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Job offer received... but should I have mentioned this at the interview?

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So I recently found out that I got offered a job, despite knowing at the time of applying that I wouldn’t be able to do the exact hours that are required for the role (this was stated on the job description). Didn’t think I would get it in all honesty but now I feel a little guilty for not having told them about it earlier, especially as they mentioned the hours again at the interview. Essentially, the difference is that I would need to start slightly later (half an hour) than the shift start time on both days, due to other commitments in the morning.

The reason I didn’t mention it, despite obviously being aware of the hours, was because I wanted to see how I would fare on the basis of my performance at the interview alone; I didn’t want my need for flexibility to be a reason for them not to consider me for the role. In short, I wanted to see if I could get the job offer without that being a factor and probably also thought that I could possibly negotiate the hours in the event of an offer.

Of course, I didn’t lie but is omitting or neglecting to divulge information that may be critical to the decision-making process tantamount to dishonesty? Or is it just ‘playing the game’? I mean that in the sense of: now that I know they ‘want’ me, I’m going to test the extent of that by seeing how flexible they’re willing to be, or how much of a compromise they’re willing to give. At the same time, I don’t really like this business of gaining leverage over people in the balance of power.

Apologies if any of this sounds naïve on my part. Just wanted to ask for some advice as getting a job offer on these terms doesn’t sit too comfortably with me.
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    dearmrmandearmrman Posts: 21,540
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    We just had somebody start last week, knew the hours and what was expected, 10 minutes into starting, they decided they couldn't do the hours that where given at the interview, and wanted to change them... minutes later they where told that they where no longer needed.
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    tealadytealady Posts: 26,268
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    So you are saying that on all days you work, you can't start at the time required?
    WIthout knowing the job, it is hard to say, but
    How would you make up time?
    How does it fit with the rest of the team - could they do their jobs one down?
    What happens when they finish and the next lot start?
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    Raquelos.Raquelos. Posts: 7,734
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    Well it wasn't the smartest approach tbh, although I do understand your reasoning. Given where things are now your best bet is to go back to them and say you want to take the job but due to recent changes you now have these commitments which mean that you could only work these hours. They might be sufficiently keen on you to make the adjustments you need in which case great, or they might not. That would be a shame but you will at least have shown yourself that you are someone employers want to hire.

    I really wouldn't advise that you tell them the truth about always knowing that you couldn't do the hours. It really won't make them want to take you on because rightly or wrongly they will have doubts about your honesty.

    However it works out well done on being offered the job. Good luck :-)
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    Sargeant80Sargeant80 Posts: 1,413
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    I wouldn't say dishonesty, but in accepting the the offer, you are accepting the terms offered to you.

    As far as changing the hours it would depend how much they want you and if its practical to work different hours.

    For most people the company will simply find someone that can do the hours.
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    cris182cris182 Posts: 9,595
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    As mentioned it depends on the job, If you being half an hour out means you disrupt the next shifts and so on then they won't be happy. Are you the only person working for example? Will the person before you need to stay half an hour or are others around so it isn't an issue?

    Where i work i take over from someone and as we work alone me not being able to do the hours they advertised would then have a knock on effect to the next person and the next etc

    If they were advertising for a certain shift then you might find they cannot accommodate this, If they are advertising for a new person in general they may give you some manoeuvring room
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    zz9zz9 Posts: 10,767
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    Without knowing the exact details I'd tell them this commitment has suddenly come up. If, for example, it was because you had to take a child to school I'd tell them that your partner has had a change forced on them at their work that means you will have to do this and can only start late.

    I would not turn up and then just tell them. Depending on the exact job it might be that they just can't accommodate you. Or maybe they'll have no problem.
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    hurrikane313hurrikane313 Posts: 2,265
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    Sorry but you should have told them at interview about the restrictions you have. You did not do so, thus you were offered the job due to your deception. You need to come clean and accept the withdrawal of the offer.

