It's probably the first time she has felt close to tears in the house, but in her life????
My arse. That in itself rings false, if not then she may be lucky enough to have not experienced any kind of loss of friends or close family.
If so, you're extemely lucky thus far.
Were there no tears for her ex? Seriously? I personally do not believe that for a minute.
So I have to believe that this was the closest she had come to crying in the house/because of actions in the house - as a separation from her previous private life.
PS. I am not a Hazel apologist, before I get my arse kicked. All I'm saying that BB has not been able to negatively affect her psyche till now.
she already cried in yon treehouse after Daleys departure..maybe she didn't want to admit it ?
watching the main show just there but wasn't she close to crying then hugged Dan to stop herself ?
her ex killing himself probably has hardened her up even if alot of it is front.
what the **** is she like on her bad week though ?
i don't think i could be in a relationship with a woman and sleep next to her every night if she didn't cry..incase she would have no problem killing me in my sleep.
I heard her saying that but I certainly didn't extrapolate most of what people have posted here.
She said something about not wanting to appear weak. Or that she associates it with being weak. There is definitely more to her statements than people are making out.
She must have had a really hard time if she has always felt that she needs to be strong and not show any weakness. Being strong and not showing weakness are fine characteristics but feeling like you can't ever not be that way is sad. She also said her friends tell her it's unhealthy not to cry. And I think that does affect her as well. I got the feeling she's had to shut down emotions full stop to cope. With what I wouldn't even dare speculate. She's definitely a realist and she's definitely used her beauty and stature to intimidate but she may not know any other way.
I don't know but I'm a bit surprised her openness has been used against her. I know she's not a poster for empathy but I felt she was opening up and letting us see a bit of why she lives behind walls.
I heard her saying that but I certainly didn't extrapolate most of what people have posted here.
She said something about not wanting to appear weak. Or that she associates it with being weak. There is definitely more to her statements than people are making out.
She must have had a really hard time if she has always felt that she needs to be strong and not show any weakness. Being strong and not showing weakness are fine characteristics but feeling like you can't ever not be that way is sad. She also said her friends tell her it's unhealthy not to cry. And I think that does affect her as well. I got the feeling she's had to shut down emotions full stop to cope. With what I wouldn't even dare speculate. She's definitely a realist and she's definitely used her beauty and stature to intimidate but she may not know any other way.
I don't know but I'm a bit surprised her openness has been used against her. I know she's not a poster for empathy but I felt she was opening up and letting us see a bit of why she lives behind walls.
I heard her saying that but I certainly didn't extrapolate most of what people have posted here.
She said something about not wanting to appear weak. Or that she associates it with being weak. There is definitely more to her statements than people are making out.
She must have had a really hard time if she has always felt that she needs to be strong and not show any weakness. Being strong and not showing weakness are fine characteristics but feeling like you can't ever not be that way is sad. She also said her friends tell her it's unhealthy not to cry. And I think that does affect her as well. I got the feeling she's had to shut down emotions full stop to cope. With what I wouldn't even dare speculate. She's definitely a realist and she's definitely used her beauty and stature to intimidate but she may not know any other way.
I don't know but I'm a bit surprised her openness has been used against her. I know she's not a poster for empathy but I felt she was opening up and letting us see a bit of why she lives behind walls.
theres a low threshold for what passes as physical beauty these days .
Hazel obviously meant it was the first time she felt like crying over someone's eviction, as she was quite close to Dan! Well it was fairly obvious to me anyway, but then I'm not looking for reasons to start negative threads about her! :rolleyes:
Exactly. However these threads serve a very useful purpose. They allow some to show themselves up and highlight the absence of credibility of some
Just look at the posts saying she's hard faced and callous etc.
when it's obvious she's worn down after a tough week and upset because her friend has been booted out in a shock eviction which had them all reeling.
The lack of self awareness of some people is mind boggling.
She didn't cry when her boxer ex killed himself 4 weeks after they split because she was too busy poo'ing herself... probably.
I sincerely hope you never have to cope with the loss of a friend or loved one and people criticise you either for not crying enough( a cold hearted bit*h) or you cried too much (looking for attention)
Hazel was devastated after his death. They only spllt because he had to move to London for his training and she had commitments in Dublin.
Think before you rubbish people for something you know absolutely nothing about
Not easy at all, it would appear. A close friend obviously killed himself. That would be pretty hard to get over.
Empathy is not measured by the millilitre of tears. Some people cry easily, some with difficulty. That has no bearing at all on how profoundly they are feeling things.
