Their business, Their rules.

    I do think once its reported its so the gay couple can get attention. Even if they want it or not.
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    BastardBeaverBastardBeaver Posts: 11,903
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    I don't understand how these stories are making the media.

    If I didn't know they were a Christian company who were against it, I would let them personally know I was disappointed and then move on to another company.

    If I did know they were a Christian company against what I wanted, I would just go straight to another company.
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    jenziejenzie Posts: 20,821
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    once again, their "beliefs" should not reflect their "business", otherwise they'll lose them .....
    just go somewhere else, one that isn't so one dimensional!
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    pburke90pburke90 Posts: 14,758
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    Their business, Their rules.
    So, if they refused to serve a Muslim or a black person you'd still say the same thing?

    If you open a business to the public, you serve the public, not only who you want to serve.
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    itscoldoutsideitscoldoutside Posts: 3,190
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    Paddy C wrote: »
    So, if they refused to serve a Muslim or a black person you'd still say the same thing?

    If you open a business to the public, you serve the public, not only who you want to serve.

    A pub can ban people it does not like.

    I would just go somewhere else, not report it to everyone under the sun to get it blown into a big thing.
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    MidnightFalconMidnightFalcon Posts: 15,016
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    Paddy C wrote: »
    If you open a business to the public, you serve the public, not only who you want to serve.

    it's a business not a public service. The only thing a business server is it's own bottom line, in this case to it's own detriment.

    No one can be forced to take on a contract.
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    Raquelos.Raquelos. Posts: 7,734
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    I don't understand how these stories are making the media.

    If I didn't know they were a Christian company who were against it, I would let them personally know I was disappointed and then move on to another company.

    If I did know they were a Christian company against what I wanted, I would just go straight to another company.

    If we allow that this is acceptable on the grounds of religious belief what else should we accept, discrimination on the basis of gender, race, not holding the same set of religious beliefs? Where does it end? Shoplifting for Jesus? After all he was all about giving to the poor.

    Discrimination like this is not okay, the fact that these bigots are trying to take refuge in their religious beliefs doesn't make it any more acceptable.
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    David_Flanagan1David_Flanagan1 Posts: 303
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    Im not supporting the religious and their ability to discriminate but im not comfortable with using the law to force people business to produce any product.
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    KarlSomethingKarlSomething Posts: 3,529
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    A pub can ban people it does not like.

    I would just go somewhere else, not report it to everyone under the sun to get it blown into a big thing.

    I think that's what should happen, if it's not something that's going to be dealt with by law. Everyone should know about their business practices, so that they can avoid supporting the business if they don't agree with discriminating against people on the basis of gender. Through word of mouth, journalism, or they should unequivocally announce to all potential customers all of what they're going to discriminate on the basis of.
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    Chester666666Chester666666 Posts: 9,020
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    Im not supporting the religious and their ability to discriminate but im not comfortable with using the law to force people business to produce any product.
    It's just making sure a business doesn't discriminate
    The business needs to produce products or close
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    scottie2121scottie2121 Posts: 11,284
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    David_Flanagan1David_Flanagan1 Posts: 303
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    So long as they would refuse to derve the product to a person of any sexuality then i respect their right to refusal. Although i would be left thinking they are backward religous types but hey ho if thats there thing.
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    itscoldoutsideitscoldoutside Posts: 3,190
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    I don't care what laws or regulations say on this matter, a person who owns a business should do as they wish.
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    scottie2121scottie2121 Posts: 11,284
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    A pub can ban people it does not like.

    Wrong again. A pub can't just ban someone because, for example, they are gay.
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    VDUBsterVDUBster Posts: 1,423
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    Whilst I don't respect their reasoning, I respect that they have a right to decline their custom.
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    itscoldoutsideitscoldoutside Posts: 3,190
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    Wrong again. A pub can't just ban someone because, for example, they are gay.

    Not from what I have seen regarding to people they don't like, not gays but just people they don't like.
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    BastardBeaverBastardBeaver Posts: 11,903
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    Raquelos. wrote: »
    If we allow that this is acceptable on the grounds of religious belief what else should we accept, discrimination on the basis of gender, race, not holding the same set of religious beliefs? Where does it end? Shoplifting for Jesus? After all he was all about giving to the poor.

    Discrimination like this is not okay, the fact that these bigots are trying to take refuge in their religious beliefs doesn't make it any more acceptable.

    I'm not saying it's acceptable. I'm saying why use their service and give them your money if they are against you. It's their loss IMO.

    Edit: you also sound close to the view point of saying churches should have to marry gay people or face discriminatory charges.
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    scottie2121scottie2121 Posts: 11,284
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    I don't care what laws or regulations say on this matter, a person who owns a business should do as they wish.

    You don't care what the law says?

    Ok.


    But you're still wrong when you say 'their business, their rules'.
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    scottie2121scottie2121 Posts: 11,284
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    VDUBster wrote: »
    Whilst I don't respect their reasoning, I respect that they have a right to decline their custom.

    However they don't have that right - and that's how it should be.
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    itscoldoutsideitscoldoutside Posts: 3,190
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    You don't care what the law says?

    Ok.


    But you're still wrong when you say 'their business, their rules'.

    What is said and what is done, are two different things. As we have seen in this case.
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    scottie2121scottie2121 Posts: 11,284
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    Not from what I have seen regarding to people they don't like, not gays but just people they don't like.

    You banned from many then? ;-)

    A pub may ban people on certain grounds but what they can't do is discriminate. Do you think they should be able to . . i.e. their pub, their rules?
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    jonner101jonner101 Posts: 3,410
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    I don't care what laws or regulations say on this matter, a person who owns a business should do as they wish.

    So would it be ok to open a pub but ban black people ?

    If your privately doing stuff as a favour then fair enough but when you are providing a service then you have a certain responsibility.

    I suppose you would say if they had a job opportunity then it would be ok to reject a job application because they found out the person was gay.
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    VDUBsterVDUBster Posts: 1,423
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    However they don't have that right - and that's how it should be.

    That gays must have what they want, because them not getting what they want is automatically classed as discrimination?
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    Old EndeavourOld Endeavour Posts: 9,852
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    I don't care what laws or regulations say on this matter, a person who owns a business should do as they wish.

    Sorry, YOU ARE WRONG!

    Live here? Follow the country's LAWS!

    You know, that nice Tory party that brought in same sex marriage and so they are all for it and people should not be allowed (and are not) to discriminate against people based on sexuality.

    And all from a bunch of people who can't back up a word of their nonsense.

    Run a business? Follow the regulations or don't start one if you can't follow them. Shall we drop some health and safety regulations if for silly reasons some people don't want to?
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    Raquelos.Raquelos. Posts: 7,734
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    I'm not saying it's acceptable. I'm saying why use their service and give them your money if they are against you. It's their loss IMO.

    Edit: you also sound close to the view point of saying churches should have to marry gay people or face discriminatory charges.

    I would be perfectly comfortable with that tbh :).

    I don't think that religious belief confers the right to discriminate with impunity. A person's beliefs are their own affair but their actions should be subject to the same laws as every one else.
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