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SmiffySmiffy Posts: 93
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Girl at work was involved in a car accident about 14 months ago. She was a passenger and got knocked about a bit, nothing serious and I think the damage was as much psychological as physical.
But she has been complaining about aches and pains throughout, visiting various doctors and specialists, and at times it has affected her work, to the extent that we have had to do some of her more "physical" jobs ourselves. We didn't mind this as we are a small team and she helped out with paperwork etc. to make our lives a little easier where she could.
She has recently been paid ouf £7k compensation.....and boy what a change!!
She is no longer complaining about aches and pains, has joined a local gym and is now bragging about how many squat thrusts and sit ups she can do, and on the two evenings a week she visits, she gets changed at the end of the day and skips off as if nothing has happened.
What would you do, if anything????

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    matthewsoapfanmatthewsoapfan Posts: 61
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    kick her in the teeth
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    matthewsoapfanmatthewsoapfan Posts: 61
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    seriously, i would be really annoyed with this. Has anybody said anything to her about it? do the other people u work with feel the same way as you do about it?
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    SmiffySmiffy Posts: 93
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    seriously, i would be really annoyed with this. Has anybody said anything to her about it? do the other people u work with feel the same way as you do about it?

    Not directly. But I know that one of the other girls who is part time on admin and is a nurse is really, really annoyed. Fuming is the word I think I could use.
    A few comments have been made, and I feel like saying that she should write to the osteopath that she has been visiting, telling them about this "miracle".
    When a comment has been made, she immediately comes back with "do you want to see my osteopaths report?".
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    hustedhusted Posts: 5,287
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    At least you don't have to do her physical jobs any more. Her personal reputation has been damaged. She's lost friends like you. People won't forget. She's sold out her integrity.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    i`d tell her straight that she`s taken the piss, emphasised with matthewsoapfan`s suggestion.
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    tremetreme Posts: 5,445
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    Smiffy wrote: »
    She is no longer complaining about aches and pains, has joined a local gym and is now bragging about how many squat thrusts and sit ups she can do, and on the two evenings a week she visits, she gets changed at the end of the day and skips off as if nothing has happened.
    What would you do, if anything????

    You need to ask what she is spending the money on, as whatever it is, it obviously has excellent health benefits.
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    Hildas HairnetHildas Hairnet Posts: 643
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    Report her actions here https://www.insurancefraudbureau.org/report/

    Then take Matthewsoapfan's advice :D
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,924
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    I would repeat Hilda's and Mathews suggestions. Despicable!
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    fainéantfainéant Posts: 2,654
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    Leave a note on her desk with the IFB telephone number saying someone called when she was out, didn't leave a name but asked her to call back.
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    Hildas HairnetHildas Hairnet Posts: 643
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    fainéant wrote: »
    Leave a note on her desk with the IFB telephone number saying someone called when she was out, didn't leave a name but asked her to call back.

    I like your style :D
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    DarthchaffinchDarthchaffinch Posts: 7,558
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    fainéant wrote: »
    Leave a note on her desk with the IFB telephone number saying someone called when she was out, didn't leave a name but asked her to call back.

    hahaha!
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    Tweacle Tart IITweacle Tart II Posts: 5,079
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    kick her in the teeth

    I know it's wrong but that made me howl with laughter.
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    Paulie WalnutsPaulie Walnuts Posts: 3,059
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    This sounds like jealousy to me. If the payout was only £7000 then she will only have paid for minor discomfort as opposed to a major trauma that will stay with her for life.
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    DrFlowDemandDrFlowDemand Posts: 2,121
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    I would do nothing, just let it go.
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    SmiffySmiffy Posts: 93
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    This sounds like jealousy to me. .

    ??????????
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    This sounds like jealousy to me. If the payout was only £7000 then she will only have paid for minor discomfort as opposed to a major trauma that will stay with her for life.
    Jealousy?
    Sounds to me like the OP is fed up with people claiming for money they're not really entitled to and helping to push up everyone else's cost of insuring. I know it irritates the hell out of me. Especially when I live with someone who went through a truly horrific experience and while they did get a small payout that covered their therapy costs and not a lot else they are still living with the consequences of the accident as am I. People who put it on are the lowest of the low imo.
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    mangomoonmangomoon Posts: 2,127
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    fainéant wrote: »
    Leave a note on her desk with the IFB telephone number saying someone called when she was out, didn't leave a name but asked her to call back.

    Please do this!!
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    Susan_A1951Susan_A1951 Posts: 1,081
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    Why on earth would you want to do anything?
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    SmiffySmiffy Posts: 93
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    Why on earth would you want to do anything?


    OK. Maybe I should have asked "how would you feel?"
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    Christian_GreyChristian_Grey Posts: 1,254
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    OP you sound bitter. The only one getting wound up and affected is you, she's off busy enjoying her life. Perhaps you should let it go eh? It's just a teeny bit sad. Maybe you should join the gym yourself, help release some of that pent up frustration?
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    SmiffySmiffy Posts: 93
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    OP you sound bitter. The only one getting wound up and affected is you, she's off busy enjoying her life. Perhaps you should let it go eh? It's just a teeny bit sad. Maybe you should join the gym yourself, help release some of that pent up frustration?

    Bitter? Wound up? Frustrated???
    Are you a psychiatrist?
    :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:
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