Would you be dissapointed if your child came out as Gay?

Sifter22Sifter22 Posts: 12,057
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Obviously most people accept it, but some have pretty different views when it comes to their own kids. Sort of shatters visions of Grand Kids and all that, and some seem less comfortable with it when it's their own Children. How would you feel?

I would not be bothered either way.
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  • Chihiro94Chihiro94 Posts: 2,667
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    Not in the slightest.
  • getzlsgetzls Posts: 4,007
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    Ways and means of having grand kids.:cool:
  • Jimmy ConnorsJimmy Connors Posts: 117,874
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    Not at all.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0
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    Am I allowed to say anything since I haven't had a child yet?

    But hypothetically no, you've got to support your child no matter what.

    Parents say a love for their child is stronger than anything. (Apparently)
  • Lain AndrewsLain Andrews Posts: 1,860
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    Sifter22 wrote: »
    Obviously most people accept it, but some have pretty different views when it comes to their own kids. Sort of shatters visions of Grand Kids and all that, and some seem less comfortable with it when it's their own Children. How would you feel?

    I would not be bothered either way.

    Most people do not accept homosexuality.
  • James2001James2001 Posts: 73,661
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    Most people do not accept homosexuality.

    Where I come from, most people do. But then I don't assosiate with either rabid evangelists or ignorant bigots.
  • franciefrancie Posts: 31,089
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    I think any decent parent would want their child to be happy so whatever path she takes is fine by me - gay, straight makes no difference to me :)
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 17,060
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    Most people do not accept homosexuality.

    Most bigoted, ignorant mouth breathers who want to drag us all back to the middle ages do not accept homosexuality.

    The rest of us know that people can't help who they love and who they are attracted to.
  • Welsh-ladWelsh-lad Posts: 51,925
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    Most people do not accept homosexuality.

    Well I don't think that's true. I've had very very few problems with my sexuality being accepted in the last 11 years.

    Most people don't batt an eyelid.
  • Lain AndrewsLain Andrews Posts: 1,860
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    James2001 wrote: »
    Where I come from, most people do. But then I don't assosiate with either rabid evangelists or ignorant bigots.

    Your generalizing, making statements like that doesn't help.
  • Lain AndrewsLain Andrews Posts: 1,860
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    Welsh-lad wrote: »
    Well I don't think that's true. I've had very very few problems with my sexuality being accepted in the last 11 years.

    Most people don't batt an eyelid.

    oh c'mon utter rubbish.
  • Zack06Zack06 Posts: 28,304
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    Your generalizing, making statements like that doesn't help.

    Which is exactly what you did to begin with. Some people will inevitably not accept it, and others will have no problem. I'd say the former is by far the minority in my view.
  • Irishguy123Irishguy123 Posts: 14,645
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    I imagine most parents would be initially. Most, I hope, would get used to it.
  • Welsh-ladWelsh-lad Posts: 51,925
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    oh c'mon utter rubbish.

    Well sorry if that offends, but I speak exactly as I find.
    Why would I contrive otherwise?:confused:
  • Phil.Phil. Posts: 233
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    Most people do not accept homosexuality.

    You're generalizing, making statements like that proves you are homophobic
  • muntamunta Posts: 18,285
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    Nope. I would be proud that my kids accepted who they were and accepted that their friends and family loved them for who they are.
  • Lain AndrewsLain Andrews Posts: 1,860
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    The percentage of the world that accepts gays is only 15%

    So keep dreaming.
  • SchadenfreudSchadenfreud Posts: 1,382
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    I think the truth is that a lot of people will say they don't care either way, but in reality they will.

    We're here to pass our genes on, and that means grandchildren as well etc. etc. Whilst their are 'other methods' that can beget grandchildren, for most people it wouldn't be the same.

    The honest truth is that I would be disappointed if any of my children turned out gay, but I would still love them and support them and wish them to be as happy as they could be.
  • Lain AndrewsLain Andrews Posts: 1,860
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    Phil. wrote: »
    You're generalizing, making statements like that proves you are homophobic

    You doughnut, I'm also Gay! :)
  • Harper_MilneHarper_Milne Posts: 2,854
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    I wouldn't mind at all.
  • StudmuffinStudmuffin Posts: 4,377
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    Wouldn't bother me in the slightest.
  • SchadenfreudSchadenfreud Posts: 1,382
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    Phil. wrote: »
    You're generalizing, making statements like that proves you are homophobic

    And there goes the stock in trade answer to just about every argument about gay issues on this board.

    It really should be the equivalent of Godwins.
  • franciefrancie Posts: 31,089
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    I think the truth is that a lot of people will say they don't care either way, but in reality they will.

    We're here to pass our genes on, and that means grandchildren as well etc. etc. Whilst their are 'other methods' that can beget grandchildren, for most people it wouldn't be the same.

    The honest truth is that I would be disappointed if any of my children turned out gay, but I would still love them and support them and wish them to be as happy as they could be.

    I can assure you that I wouldn't care either way. There's more to life than having grandkids, my daughter's happiness for one.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 7,246
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    I wouldn't be bothered.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 0
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    The percentage of the world that accepts gays is only 15%

    So keep dreaming.

    Where's that figure came from?
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