What does he think is going to happen with someone in Canada anyway?
She told him that it would be easy for him to get a job if he moved over !!! :mad: she wants him to go over there !! and I was thinking of getting passport for him this month for us to go on holidays !! ha ha like hell is that happening now !
Cant get into his account now but he is on line right now through his mobile phone !! I think that I need to get in the car and drive for a few hours cause the more Im sitting here with him upstair the more worked up Im getting !!! :mad:
How do you know he's on it at the moment? If I was you I'd just go and have it out with him, nothing is going to get any better if you stew on it, and it wasn't as if you went snooping on purpose.
Yeah I'd talk to him. He may just have given into the temptation of flirting with someone he knows he will never meet or be with, but it's still wrong imho. The internet is evil. It's far too tempting to people who can't resist temptations.
My housemate has this exact same issue,
About 6 months ago, she logged into her boyfriend's facebook (cos he hadnt logged out) and he had a message from this girl on his uni course, and the message history ran back, basically she was saying 'poor you, you have a controlooing girlfriend, what a bitch' and instead of defending her he was agreeing with her, saying he'd be with her if he wasn't with his girlfriend (my housemate)!!!
She was spastic, and they had it out. Huge row -> lots of tears -> 'on a break. They got back together though.
But last weekend, after several similar things happened, she dumped. Well shot I say.
Nanny Ogg. Remain calm. Print out the messages (if you can get in), or copy them onto a word document. Then confront him (cos otherwise without it he will deny it over and over again until you star doubting yourself of the content).
But the bottom line is - DUMP HIM.
At first I was going to side with him, because I flirt with people on face book all the time even though I have a fiance, and it really is just a bit of harmless fun and cheekiness.
Then I read the about the e-mail, and concede you should pummel him with something sharp
I don't think i'd be happy if my bf kissed someone on facebook. I know the majority of the time its harmless flirting, it would still put me in a mood though.
Hugging is fine though, a kiss just feels like you've crossed a barrier.
I don't think i'd be happy if my bf kissed someone on facebook. I know the majority of the time its harmless flirting, it would still put me in a mood though.
Hugging is fine though, a kiss just feels like you've crossed a barrier.
I flirt with loads of people on there. It's just fun. I think my OH wouldn't like it if I got serious with anyone tho. He knows I'm a flirt but always go back to him.
It doesn't matter if she is hot or not, when you are with someone you are meant to love & respect them & shouldn't cheat on them no matter how big the temptation is.
I know that we are only human (well most of us anyway), but it sickens me when people have the urge to cheat or actually go ahead & do the dirty on their partner. :mad:
It doesn't matter if she is hot or not, when you are with someone you are meant to love & respect them & shouldn't cheat on them no matter how big the temptation is.
I know that we are only human (well most of us anyway), but it sickens me when people have the urge to cheat or actually go ahead & do the dirty on their partner. :mad:
So true a post, I think eveyone should be happy and I hate lies, if People want to finish go for it. But to lie because thay want others for a saftey net makes me sad.
Do I make scence? [can I spell it] know what I mean though,
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If he's flirting, I'll put money on the thought raging in his head (either - you pick).
She told him that it would be easy for him to get a job if he moved over !!! :mad: she wants him to go over there !! and I was thinking of getting passport for him this month for us to go on holidays !! ha ha like hell is that happening now !
How do you know he's on it at the moment? If I was you I'd just go and have it out with him, nothing is going to get any better if you stew on it, and it wasn't as if you went snooping on purpose.
About 6 months ago, she logged into her boyfriend's facebook (cos he hadnt logged out) and he had a message from this girl on his uni course, and the message history ran back, basically she was saying 'poor you, you have a controlooing girlfriend, what a bitch' and instead of defending her he was agreeing with her, saying he'd be with her if he wasn't with his girlfriend (my housemate)!!!
She was spastic, and they had it out. Huge row -> lots of tears -> 'on a break. They got back together though.
But last weekend, after several similar things happened, she dumped. Well shot I say.
Nanny Ogg. Remain calm. Print out the messages (if you can get in), or copy them onto a word document. Then confront him (cos otherwise without it he will deny it over and over again until you star doubting yourself of the content).
But the bottom line is - DUMP HIM.
And?
Total revenge.
At first I was going to side with him, because I flirt with people on face book all the time even though I have a fiance, and it really is just a bit of harmless fun and cheekiness.
Then I read the about the e-mail, and concede you should pummel him with something sharp
Hugging is fine though, a kiss just feels like you've crossed a barrier.
A kiss online has crossed a barrier?
I don't know, a kiss just feels a bit too personal. Probably just me being silly though.
It doesn't matter if she is hot or not, when you are with someone you are meant to love & respect them & shouldn't cheat on them no matter how big the temptation is.
I know that we are only human (well most of us anyway), but it sickens me when people have the urge to cheat or actually go ahead & do the dirty on their partner. :mad:
So true a post, I think eveyone should be happy and I hate lies, if People want to finish go for it. But to lie because thay want others for a saftey net makes me sad.
Do I make scence? [can I spell it] know what I mean though,