I don't think I've ever read a reply from you that doesn't involve you cutting n pasting 2 or multiple posts :rolleyes:
Hazel is as tough as old boots.She must have hardened over the years with having to deal with jealousy perhaps?
You don't have to cry to feel. My mother never cried, she said she couldn't cry even when my father died; but she was the kindest person you could meet.
Exactly. However these threads serve a very useful purpose. They allow some to show themselves up and highlight the absence of credibility of some
Just look at the posts saying she's hard faced and callous etc.
when it's obvious she's worn down after a tough week and upset because her friend has been booted out in a shock eviction which had them all reeling.
The lack of self awareness of some people is mind boggling.
Some children are punished by their parents for crying there can be many reasons why someone may not cry also there are people who cry to order as a manipulation technique
Hazel obviously meant it was the first time she felt like crying over someone's eviction, as she was quite close to Dan! Well it was fairly obvious to me anyway, but then I'm not looking for reasons to start negative threads about her! :rolleyes:
She does say she cried there. I don't mean to be harsh on her, I just found it so weird when she said in the DR that it was the closest she'd ever come to crying in her life. I was like hellooo what about when that happened??
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To quote the great Jim Royale - my arse!
It's probably the first time she has felt close to tears in the house, but in her life????
My arse. That in itself rings false, if not then she may be lucky enough to have not experienced any kind of loss of friends or close family.
If so, you're extemely lucky thus far.
Were there no tears for her ex? Seriously? I personally do not believe that for a minute.
So I have to believe that this was the closest she had come to crying in the house/because of actions in the house - as a separation from her previous private life.
PS. I am not a Hazel apologist, before I get my arse kicked. All I'm saying that BB has not been able to negatively affect her psyche till now.
watching the main show just there but wasn't she close to crying then hugged Dan to stop herself ?
her ex killing himself probably has hardened her up even if alot of it is front.
what the **** is she like on her bad week though ?
i don't think i could be in a relationship with a woman and sleep next to her every night if she didn't cry..incase she would have no problem killing me in my sleep.
She said something about not wanting to appear weak. Or that she associates it with being weak. There is definitely more to her statements than people are making out.
She must have had a really hard time if she has always felt that she needs to be strong and not show any weakness. Being strong and not showing weakness are fine characteristics but feeling like you can't ever not be that way is sad. She also said her friends tell her it's unhealthy not to cry. And I think that does affect her as well. I got the feeling she's had to shut down emotions full stop to cope. With what I wouldn't even dare speculate. She's definitely a realist and she's definitely used her beauty and stature to intimidate but she may not know any other way.
I don't know but I'm a bit surprised her openness has been used against her. I know she's not a poster for empathy but I felt she was opening up and letting us see a bit of why she lives behind walls.
Completely agree. *faints*
She's a very interesting young woman.
she would only cry for herself , self pitying victimhood who has no self awareness nor a real thought for others.
a user and abuser
theres a low threshold for what passes as physical beauty these days .
not attractive in any sense.
Exactly. However these threads serve a very useful purpose. They allow some to show themselves up and highlight the absence of credibility of some
Just look at the posts saying she's hard faced and callous etc.
when it's obvious she's worn down after a tough week and upset because her friend has been booted out in a shock eviction which had them all reeling.
The lack of self awareness of some people is mind boggling.
I sincerely hope you never have to cope with the loss of a friend or loved one and people criticise you either for not crying enough( a cold hearted bit*h) or you cried too much (looking for attention)
Hazel was devastated after his death. They only spllt because he had to move to London for his training and she had commitments in Dublin.
Think before you rubbish people for something you know absolutely nothing about
I don't think I've ever read a reply from you that doesn't involve you cutting n pasting 2 or multiple posts :rolleyes:
Hazel is as tough as old boots.She must have hardened over the years with having to deal with jealousy perhaps?
Some children are punished by their parents for crying there can be many reasons why someone may not cry also there are people who cry to order as a manipulation technique
Yeah, it was pretty clear what she meant.
In an article about her she said it was a month after she didn't move in with him that he did it. In other places it says they were still dating. Then she has also said it ended months before, so which is true, who knows? This is another one where she talks about it a little - http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2119965/Darren-Sutherlands-ex-girlfriend-Hazel-O-Sullivan-reveals-tried-make-scapegoat.html
She does say she cried there. I don't mean to be harsh on her, I just found it so weird when she said in the DR that it was the closest she'd ever come to crying in her life. I was like hellooo what about when that happened??