Parents:"everyones Proud Of You" Why???!!!

Icabod CraneIcabod Crane Posts: 1,414
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Why do parents/partners always come in or send letters and messages saying "youre doing brilliantly, everyone is SO proud of you" why?? Why proud? Its ridiculous, especially Caseys mother, proud of her daughter, who has her tits photographed for people to wink off to, for sitting on her arse and acting like a dog on heat, talking about blow jobs and how horny she is??!!! Proud? Really?????>:(
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  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    I agree with you, Casey's antics on the show weren't really anything to be proud of. I'd be embarrassed and concerned if I had a daughter who went on tv and made a fool of herself like she did and acting like a bimbo. I think she's quite sweet and harmless, though naive and a bit thick.
  • StrangeStrange Posts: 14,952
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    So if you were in there you would rather your parents come in and say everyone hates you and your making yourself look like a twat?
  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    So if you were in there you would rather your parents come in and say everyone hates you and your making yourself look like a twat?
    I wouldn't tell for example Casey, that everyone hates her, but I'd tell her to fix up get a bloody grip!
  • SertiusSertius Posts: 269
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    I do agree that for many housemates the word 'proud' does seem to be misused too frequently. Casey's mother appears to have rather misplaced notions of what to be prod of in a daughter. Whilst society calls her a 'glamour model' what she actually does is show her body off in publications for:
    people to wink off to>:(

    The reality is that Casey works in the sex industry. She sells her body for money. Something to be really proud of.
  • flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    Why do parents/partners always come in or send letters and messages saying "youre doing brilliantly, everyone is SO proud of you" why?? Why proud? Its ridiculous, especially Caseys mother, proud of her daughter, who has her tits photographed for people to wink off to, for sitting on her arse and acting like a dog on heat, talking about blow jobs and how horny she is??!!! Proud? Really?????>:(

    I have always found that hard to fathom too.
  • Dante AmecheDante Ameche Posts: 20,692
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    I think proud is often wrongly used by the friends and family, however, nowt wrong with a little encouragement and letting them know they're still loved no matter how much of a prat they've made of themselves.

    No problem with Casey but if Luisa was my daughter, I'd be ashamed and it would have to be another member of the family going in the house to see her because what I would have to say to her wouldn't be aired.
  • flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    I think proud is often wrongly used by the friends and family, however, nowt wrong with a little encouragement and letting them know they're still loved no matter how much of a prat they've made of themselves.

    No problem with Casey but if Luisa was my daughter, I'd be ashamed and it would have to be another member of the family going in the house to see her because what I would have to say to her wouldn't be aired.


    BIB..and a clip round the earhole when they get out :D
  • Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.

    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.
  • flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.

    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.


    Before page 3 'Glamour' had such a different meaning.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,138
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.

    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.

    See story in todays paper Daily Star her antics with Jas 7n the house ! Soft porn ! yuk
  • BunionsBunions Posts: 14,995
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.
    I would.

    I'd feel like a massive failure if my daughter felt that all she had to offer the world was look at her rack :(
    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.
    If she was childless it wouldn't have bothered me at all.

    I felt sorry for her little girl though who will grow up to hear all about it and probably not in a nice way.
  • VeriVeri Posts: 96,996
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    MIKKIL wrote: »
    See story in todays paper Daily Star her antics with Jas 7n the house ! Soft porn ! yuk

    Has anyone actually read the story, or are they as usual going by only a picture of the cover and then making assumptions?
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  • flower 2flower 2 Posts: 13,585
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    Veri wrote: »
    Has anyone actually read the story, or are they as usual going by only a picture of the cover and then making assumptions?


    Nothing is left for us to assume, it is all out and proud.
  • cavallicavalli Posts: 18,738
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    Veri wrote: »
    Has anyone actually read the story, or are they as usual going by only a picture of the cover and then making assumptions?

