Men's opinions required on what to wear for first dates
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Hello,
I was just wondering what guys preferred a lady to wear on a first date (please no pervy jokes:D). Would you prefer to see women in a dress, or skinny jeans, top and heels? Are heels also a must? I'm not that tall, so do tend to wear heels, but I find most of them incredibly uncomfortable.
Thanks
I was just wondering what guys preferred a lady to wear on a first date (please no pervy jokes:D). Would you prefer to see women in a dress, or skinny jeans, top and heels? Are heels also a must? I'm not that tall, so do tend to wear heels, but I find most of them incredibly uncomfortable.
Thanks
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depends where i was taking you
Thanks both. First dates tend to be drinks, or casual dinner really, nothing too fancy.
Why waste time? Cut to the chase. Enter shouting Yeahhhhhhh Baby - BOOM!!! (and then stand there like the bloke in the Ariel advert, knowing just how wonderful you are.)
Oh! You are a woman!!! - In that case, wear anything you like as men won't notice at all.
Wear the sort of thing you normally wear. Dont go mad girly with make up, dresses and heels if 99% of the time you normally slum around with no make up, jeans etc.
At the end of the day, what your wearing isnt THAT important, as long as you are clean and presentable.
As long as she looked nice and was comfortable.
Most of us do!
But we also want you to be comfortable!
Women dress for other women, not for men imo. We are oblivious.
Also, surreptitiously slip him a piece of paper with instructions on how zips, hooks & eyes, buttons etc. really work. Include diagrams.
It's not the clothes per se the man is thinking about. It's how to smoothly disrobe the woman without unnecessarily interrupting the tide of passion that generally occurs at such times.
Don't truss yourself up in some outfit you are going to feel uncomfortable in....
Also don't set the bar too high - if you turn up glammed up to the max then he may think this is how you always dress (if you do always get super glammed up then fair do's)
Just look presentable and elegant and you'll be fine.
By the way I was joking about the cash.
Ummm yes......... but SOME women over-do that to the point of looking errrrrr ummmmm (something you would pay for!)
Seriously, just be yourself. That was the person they asked on a date so why put on something you are not and then will wrongly think that you have to keep it up.
Look nice, but don't over-do it. You don't need to!
I wore a sexy white dress - with an indie girl olive green army coat on top and beige straw wedges below, with minimal make up and blow dried hair.
Make sure he sees you as yourself, don't make a huge amount of effort but look like you just flung something on and still look gorgeous. There's gotta be something in yours or your friend's wardrobes that you can obtain. And failing that, there's always very.co.uk who do next day delivery
Although I'm clearly female, thats what male friends have told me in the past!
I hate it when someone spouts this shit. You want to impress, so whilst it's a good idea not to go OTT, you do at least want to make it look like you've made any effort.
OP, a nice dress, or jeans and a nice top will do just fine. What puts me off most is girls who have that horrible 'fashionable' messy hair piled on their head, or girls that look like they literally caked the make up on.
I would be so chuffed that a lady wanted to date me, I wouldn't notice what she decided to wear.
It really depends what the date is. If it's just a bar or pub, a jumper and jeans would be fine, if its a restaurant I would expect slightly smarter (dress/heels)
I'd want any woman I met to be herself, nothing shitty about that. I hate it when men try and tell women what to wear.