I have had a long friendly convo at the bus stop and on the bus with a man from Madagascar.
He started the conversation and said he was glad I was up for a chat because he found the British stand-offish and unwilling to talk at bus stops. In other countries talking to random strangers is probably far more socially acceptable or natural.
It seems odd to wait somewhere for twenty minutes and not talk to the other people or person waiting. Dogs usually greet each other excitedly straight away and even head straight for a butt sniff.
I always chat to folk at the bus stop. I've made some real friends over the years, and found a fabulous handyman, a gardener and a baker of novelty cakes.
I always chat to folk at the bus stop. I've made some real friends over the years, and found a fabulous handyman, a gardener and a baker of novelty cakes.
No romantic attachments though.
All you need to complete the set is a butcher and a candlestick maker.
It seems odd to wait somewhere for twenty minutes and not talk to the other people or person waiting. Dogs usually greet each other excitedly straight away and even head straight for a butt sniff.
The ironic thing is I have no problem talking to attractive women and find women a bit more open and friendly. In a gay club I was at the women who tagged along with their gay boyfriends were very chatty and one even sat on my lap.
Part of the problem is that I don't like the idea of actually searching out someone. I would prefer for fate to bring us together naturally. I am a bit of a fatalist. If it is meant to be it will be.
So go somewhere where is it easy to talk to attractive people. Voluntary groups, interest clubs, or out on the town.
When I hear this tale of woe I always get the impression the person would run a mile in a real life meeting situation, so like to devise all these tragic scenarios.
Part of the problem is that I don't like the idea of actually searching out someone. I would prefer for fate to bring us together naturally. I am a bit of a fatalist. If it is meant to be it will be.
You don't have to search if you don't want to. Just wait in a bush until someone walks past.
So watch out men...coming to a Tesco's near you soon.
Well in that case you've got it both easier and harder. You can happily exchange a double take and smile without giving off the sinister rapey vibe that could happen with a woman, but you have to read the situation better first to avoid potential High Level Awkwardness.
The ironic thing is I have no problem talking to attractive women and find women a bit more open and friendly. In a gay club I was at the women who tagged along with their gay boyfriends were very chatty and one even sat on my lap.
You were at the women? That's probably where you're going wrong.
There was one where I had some passport photographs done and I was waiting for them to be printed out. Whilst I was waiting a girl walked in and I thought to myself 'she is pretty.' Anyway, I looked away from her and then I looked up again and she had a smile on her face. She then stood in front of me and started playing with her hair. Then the man served her and she wanted to use the self kodak machine. My photographs were ready and I left.
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I always chat to folk at the bus stop. I've made some real friends over the years, and found a fabulous handyman, a gardener and a baker of novelty cakes.
No romantic attachments though.
All you need to complete the set is a butcher and a candlestick maker.
Perhaps you should try that approach.
I'm not sure I would like to be friends with a butcher, I'm one of those crazy veggie people, you see.
When I hear this tale of woe I always get the impression the person would run a mile in a real life meeting situation, so like to devise all these tragic scenarios.
You don't have to search if you don't want to. Just wait in a bush until someone walks past.
That's a good idea.
Well in that case you've got it both easier and harder. You can happily exchange a double take and smile without giving off the sinister rapey vibe that could happen with a woman, but you have to read the situation better first to avoid potential High Level Awkwardness.
You were at the women? That's probably where you're going wrong.
hahahahahahahhaaa:D
Bit of a dreamer aren't you cabledude?
Daygame? :P
I really wish I had approached her.
Probably time to move then! Let me know where it is so I don't waste my life going there ;-)
" Frustration " , " fighting the urge to have them " Classic signs of a sex maniac.
See my secretary Miss Thighblast and make an appointment for a therapy session.