How many is too many....?

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 11:35

Hi all, just a question...

How many sexual partners is too many.....?

I dont know why, but this question has been troubling me for a bit and thought you all would be the best people to ask..

Lila · 21/09/07 - 11:37

But how would you know we are the fountain of all knowledge? (which we are by the way

) - you only joined yesterday..........

mj2007 · 21/09/07 - 11:41

Lila wrote: »

But how would you know we are the fountain of all knowledge? (which we are by the way ) - you only joined yesterday..........

What does join date have to do with anything? It's not like it's a private or exclusive forum is it? Anyone can read the crap posted.

I shall try to get this thread back to being constructive now.

I don't think there is any particular figure that I would call "too many". I look more at the circumstances and decide if the person is a bit of a slag or not.

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 11:42

i have been lurking for well over a year (you all got me hooked with the Jodie Mush stuff). You have no idea how annoyed I got by her!

So I felt now was the time to come out of the shadows and ask you all a question. The fountain of knowledge you all are!!

Lila · 21/09/07 - 11:43

mj2007 wrote: »

What does join date have to do with anything? It's not like it's a private or exclusive forum is it? Anyone can read the crap posted.

I shall try to get this thread back to being constructive now.

I don't think there is any particular figure that I would call "too many". I look more at the circumstances and decide if the person is a bit of a slag or not.

It was tongue in cheek and if you were such a regular reader off the recent threads you would see why I was joking. :rolleyes:

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 11:45

More than one a day for 60 years would be pushing it a bit I reckon.

System · 21/09/07 - 11:49

more than 20 would put me off

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 11:52

fairycake wrote: »

more than 20 would put me off

Why?

I'm just curious why it matters, as long as they were careful.

stirlingguy1 · 21/09/07 - 11:52

Id be put off by more than 4 or 5 to be honest

pure_plastic · 21/09/07 - 11:55

Well Ive had about 15. I think that is average. I wouldnt really be put off by any

System · 21/09/07 - 11:56

Any more than NONE, if you're not married, you filthy people.

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 11:56

Wouldn't bother me. Can i just ask the people who say a certain number would put them off, so you're out and meet a guy/girl who you really like (you know when you just click) a month or so in you're having the conversation and you find out they've slept with a lot more than you "feel comfortable" with - would you stop seeing them?

pure_plastic · 21/09/07 - 11:58

Charlie Coo wrote: »

Wouldn't bother me. Can i just ask the people who say a certain number would put them off, so you're out and meet a guy/girl who you really like (you know when you just click) a month or so in you're having the conversation and you find out they've slept with a lot more than you "feel comfortable" with - would you stop seeing them?

No, I wouldnt care how many women he had shagged

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:00

Sylar wrote: »

Any more than NONE, if you're not married, you filthy people.

Yeah cos once you're married you can have dozens

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:06

stirlingguy wrote: »

Id be put off by more than 4 or 5 to be honest

4 or 5 for a 16 yr old would seem a lot, yet if a 40 yr old would say 4 or 5, it sounds completely different.

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:24

Marvin's Mum wrote: »

i have been lurking for well over a year (you all got me hooked with the Jodie Mush stuff). You have no idea how annoyed I got by her!

Don't worry. However many sexual partners you've had, you'll never be as bad as her

Ja'mie King · 21/09/07 - 12:29

I think 20 by the time you are say 35 is okay. but maybe no more than that.

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:30

Charlie Coo wrote: »

Wouldn't bother me. Can i just ask the people who say a certain number would put them off, so you're out and meet a guy/girl who you really like (you know when you just click) a month or so in you're having the conversation and you find out they've slept with a lot more than you "feel comfortable" with - would you stop seeing them?

Would stop seeing then just would insist on them getting checked out for any STD before I slept with them, did it with my ex when he told me that he had slept with about 60 women !! I was like what the hell ?? cant you keep your dick in your pants ?? get up the clap clinic now !!

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:39

I was wondering as I come from a fairly strict religious background and when the number went past 1 it kinda freaked me out.

Every now and again I am racked by guilt and so I thought I would check with you all and give myself a reality check.

Thanks all

I think I may go back to lurking (although if Mrs Peacock does anything else to annoy me I may return).:)

Lila · 21/09/07 - 12:42

Marvin's Mum wrote: »

I was wondering as I come from a fairly strict religious background and when the number went past 1 it kinda freaked me out.

Every now and again I am racked by guilt and so I thought I would check with you all and give myself a reality check.

Thanks all

I think I may go back to lurking (although if Mrs Peacock does anything else to annoy me I may return).:)

You don't need to lurk! I was only kidding earlier with the vast no. of sex threads and a few bannings the last few days.

[Deleted User] · 21/09/07 - 12:45

Dont wory, I take no offence.

As far as I see it, if you are going to take the step of posting on a forum, you have to accept some people may not agree, some people may be offended, some people will bait you.

And some people will have a dry enough sense of humor and will take the mick!

I know I would!

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