    Me personally as an employer I would immediately fire you unless this is a specialist position and blacklist you for wasting company time.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 32,379
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    So I recently found out that I got offered a job, despite knowing at the time of applying that I wouldn’t be able to do the exact hours that are required for the role (this was stated on the job description). Didn’t think I would get it in all honesty but now I feel a little guilty for not having told them about it earlier, especially as they mentioned the hours again at the interview. Essentially, the difference is that I would need to start slightly later (half an hour) than the shift start time on both days, due to other commitments in the morning.

    The reason I didn’t mention it, despite obviously being aware of the hours, was because I wanted to see how I would fare on the basis of my performance at the interview alone; I didn’t want my need for flexibility to be a reason for them not to consider me for the role. In short, I wanted to see if I could get the job offer without that being a factor and probably also thought that I could possibly negotiate the hours in the event of an offer.

    Of course, I didn’t lie but is omitting or neglecting to divulge information that may be critical to the decision-making process tantamount to dishonesty? Or is it just ‘playing the game’? I mean that in the sense of: now that I know they ‘want’ me, I’m going to test the extent of that by seeing how flexible they’re willing to be, or how much of a compromise they’re willing to give. At the same time, I don’t really like this business of gaining leverage over people in the balance of power.

    Apologies if any of this sounds naïve on my part. Just wanted to ask for some advice as getting a job offer on these terms doesn’t sit too comfortably with me.

    Why? you have been offered a job on their terms not yours.

    They are in the balance of power, they have offered a job under their terms not yours.

    You really believe you can force their hand, good luck with that. You have no bargaining power.

    New user and first post:confused: Hasn't returned either.
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    Seth1Seth1 Posts: 676
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    woodbush wrote: »
    Why? you have been offered a job on their terms not yours.

    They are in the balance of power, they have offered a job under their terms not yours.

    You really believe you can force their hand, good luck with that. You have no bargaining power.

    New user and first post:confused:Hasn't returned either.

    OP posted at 22.35:confused:

    Desperation is not a good look.:cool:
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    LushnessLushness Posts: 38,173
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    Heh we were just ranting about this in the office this week as a lot of people do this. Rest assured they are likely to believe that you knew you couldn't work the hours at the point of offer, so your cards may be marked. All you can do is put in a flexible working request and hope that your employer can accommodate it.
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    Stewie_CStewie_C Posts: 1,739
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    Shift your morning commitments and turn up on time? Employers can always get someone who can meet the start time instead of you.
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    idlewildeidlewilde Posts: 8,698
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    Tell them that you would love to accept the offer, but a change in circumstances means you can't exactly match their working hours requirements. They'll either accommodate you or look at somebody else. Depends how much you impressed them and whether they consider 30 mins an easy enough concession to give.
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    Rae_RooRae_Roo Posts: 1,185
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    As others have said, totally depends on the type of job! I was conducting interviews for a researcher several years ago to work within a demanding project, had several viable candidates. After offering the post to an individual, they then said they had a little overlap with previous research and may need to take time out initially, of course this was not mentioned by them at the interview, even after going over hours and expected workload etc... Needless to say, the offer was withdrawn, much to their disappointment, it wasn't only the fact they had withheld the info during the application/interview processes, but that in my eyes their lack of disclosure was deceiving, amounting to a lie in all honesty.
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    dearmrmandearmrman Posts: 21,540
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    The other thing you could do OP, is offer to take the time out of your lunch break, or any designated breaks.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3
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    Thanks for all your advice so far.
    Sargeant80 wrote: »
    I wouldn't say dishonesty, but in accepting the the offer, you are accepting the terms offered to you.

    As far as changing the hours it would depend how much they want you and if its practical to work different hours.

    For most people the company will simply find someone that can do the hours.

    Well I've not actually accepted the offer yet. If I had accepted the offer knowing that I couldn't have done the agreed shift times and not disclosed this information, I appreciate that would be worse and I would understand if they were to withdraw the offer in those circumstances.

    Also, it's not a commitment that I've recently taken on either. To give a bit of context, I'm a student with a part-time job that I've had since last year, which involves working mornings and I'm looking to carry on working in this job so compromising on this is out of the question. The experience from that job is quite relevant to this job so naturally, I did mention this job at the interview. However, I wasn't sure whether the 2 people interviewing me had actually read my CV; it seemed like the HR people did the initial shortlisting for the interview and then the interviewers just had a list of pre-set questions to ask on which to base their decision. They would surely have questioned me on my ability to do the exact hours given what I'd mentioned about my current job in the interview and the fact that it would have been obvious from my CV that I'm still doing that job.

