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Man dumped by his two girlfriends on banner over A1 this morning!
Goaty
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Poor bloke! It was so funny to see the banner over A1 this morning when on way to work!
I found good link for it;
http://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/486220/Love-rat-dumped-by-scorned-women-in-sign-over-A1
I found good link for it;
http://www.express.co.uk/news/uk/486220/Love-rat-dumped-by-scorned-women-in-sign-over-A1
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That is harsh.
But funny
Harsh is cheating on someone.
The women were right to dump him.
He shouldn't have been greedy.
True. I guess he deserved it.
Give it a while and we'll get the inevitable story in the tabloids "i knew of his reputation but he SWORE things would be different .."
Indeed. I must admit I've seen Jeremy Kyle say to contestants before that "once this is aired, nobody will touch you with a barge pole". Yeah right...
When I was in my late teens, early twenties, I often dated two women at a time.
I never promised either of them undying love, or hinted at marriage, or even a serious exclusive relationship.
Naturally I didn't say, "By the way, I'm seeing another girl sometimes."
I always treated them right, remembered their birthdays, and made sure that they had a good time.
For all I know, one or both of them could have been dating another guy when they weren't with me.
So what, you're only young once, and you're only here once, its not a rehearsal.
It's different if you mutually declare your love, then seeing someone new would mark you out as not very nice.
Because it has the potential to hurt someone or several people.
Right...
Well most people don't work on undying love and potential for marriage as the barometer for exclusivity, its normally assumed. You were in your late teens and early twenties a cheat. Its fine if you don't care, but you were and could easily have hurt people.
I think it's ok as long as you're honest and open about not being exclusive. Unless you are honest about that, then I think most people would see it as cheating
Why not? Because they might be upset?
I think honesty is vital in any relationship, even if it's clearly only temporary and a bit of fun. Maybe these women genuinely liked you and thought you might have a future as a couple? You were misleading them. And if they were simply young and carefree like you, why not agree to have a casual, non-exclusive relationship which is fair on both people?
Glad to see at least one cheat getting outed
I've always found the opposite to be true, women desire you to tell them the lies they want to hear and not to mention to truths they don't.
Could you give some concrete examples?
I thought that odd too.
Millions of moons ago I remember leaving the house to do a school run with every lamp post strapped with a photo of a local woman and a warning that she'll sleep with your husband if you turn your back. Caused some fun that one did!