I was going to post a genuine reply but then I read the other comments and (as i have lots of time on my hands) also checked out some of your previous posts...still unable to decide if (a) you are making all of this up or (b) you just lead a very bitter life. If indeed the answer is (b) I am not surprised that you are still single - wishing disabilities on a siblings children is not the kind of attitude that suggests 'hey this guy is marriage material'. Neither is some kind of self-pitying whinging. You resent your sister as she is more successful? OK I get an element of jealousy, I have friends and family members who are much more successful than I am, but it is not a reason to hate somebody. People are generally successful because they work hard at being successful. Yes some people are just plain lucky but that is the way of the world, If your sister was not good at her job she would not still be doing it! Until you can sort out your own issues, and by the gist of other replies i guess these are numerous, I would not even consider getting into a serious relationship. What if you meet a girl and then she ends up being more successful than you? When you are finally happy with who you are as a person I guess that is when you should start dating seriously.
I guess I did end up going for a genuine reply afterall, never mind, even if this is all a big lie it has passed some of my time!
Excuse, excuse, excuse. Do you really want advice, or someone to say that yes you're right, the world is against you etc etc? My advice to you, is to take the advice that other people give you an act on it, without moaning and coming up with excuses.
Oh, but your reply to that will be "yeh, but I can't because no one is being serious." And you are?
Well it is a bit silly because as a woman if a man is intimidating me he would have to be something out of order e.g. insulting me, frightening me etc.
Think of how many people you walk past in the street. They all have their own lives but I think you must walk past many single women each day. You just need to widen your social circle a bit so that you can meet new people. You should try and make friends with them at first or you will sound desperate. When I meet guys I don't automatically think "he's single. I'll go and ask him out on a date" And there's nothing worse than a man asking you out who you don't know anything about. The answer will almost always be 'no' if you do that. I'd say it's... 95%. The women need to get to know you and like you first. It doesn't matter what you look like, what your interests are etc, if you're kind to them they'll be kind to you. Good luck with it .....
5340robert, just out of interest, what advice were you given previously that didn't work when you tried it? It's a genuine question, because you're posting in the advice section, so if we knew what advice you had been given in the past that you tried but found it didn't work for you we might have a better idea as to what advice to give you this time. After all, there's no point us repeating the same advice time and time again if it doesn't work.
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Thats a good idea although my work schedule isn't to compatible with it. which is a shame i would love to do another course.
Yes.
I don't know sounds kinda silly.
http://www.thegrocer.co.uk/articles.aspx?page=articles&ID=215585
I guess I did end up going for a genuine reply afterall, never mind, even if this is all a big lie it has passed some of my time!
Oh, but your reply to that will be "yeh, but I can't because no one is being serious." And you are?
Well it is a bit silly because as a woman if a man is intimidating me he would have to be something out of order e.g. insulting me, frightening me etc.
Think of how many people you walk past in the street. They all have their own lives but I think you must walk past many single women each day. You just need to widen your social circle a bit so that you can meet new people. You should try and make friends with them at first or you will sound desperate. When I meet guys I don't automatically think "he's single. I'll go and ask him out on a date" And there's nothing worse than a man asking you out who you don't know anything about. The answer will almost always be 'no' if you do that. I'd say it's... 95%. The women need to get to know you and like you first. It doesn't matter what you look like, what your interests are etc, if you're kind to them they'll be kind to you. Good luck with it .....
I was there today :eek: weird how i dont see you in there.
Do you shop in there all the time then? Weird how you haven't seen the OP, he doesn't look hard to miss!
He has posted a picture in the past.
Potatoes (Elizabeth), Apples (gala), some bakery stuff and like a covered bench for the garden.
Run, while you still can.
ha ha very funny also rock chic was i right ?
Possibly because he's a deluded idiot. I'm very grateful for that though, as I needed a bloody good laugh