    Anyhow, they said they would get back to me yesterday regarding a decision and I'm still waiting so I guess they might see the situation as some of you are seeing it.
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    Ella NutElla Nut Posts: 9,084
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    Thanks for all your advice so far.



    Well I've not actually accepted the offer yet. If I had accepted the offer knowing that I couldn't have done the agreed shift times and not disclosed this information, I appreciate that would be worse and I would understand if they were to withdraw the offer in those circumstances.

    Also, it's not a commitment that I've recently taken on either. To give a bit of context, I'm a student with a part-time job that I've had since last year, which involves working mornings and I'm looking to carry on working in this job so compromising on this is out of the question. The experience from that job is quite relevant to this job so naturally, I did mention this job at the interview. However, I wasn't sure whether the 2 people interviewing me had actually read my CV; it seemed like the HR people did the initial shortlisting for the interview and then the interviewers just had a list of pre-set questions to ask on which to base their decision. They would surely have questioned me on my ability to do the exact hours given what I'd mentioned about my current job in the interview and the fact that it would have been obvious from my CV that I'm still doing that job.

    Anyhow, they said they would get back to me yesterday regarding a decision and I'm still waiting so I guess they might see the situation as some of you are seeing it.

    It's not up to them to question you about whether you are able to work the hours. Assuming you were aware what the hours were at the time of the interview, THEY would expect that you had taken that into account when applying for the job.
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    thefairydandythefairydandy Posts: 3,235
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    Stewie_C wrote: »
    Shift your morning commitments and turn up on time? Employers can always get someone who can meet the start time instead of you.

    As others have said, this is not necessarily the case. When I interviewed for my current job, I had difficulty attending the second interview because I was relocating from 200 miles away. They were keen on me, so were flexible to ensure they got me. Shift work doesn't necessarily mean an employee is doing a job anyone could do with dozens of replacements waiting in the wings who is as good as the person they want.

    When I came on here asking advice about negotiating a payrise, a few people unhelpfully decided that I was an expendable cog in the company and said any negotiation would mean I was out on my arse - as it happens, my boss said I was immensely valuable to the company and gave me a payrise in excess of what I would have negotiated for without me even asking!

    Back to the actual advice - OP, I think it was disingenuous to complete the interview process, whatever that entailled, without informing them of your circumstances. I understand your wish to have honest feedback from them as to your suitability for the role regardless of your circumstances, but not informing them at any stage is a risky game to play if you are actually genuinely interested in taking the role itself.

    If you are genuinely invested in the role, you need to say now that you've had an unfortunate change of circumstances and that you can't make that half hour. Then draw a line under any further dishonesty and treat with them fairly and openly. If they are unable to be flexible for you that's something you have to accept as a risk you took, and if they are unwilling to be flexible you have to consider that you brought it upon yourself to a certain extent.

    A big part of asking people to be flexible is being prepared to be flexible yourself.

    Were you perhaps unconfident of securing a job 'honestly', perhaps if you're returning to work? I'm afraid your working restrictions are part and parcel of the package, and you need to address them confidently in future rather than hiding away then negotiating.

    My firm sees working parents (for example, if these are your circumstances) as a boon because 1) they usually need the money and want a longer-term commitment than somebody career building and 2) they won't want to work school holidays, and since most of our work is direct with schools we don't need them during the holidays.
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    RorschachRorschach Posts: 10,818
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    To give a bit of context, I'm a student with a part-time job that I've had since last year, which involves working mornings and I'm looking to carry on working in this job so compromising on this is out of the question. The experience from that job is quite relevant to this job so naturally, I did mention this job at the interview. However, I wasn't sure whether the 2 people interviewing me had actually read my CV; it seemed like the HR people did the initial shortlisting for the interview and then the interviewers just had a list of pre-set questions to ask on which to base their decision. They would surely have questioned me on my ability to do the exact hours given what I'd mentioned about my current job in the interview and the fact that it would have been obvious from my CV that I'm still doing that job.
    When you say you mentioned the job did you mention it as the job you were currently doing or the job you intended to keep doing? Interviewers expect you to talk about the job you are doing, they expect you to say you love it and it's good experience for the job you are applying for. That's all part of selling yourself.

