It makes my skin crawl when I read things like that.
It annoys me that BB didn't deal with this sooner and I'm annoyed at the other housemates for egging it on. They deserve getting the crap scared out of them this week, with Aaron's ejection and the quadruple eviction.
This could be really bad for Joel and it's a bloody shame he is a great HM and because Aaron couldn't take no for an answer Joel will look like the bad guy.
What the heck was he supposed to do everyone in the room was laughing and we already know Joel laughs when he is nervous he laughed at the first eviction for example. I really hope that Joel comes out of this ok.
I have seen this on one thread and it is sarcasm if you read the whole post, referring to the skirt.
I do think you should show links rather than starting some outrageous thread as if many on here have said it and meant it !!
There are numerous posts in the threads "Did Aaron deserve to go" justifying his actions, as well as on other forums. Do not tell me that there is no victim shaming going on..
There are numerous posts in the threads "Did Aaron deserve to go" justifying his actions, as well as on other forums. Do not tell me that there is no victim shaming going on..
No, your thread is suggesting that it is here on this forum those 2 particular comments "He enjoyed it" "He was asking for it" when those 2 comments are not anywhere on here, if you are referring to other forums or social media then state so.
Victim blaming is shameful - it was shameful when some people blamed Hazel for Daley's behaviour and it's shameful that people are blaming Joel (and I've even seen people blaming Harriet!) for Aaron's behaviour. It was funny for the first few seconds, but Aaron took it too far. He's a grown-up and should know better.
No, your thread is suggesting that it is here on this forum those 2 particular comments "He enjoyed it" "He was asking for it" when those 2 comments are not anywhere on here, if you are referring to other forums or social media then state so.
Seems to be a basic inability for a lot of people to put themselves in someone elses shoes.
Ignore how it looked, how you think Joel seemed to be reacting, that you thought he didnt mind, that he thought it was funny.
What if it was you? Would you enjoy it? Would you find it funny?
Someone who has constantly been making you feel uncomfortable, both physically and sexually, then starts doing that? In front of everyone, with everyone laughing, at your expense and egging them on. You'd enjoy it would you?
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Sad that I'm not surprised by that.
Comments like these are everywhere, people are blaming Joel
It annoys me that BB didn't deal with this sooner and I'm annoyed at the other housemates for egging it on. They deserve getting the crap scared out of them this week, with Aaron's ejection and the quadruple eviction.
I do think you should show links rather than starting some outrageous thread as if many on here have said it and meant it !!
What the heck was he supposed to do everyone in the room was laughing and we already know Joel laughs when he is nervous he laughed at the first eviction for example. I really hope that Joel comes out of this ok.
Jack did it to Eileen;
Eileen did it to Nick; or
Kieran did it to Chloe.
Would this dismissive attitude still be there? I think not.
There are numerous posts in the threads "Did Aaron deserve to go" justifying his actions, as well as on other forums. Do not tell me that there is no victim shaming going on..
Now I'm thinking about Jack naked, running around the bedroom, with his wedding tackle flailing erratically.
No, your thread is suggesting that it is here on this forum those 2 particular comments "He enjoyed it" "He was asking for it" when those 2 comments are not anywhere on here, if you are referring to other forums or social media then state so.
Yes it would for some. On the last CBB people blamed Chloe when Jeremy sexually assaulted her in the last CBB
I do keep having to repeat this sadly but it's a fact that women are relentlessly blamed for sexual assaults that happen to them.
I just wish people could stop treating it all like some kind of competition and that women are getting more than men somehow
I felt uncomfortable for Joel.
He wasn't being raped while stuck alone with a sinister rapist.
One of many examples http://forums.digitalspy.co.uk/showpost.php?p=78277807&postcount=2
Don't kid yourself
Ignore how it looked, how you think Joel seemed to be reacting, that you thought he didnt mind, that he thought it was funny.
What if it was you? Would you enjoy it? Would you find it funny?
Someone who has constantly been making you feel uncomfortable, both physically and sexually, then starts doing that? In front of everyone, with everyone laughing, at your expense and egging them on. You'd enjoy it would you?