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Britain's oldest IVF mum loses over £150,000 to an Internet dating website conman

HildaonplutoHildaonpluto Posts: 37,697
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http://www.mirror.co.uk/tv/tv-news/watch-britains-oldest-ivf-mum-5968436

She has given an interview saying she has been swindled out of £165,000 by a conman on an Internet dating website and now she and her young daughter have nothing.

A sad tale especially as her working life is near its end and she has a young daughter BUT how on earth does someone on a dating website persuade you to part with such a huge quantity of money :confused::o
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    bluebladeblueblade Posts: 88,859
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    "I'm not stupid I've got a very high IQ"

    Yeah right ^_^
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    day dreamerday dreamer Posts: 978
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    Oh dear. Something tells me she's not the sharpest tool in the box.

    Didn't she end up admitting that, as it turned out, she was actually far too old to have a baby at the age she did?

    I feel sorry for the daughter.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    blueblade wrote: »
    Yeah right ^_^

    my brother is a mensa member and he`d fall for a con.
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    grimtales1grimtales1 Posts: 46,695
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    Feel sorry for her and her daughter :(
    Just noticed this at the end of the story:

    'Susan previously caused a storm of controversy when she had daughter Freya and then broke up with the father' .

    Where is he now I wonder?
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    bluebladeblueblade Posts: 88,859
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    my brother is a mensa member and he`d fall for a con.

    Theoretical brilliance, real life stupidity.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    blueblade wrote: »
    Theoretical brilliance, real life stupidity.

    on another planet.

    my ex husband jokingly told him to oil his brake pads when his brakes started squeaking and he did.
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    EbonyHamsterEbonyHamster Posts: 8,175
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    What an idiot! (The woman I mean)
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    Blondie XBlondie X Posts: 28,662
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    What is it that makes these supposedly intelligent women behave in such a stupid way? Such a familiar tale and yet they don't seem to learn
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    Blondie X wrote: »
    What is it that makes these supposedly intelligent women behave in such a stupid way? Such a familiar tale and yet they don't seem to learn

    emotion, just the same as the men it happens to.
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    HildaonplutoHildaonpluto Posts: 37,697
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    blueblade wrote: »
    Yeah right ^_^

    Perhaps a high IQ but low emotional intelligence?
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    HildaonplutoHildaonpluto Posts: 37,697
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    Oh dear. Something tells me she's not the sharpest tool in the box.

    Didn't she end up admitting that, as it turned out, she was actually far too old to have a baby at the age she did?

    I feel sorry for the daughter.

    Did she dupe the IVF clinic or were they complicit?
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    gregrichardsgregrichards Posts: 4,913
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    Did she dupe the IVF clinic or were they complicit?

    It was a foreign clinic if I remember rightly no clinic here would do it.

    I have no sympathy for people who do idiotic things like this. Never give anyone even your own family money trust nobody especially people you have met online.
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    Dr. ClawDr. Claw Posts: 7,375
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    was once a thicko, is now a poor thicko
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    BluescopeBluescope Posts: 3,432
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    Maybe she should have been thinking about her 7 year old daughter more rather getting mixed up with conmen on dating sites.

    "But Susan, who hasn't ever met the conman, began to think something was seriously wrong when she went for a meeting with two businessmen who showed her how to PRINT money."

    You began to think something was wrong when you see people printing money. I would suggest without fail anyone who saw 2 blokes printing money outside of a banks secure printers would know it was wrong.

    Where was her daughter when she was off travelling the world meeting people who print money. This smacks of stupid women who go involved in criminal activity and saw a way to make some cheap and easy money. Seriously who hands over cash to people that print money and would believe it was legal.

    At least she will leave her daughter with one thing a lesson in life not to deal with criminals.
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    welshsarahwelshsarah Posts: 5,082
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    Was she on this morning
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    HildaonplutoHildaonpluto Posts: 37,697
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    welshsarah wrote: »
    Was she on this morning

    I believe so yes.
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    Bluescope wrote: »
    Maybe she should have been thinking about her 7 year old daughter more rather getting mixed up with conmen on dating sites.

    "But Susan, who hasn't ever met the conman, began to think something was seriously wrong when she went for a meeting with two businessmen who showed her how to PRINT money."

    You began to think something was wrong when you see people printing money. I would suggest without fail anyone who saw 2 blokes printing money outside of a banks secure printers would know it was wrong.

    Where was her daughter when she was off travelling the world meeting people who print money. This smacks of stupid women who go involved in criminal activity and saw a way to make some cheap and easy money. Seriously who hands over cash to people that print money and would believe it was legal.

    At least she will leave her daughter with one thing a lesson in life not to deal with criminals.

    I'm not sure I believe a word of what she is saying, if I'm honest. I cannot understand how anyone can be that thick to the extent of £165k, including all her own money, jewellery, property and loans from friends, and NOT smell a rat.

    I call shenanigans.
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    tellywatcher73tellywatcher73 Posts: 4,181
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    my brother is a mensa member and he`d fall for a con.

    We've got a saying "all brain but no common sense". I don't know if this woman is intelligent or not but if she is academically gifted then I would definitely put her into this category.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    We've got a saying "all brain but no common sense". I don't know if this woman is intelligent or not but if she is academically gifted then I would definitely put her into this category.

    to be honest i don`t think it has anything at all to do with intelligence, it`s about vulnerability, temporary or permanent and scammer`s catching a lucky ride.

    i do find the victim blaming kind of crap that people peddle with these stories is rather vile and wonder what tune these people would play if it was their lonely and vulnerable relative, friend or neighbour getting scammed.
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    Pisces CloudPisces Cloud Posts: 30,239
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    Some very intelligent people can still lack common sense or emotional intelligence.
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    gulliverfoylegulliverfoyle Posts: 6,318
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    just a sad lonely desperate woman like all these stories

    I never understand how people consider themselves "in love" or "in relationships"

    or hand over thousands to someone theyve never met?

    I suppose its like the saddos on FB who have 689 "friends" again 90% that theyve never met or likely to either
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    codebluecodeblue Posts: 14,072
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    stupid is as stupid does
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    SJ_MentalSJ_Mental Posts: 16,138
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    blueblade wrote: »
    Yeah right ^_^

    I see IQ a bit like warehousing space, It's what you stock it with that proves its worth.

    Everyone has strengths you can have the most brilliant academic mind, But no common sense.
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    ShrikeShrike Posts: 16,607
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    When reading these cases, its easy to think WTF:confused: how can you fall for that? But these con-artists are very good at what they do, they do seem very plausible and they work the long-game.
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