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What should I do about my neighbours?

kirbyreedkirbyreed Posts: 1,816
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My neighbours are extremely noisy. There are a couple with five kids and an alsatian (alsation?). We often hear the mum and dad yelling at each other and telling the kids to 'f*ck off' an calling them wan*ers, pri*cks, twa*s, everything! This has caused the kids to grow up as loud and, their 4 year old regularly tells people to fu*k off, and sticks his middle finger up. Their youngest daughter is always grounded and it seems like she gets unfair treatment. I feel like I should do something, but I don't if i should or if there's anything I can do. Any advice?

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    Alt-F4Alt-F4 Posts: 10,960
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    Tell them to keep the noise down
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 32,379
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    If you are concerned about the children then phone social services.
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    lea_uklea_uk Posts: 9,648
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    woodbush wrote: »
    If you are concerned about the children then phone social services.

    I agree.
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    mred2000mred2000 Posts: 10,050
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    Noise issues will involve contacting the local council/Environmental Health office and filling in a diary of instances over a 2+ week period and then they'll take it from there, which could involve random visits, mediation or various other things they employ...
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    paulmasterpaulmaster Posts: 237
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    i would go round and put a brick through there window with a note tied 2 brick sayin keep the f**kin noise down or else
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    paulmasterpaulmaster Posts: 237
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    woodbush wrote: »
    If you are concerned about the children then phone social services.

    if you dont wana go with brick idear this idear
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    c4rvc4rv Posts: 29,622
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    paulmaster wrote: »
    i would go round and put a brick through there window with a note tied 2 brick sayin keep the f**kin noise down or else

    Are you sober at the moment ?
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    billyboy789billyboy789 Posts: 1,373
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    paulmaster wrote: »
    i would go round and put a brick through there window with a note tied 2 brick sayin keep the f**kin noise down or else


    Yeah, that's going to help.
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    paulmasterpaulmaster Posts: 237
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    c4rv wrote: »
    Are you sober at the moment ?

    stupid question ive been drinkin since 7ish this morning
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    paulmasterpaulmaster Posts: 237
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    billyboy789 wrote: »
    Yeah, that's going to help.

    i did say if u dont like that idear ring social in post underneith
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    ejmejm Posts: 3,515
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    paulmaster wrote: »
    i did say if u dont like that idear ring social in post underneith

    No you didn't. You posted something, but didn't quite get to 'ring the social'.

    OP - Ring Social Services and ask their advice,
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    ba_baracusba_baracus Posts: 3,236
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    woodbush wrote: »
    If you are concerned about the children then phone social services.

    On what grounds? That the parents are chavs and the kids are showing signs of becoming chavs too? :rolleyes:

    As great as it would be for chavs to have their kids taken away from them in order to end the cycle, I am not sure that social services will intervene unless there is a threat to the kids welfare.
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    rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    mred2000 wrote: »
    Noise issues will involve contacting the local council/Environmental Health office and filling in a diary of instances over a 2+ week period and then they'll take it from there, which could involve random visits, mediation or various other things they employ...
    woodbush wrote: »
    If you are concerned about the children then phone social services.

    With either of those suggestions I suspect that if the neighbours are as bad as they sound the OP will most likely get hassle because they will probably find out one way or the other who shopped them.

    It is a catch 22 but neighbours are pricks at the worst of times.
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    technology_lovetechnology_love Posts: 3,179
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    Do your neighbours refer you to as "bruv" and say "innit" a lot?

    Anyway, post your problem at www.nfh.org.uk - you will get some more helpful replies there.

    I feel your pain with selfish neighbours, they are the worst.
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    bridgetbbridgetb Posts: 835
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    My concern is for the dog.
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    gulliverfoylegulliverfoyle Posts: 6,318
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    cut out letters from the newspaper and send it to them saying

    I know where you live ;-)
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    mred2000mred2000 Posts: 10,050
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    rbdcay wrote: »
    With either of those suggestions I suspect that if the neighbours are as bad as they sound the OP will most likely get hassle because they will probably find out one way or the other who shopped them.

    It is a catch 22 but neighbours are pricks at the worst of times.

    As long as mediation isn't entered into, neither environmental health or the police can tell the noisy neighbours who has "shopped them".
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    Poor dog :(
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