    It would have indeed been obvious from your cv that you currently had a job, many (if not most) people applying for a job already have a job but they want to change it. The natural assumption is that if you offered them a job they would hand in their notice on the one they currently had. It would be an extremely unusual event for an interviewer to go out of their way to ask "just to check will you be leaving your other job when you get this one?".

    Job descriptions generally come with a description of how many hours and when and where you'll be working. Anyone sending in an application for the job is basically saying that they can meet all those requirements. If they can't they should at least mention it during the interview. After being offered a full time job in London with one Saturday a month is not the time to suddenly mention that you have no transport and your village has rubbish public transport, you can't work mornings and have a permanent Saturday job you intend to keep. :D
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    RorschachRorschach Posts: 10,818
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    If you are genuinely invested in the role, you need to say now that you've had an unfortunate change of circumstances and that you can't make that half hour. Then draw a line under any further dishonesty and treat with them fairly and openly. If they are unable to be flexible for you that's something you have to accept as a risk you took, and if they are unwilling to be flexible you have to consider that you brought it upon yourself to a certain extent.
    The problem is, as someone has pointed out above, is that the majority of employers will not believe there was an unfortunate change in circumstances. Their default position will be that person knew damn well they couldn't do the hours and they will be flagged as either deceitful and a time waster. It's too late to say "then draw the line" and don't lie to them again, the horse is already galloping across the meadow. :)

    As well as seeing the above myself I've also seen it several times in the case of women who have "unexpectedly" become pregnant a month or two after securing a new job or a promotion. The immediate comments of their new managers aren't of joy and happiness but that they "knew damn well" that they were already pregnant or were trying their hardest to become so when they were interviewed.

    To be fair in one case they were right, because she told me. :D (I wasn't part of that panel)
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    MrsWatermelonMrsWatermelon Posts: 3,209
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    I don't blame you at all for not saying anything up until now, but you definitely shouldn't accept the job offer without telling them about this. Just be honest and say what you said here - you didn't want the hours to be the make or break point, you wanted your skill and experience to be the dealbreaker. If they're annoyed with you they can go to the next candidate, if they're not then everyone's a winner.
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    thefairydandythefairydandy Posts: 3,235
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    Rorschach wrote: »
    The problem is, as someone has pointed out above, is that the majority of employers will not believe there was an unfortunate change in circumstances. Their default position will be that person knew damn well they couldn't do the hours and they will be flagged as either deceitful and a time waster. It's too late to say "then draw the line" and don't lie to them again, the horse is already galloping across the meadow. :)

    As well as seeing the above myself I've also seen it several times in the case of women who have "unexpectedly" become pregnant a month or two after securing a new job or a promotion. The immediate comments of their new managers aren't of joy and happiness but that they "knew damn well" that they were already pregnant or were trying their hardest to become so when they were interviewed.

    To be fair in one case they were right, because she told me. :D (I wasn't part of that panel)

    Funnily enough, I've recently applied for a job that I sincerely was interested in, but I knew that my boyfriend might be losing his job soon. The job I applied for wouldn't pay as much as my current job, so if he had lost his job, I'd have stayed for the better wage until he was back on track (not that they offered it to me :( ). So maybe it made me more inclined to think 'change in circumstances' was a reasonable excuse!

    OP - Rorschach is entirely right about the interview process - forgive me, but you seem a little naive about how these processes work? Or did you perhaps mean that you made your intention to stay in your current role clear to the HR people and expect them to pass it on to the final interviewers? And were you explicitly clear? Did you for example say that you were staying in your current job, but not make clear that the hours clashed? Or is a degree of flexibility a standard component of the type of work you're in?

