My gf won't wear a skirt because she hates her legs and she always complains after she shaves that they are constantly itchy. Do all women get that? Makes me feel guilty.
I sometimes scratch my legs until they bleed after I shave them
I dress for comfort! Not comfortable in short skirts, so even if I'm going out it's either trousers or a long dress. It helps that I have a fabulous bottom :cool:
Never really thought that anyone's going to be looking at me though, so ehhh, I dunno the answer to the original question
My gf won't wear a skirt because she hates her legs and she always complains after she shaves that they are constantly itchy. Do all women get that? Makes me feel guilty.
I do. I hate shaving because no matter how much I moisturise afterwards and in the days following, my legs end up ridiculously itchy and I end up scratching them to pieces.
I tend to dress for myself, though I admit, on a night out, this sometimes includes cleavage. My boobs are my best bit, I hate the rest of me (usually wear thick black tights, or trousers on a night out, as I hate my legs), so I like to, I suppose, take the focus off what I perceive to be my bad bits, by focusing on what I perceive to be the better bits of me. Does that make sense? My 'normal' day-to-day wear tends to be hoodie & jeans.
I dress how I please, i do want to be attractive to the opposite sex im a woman and i want men to find me attractive and i dont mind admitting that so when i go out i dress to please myself and others. When im at home i slob about tho.
You've not met any of these people or I suspect, highly unlikely?
If it's companionship you're after then surely, there's plenty more beyond an internet message board??
I appreciate, if it's genuine research, but on the whole if anything, you should have a fair idea of what's what.
The way the world works to a large degree is hypocritical - men will get the blame if their manners or face don't fit.
What an oddly touchy response.
I have plenty female friends and admittedly ok - exes lol.
I agree men get the blame for the staring and hassling that they think women are inviting regardless.
I was asking for research as I am arguing elsewhere that women who dress revealingly are not 'sluts who are asking for it'. Also in my culture some single women dress revealing but are virgins so I am doing a quick check round to ensure I'm not way off the mark.
I have seen many women dress in miniskirts then go to male gay bars so they are not hassled. They still feel attractive but they clearly aren't after sex.
I do assume that they dress that way so they look attractive to men, but also because other women look the same and it's about fitting in socially and having a good time.
A woman dressed conservatively in a bar with her friends would be judged as dull and boring by everyone, not just men.
I don't think theres anything wrong with dressing revealingly or sleping around but I just think what you wear does not make you a ****, being a **** does. (I also would never use the word '****' personally since men are in clubs for similar and possibly more sexual reasons but wear t-shirts mainly).
My point would be that you can't judge a person's motives or availability by their clothes.
both, but it doesn`t matter what top i wear other than a massive baggy t-shirt because anything else looks provocative. i never wear anything revealing at both ends at once.
Dressing for yourself and dressing for attention are not mutally exclusive.
I think this is what I was getting at! Thanks.
But I don't get why most lesbians don't dress sexy. Do they dress to fit with other lesbians because I would think gay women like to look at tits and bums too.
I don't generally dress revealing. I only get my legs out on the beach or at the pool which is very rarely, and I'd say I wear low cut tops or dresses about 50% of the time, and never because I want to show my boobs off. I have about four dresses that have low necklines and I wear them because they're simple, pretty, flattering and extremely comfy. I have a couple that double as daytime scrubbing about or going to uni dresses if I throw a t-shirt or hoody over the top of them. I've been known to dress for individual men in some (generally private) situations, but never for 'men' as a whole.
I always wear very feminine skirts or dresses. My OH is a leg man and hates lots of cleavage showing on any woman. I suppose I dress to please him but I like what I wear.
I dress how I please, i do want to be attractive to the opposite sex im a woman and i want men to find me attractive and i dont mind admitting that so when i go out i dress to please myself and others. When im at home i slob about tho.
Having seen you're photos even when you are "slobbing about" you still look fantastic
I don't go on evenings these days out and on the few times I have I felt deeply self conscious in a skirt and blouse. They just aren't my clothes. T-shirt and jeans is me. Ho-hum.
Don't even get me started on the hell that is high heeled shoes.
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Oh lol, touché
I sometimes scratch my legs until they bleed after I shave them
I dress for comfort! Not comfortable in short skirts, so even if I'm going out it's either trousers or a long dress. It helps that I have a fabulous bottom :cool:
Never really thought that anyone's going to be looking at me though, so ehhh, I dunno the answer to the original question
I do. I hate shaving because no matter how much I moisturise afterwards and in the days following, my legs end up ridiculously itchy and I end up scratching them to pieces.
I tend to dress for myself, though I admit, on a night out, this sometimes includes cleavage. My boobs are my best bit, I hate the rest of me (usually wear thick black tights, or trousers on a night out, as I hate my legs), so I like to, I suppose, take the focus off what I perceive to be my bad bits, by focusing on what I perceive to be the better bits of me. Does that make sense? My 'normal' day-to-day wear tends to be hoodie & jeans.
What an oddly touchy response.
I have plenty female friends and admittedly ok - exes lol.
I agree men get the blame for the staring and hassling that they think women are inviting regardless.
I was asking for research as I am arguing elsewhere that women who dress revealingly are not 'sluts who are asking for it'. Also in my culture some single women dress revealing but are virgins so I am doing a quick check round to ensure I'm not way off the mark.
I have seen many women dress in miniskirts then go to male gay bars so they are not hassled. They still feel attractive but they clearly aren't after sex.
I do assume that they dress that way so they look attractive to men, but also because other women look the same and it's about fitting in socially and having a good time.
A woman dressed conservatively in a bar with her friends would be judged as dull and boring by everyone, not just men.
I don't think theres anything wrong with dressing revealingly or sleping around but I just think what you wear does not make you a ****, being a **** does. (I also would never use the word '****' personally since men are in clubs for similar and possibly more sexual reasons but wear t-shirts mainly).
My point would be that you can't judge a person's motives or availability by their clothes.
I think this is what I was getting at! Thanks.
But I don't get why most lesbians don't dress sexy. Do they dress to fit with other lesbians because I would think gay women like to look at tits and bums too.
I've never owned a pair of trousers.
Ooh don't tell workhorse!
OH has no say in what I wear - ever - if he did he'd dress me like a streetwalker I am sure
thank you very much ! you must have missed the truely gross one with the lizard :P
hahaha its not there i chickend out and took it down ill send you it in a DM no laughin!
Can I see it too??
its baaaaaaaaaaaaaad Toon just died laughin but ok
Don't even get me started on the hell that is high heeled shoes.