    The story is available ;-)
  • BunionsBunions Posts: 14,995
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    Veri wrote: »
    Has anyone actually read the story, or are they as usual going by only a picture of the cover and then making assumptions?
    Well Veri we have:

    a. Luisa of the sex parties/multiple partners-a-night kinda gal
    b. Jasmine the beautiful sex-bomb
    c. The Star 'newspaper'

    I think making assumptions about it being soft-pornesque is permissible in this instance :D
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 68,508
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.

    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.

    I don't think the BB house is a place for a mother, meeting her homesick and tearful daughter, to tell her on camera that she is looking silly and desperate, do you? Casey seeemed a nice girl to me, she needed a bit of tlc, and of course her mother gave it, what mother wouldn't?

    And if you are the parent of a BB housemate you really do have to have a thick skin. I remember Kinga's parents appearing on BBLB just after the incident with the wine bottle, and being asked, "Is she always like that?" - and her stepfather nodding with perfect cheerfulness and saying, yes she is. I would find it agony having a child on BB; I can't bear to see them upset or going through any kind of hard time. I would be breaking the door down with a sledgehammer the moment they shed a tear. I remember Grace's mother threatening to have her airlifted out, and I don't blame her.

    I also think friends and family are extremely limited as to what they are allowed to say. "We are all proud of you and you are doing so well" seems to be about the limit; no "BOTS has been really anti recently, try to be a bit livelier" or "the press has been making fun of your romance so ease off a bit".
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    I don't think the BB house is a place for a mother, meeting her homesick and tearful daughter, to tell her on camera that she is looking silly and desperate, do you? Casey seeemed a nice girl to me, she needed a bit of tlc, and of course her mother gave it, what mother wouldn't?

    And if you are the parent of a BB housemate you really do have to have a thick skin. I remember Kinga's parents appearing on BBLB just after the incident with the wine bottle, and being asked, "Is she always like that?" - and her stepfather nodding with perfect cheerfulness and saying, yes she is. I would find it agony having a child on BB; I can't bear to see them upset or going through any kind of hard time. I would be breaking the door down with a sledgehammer the moment they shed a tear. I remember Grace's mother threatening to have her airlifted out, and I don't blame her.

    I also think friends and family are extremely limited as to what they are allowed to say. "We are all proud of you and you are doing so well" seems to be about the limit; no "BOTS has been really anti recently, try to be a bit livelier" or "the press has been making fun of your romance so ease off a bit".

    As a parent and Grandparent, I also think that children need to 'Face up' to their mistakes on their own.
  • Icabod CraneIcabod Crane Posts: 1,414
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    So if you were in there you would rather your parents come in and say everyone hates you and your making yourself look like a twat?

    If everyone hated me, and I was making myself look a ****, then I would expect my nearest and dearest to tell me!!
  • Icabod CraneIcabod Crane Posts: 1,414
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    If have no problem if my daughter was a glamour model. Casey's silliness and desperation would be something to be ashamed of, not her job.

    I'd so be ashamed of Luisa's antics - letting Dappy suck her nipples springs to mind.

    I would rather my daughter did 40hrs a week in Poundstretcher, and earned an honest wage rather than the easy option of getting her knockers out for the lads:confused:
  • Malc LondonMalc London Posts: 2,119
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    Casey has a lovely pretty face and a nice body. Why shouldn't she show it off? Not everyone is so blessed but there's nothing to be ashamed of at being naked. We only wear clothes to keep warm.

    If Casey can make a living by being photographed then good for her. There are other people doing things which are shameful but there is nothing wrong with building a modelling career. And she is very good at it.
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    Yep, it's a load of shite.
  • Malc LondonMalc London Posts: 2,119
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    Seems only ugly people complain about beauty.
    :)
  • Blondie XBlondie X Posts: 28,662
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    I did laugh when Sam's mum told her she was doing brilliantly and everyone was proud of her. Doing brilliantly at what? All she really managed to do for a month was to stay alive in a different house to her own - well done love
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    Blondie X wrote: »
    I did laugh when Sam's mum told her she was doing brilliantly and everyone was proud of her. Doing brilliantly at what? All she really managed to do for a month was to stay alive in a different house to her own - well done love

    Me too. I was so pleased she was voted out first in the final. Did she really believe all she had to do was .... well, nothing?
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