    When we recruited a few weeks ago, we stated the potential flexibility in the job advert and requested information as to what hours each candidate would be able to do when we interviewed them, but we opened the dialogue by putting the flexibility into the advert. There's no reason to suppose that a company posting specific shifts in their adverts will be flexible and their default assumption will be that you can do the hours if you've applied for them.
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    TogglerToggler Posts: 4,592
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    The shame of it is that someone who really wanted the job and would work the hours may have been robbed of the opportunity.

    As a recruiter these sort of things don't sit comfortably with us. Also the other employees will see a new joiner getting what they could see as preferential treatment which won't go down well.

    You went on a fishing trip to see if you could get the job, you did and had the option to turn it down.
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    ratty0ratty0 Posts: 2,720
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    Toggler wrote: »
    The shame of it is that someone who really wanted the job and would work the hours may have been robbed of the opportunity.

    As a recruiter these sort of things don't sit comfortably with us. Also the other employees will see a new joiner getting what they could see as preferential treatment which won't go down well.

    You went on a fishing trip to see if you could get the job, you did and had the option to turn it down.

    I think this response is too harsh. I have often found on forums that people react in a bizarrely extreme manner - it seems people have to be very polarised in their opinions sometimes on the internet rather than looking at things from a normal, rational, and reasonable perspective.

    The OP hasn't even accepted the offer yet, and no-one has been robbed of anything. Even if the OP accepts the job but then the hours cannot be accommodated, the panel will most likely go to their first reserve and offer them the job. There's a chance that candidate may have been offered another job in the meantime, but there's also a high chance they haven't and would still be delighted to accept.

    Whatever the other employees might have issues with is no concern to someone new; you negotiate/accept the terms of your role directly with your line manager/higher up and if other employees have problems with that it's up to them to raise an issue (or indeed to have [already] asked for flexibility in hours if that's what they wanted, for example).

    OP: I am slightly confused as to your circumstances but may not have read your posts thoroughly enough. You already have a very part-time role in the morning that you don't wish to give up. The job you've been offered overlaps by half an hour. Plus you are a student, so presumably the rest of your time is spent on classes/studying. Was your intention always to get another job in the afternoons to supplement your morning wage? Or is all of this somehow tied in to your studies? How important is the afternoon job (the one that's been offered) to you in terms of the content/type of job - is it only the start time that's problematic?

    As people have said I think it will be highly dependent on the nature of the role (e.g. whether it's an office job where a start time can more easily be moved versus a centre where you have to clock in/out at specific times with the rest of your shift). There are lots of other options for flexible working as people have mentioned - e.g. making the time up at lunch, staying late, or perhaps just reducing your contract overall - but all of these are dependent on other factors (e.g. cover needed) and again the type of role/organisation.

    Personally I do think flexibility should be a key factor in the workplace and there is normally always a way around someone's other commitments, but I am looking at this from my HR perspective in a large organisation whereas a smaller and more operational company may find it harder to implement.
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    Toggler wrote: »
    The shame of it is that someone who really wanted the job and would work the hours may have been robbed of the opportunity.

    As a recruiter these sort of things don't sit comfortably with us. Also the other employees will see a new joiner getting what they could see as preferential treatment which won't go down well.

    You went on a fishing trip to see if you could get the job, you did and had the option to turn it down.

    Recruiters are the biggest liars in business (other than estate agents and football agents). The guaranteed bonus that isn't, the on call that is not mentioned, the job that is a 'perfect match' and wastes your time as a candidate etc.

    On the candidate side, many people seem to turn down a new role after extorting more from their current employer - but with 2 year interviews (you can be sacked without repercussion within this period as I understand it) to an extent I understand the dog eat dog world of recruitment on both sides.

    Remember the 2 years and the probation period mind you if you take this role.
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    scottlscottl Posts: 1,046
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    Sorry but you should have told them at interview about the restrictions you have. You did not do so, thus you were offered the job due to your deception. You need to come clean and accept the withdrawal of the offer.

    Me personally as an employer I would immediately fire you unless this is a specialist position and blacklist you for wasting company time.

    Is not blacklisting highly illegal ?

    Employment Relations Act 1999 (Blacklists) Regulations 2010
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