sorry but silly women - typical
they say men should be faithful, like you are but its ok for them not to be and do what they like. shame - im really sorry mate i really am
just wish people would have a simpler life and be honest and faithful.
generalise much? Who says it's OK for women to cheat?
sorry but silly women - typical
they say men should be faithful, like you are but its ok for them not to be and do what they like. shame - im really sorry mate i really am
just wish people would have a simpler life and be honest and faithful.
Silly women?
What planet are you on?
How many of the posters who are advising him to "get in there" are women, do you think?
As for the OP, if it's true, well then I don't see why he needs our advice. Only he knows if he can live with his wife's infidelity - we don't.
Don't tell me, you also have a room with a photocopier in and as you were enjoying your wife and the other girl, halle berry walks in naked as a photcopier fixed and says
I dont know why your complaining, most men would be over the moon that there womens trying 'different things'. Why not suggest a threesome? They you both win.
Don't tell me, you also have a room with a photocopier in and as you were enjoying your wife and the other girl, halle berry walks in naked as a photcopier fixed and says
"Well...what the hell is going on here then?"
I agree, but then my mum's best friend's husband ran off with a Dutch hooker he met in Amsterdam and the rest of the story carries on as porno as it started...
With hindsight perhaps I posted on here 2 hours early.
We have had a tearful, rational discussion and she has confessed the car was parked in a wooded area with the bonnet up so no one coming the other way would see BUT she was IN the car the whole time, kissing with these other women when she was spotted by the woman who phoned me.
She has now spoken to the Hockey club coach telling them she is packing it in.
Where we go from here is anybody's guess....
With hindsight perhaps I posted on here 2 hours early.
We have had a tearful, rational discussion and she has confessed the car was parked in a wooded area with the bonnet up so no one coming the other way would see BUT she was IN the car the whole time, kissing with these other women when she was spotted by the woman who phoned me.
She has now spoken to the Hockey club coach telling them she is packing it in.
Where we go from here is anybody's guess....
Maybe phoning Relate and asking for some couples counselling would be a good place to start?
A very similar thing happened with me - it's a year now since the divorce. I can sympathise because I know the hell involved. We'd been together for 25 years and then after the trauma of her mother's death she changed. The worst part that she went of with one of MY friends, so it was a double betrayal. It's a shitty situation and you end up wondering what you were for. I still have loads of unanswered questions - we have no contact (even through the daughter) and it was (still is) like a bereavement.
mike66 - there are support groups on the net. The Yahoo MMTL was one that I found helpful - but most of the users on it were American, where this kind of thing seems to be rife.
To be blunt, she is cheating on you and loving every minute of it.
Be strong, kick her out. Let her go to this away game and take the opportunity to change the locks.
It will be emotionally hard for you but its for the best. She knows that you know about her first encounter, yet she has continued cheating. She has no respect for you and the only way to move on is to forget about her.
You have already spoke to her once and it hasnt made any difference to her, so ignore that advice. She has made her bed and she can lie in it (albeit not in your house).
Grow a pair man, say you wanna come and watch her next game and if she makes an excuse kick her in the cu*t
Thanks
Punk Football
Good advice PF , the OP has got to treat her as an untrustworthy person and follow her around like an archetypal suspicious wife does. Basically give her a very tough time until you know where this relationship is going .
I'd look for some revenge f*** s too , has she got a sister ?
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generalise much? Who says it's OK for women to cheat?
No, seriously, divorce her immediately so as to prevent you and your kids becomming upset any more.
Tell her it is over and that she is hugely selfish and so on....
Yeah, but wouldn't it be great if it was true!
What planet are you on?
How many of the posters who are advising him to "get in there" are women, do you think?
As for the OP, if it's true, well then I don't see why he needs our advice. Only he knows if he can live with his wife's infidelity - we don't.
Don't tell me, you also have a room with a photocopier in and as you were enjoying your wife and the other girl, halle berry walks in naked as a photcopier fixed and says
"Well...what the hell is going on here then?"
If this is serious OpShe is probably having some kind of mid-life crisis.
Because I happen to have a friend bragging about having pleasurable sessions with some hockey friends, one who's in the late thirties and is married.
My thoughts exactly?The hockey club, the shower, the threesome, the giggling etc
We have had a tearful, rational discussion and she has confessed the car was parked in a wooded area with the bonnet up so no one coming the other way would see BUT she was IN the car the whole time, kissing with these other women when she was spotted by the woman who phoned me.
She has now spoken to the Hockey club coach telling them she is packing it in.
Where we go from here is anybody's guess....
Maybe phoning Relate and asking for some couples counselling would be a good place to start?
http://www.relate.org.uk/
I know from personal experience how hard it can be to get past and infidelity, but it is possible. Best of luck to you.
Thanks for that.
mike66 - there are support groups on the net. The Yahoo MMTL was one that I found helpful - but most of the users on it were American, where this kind of thing seems to be rife.
Thanks
Punk Football
That is a common thought - one that I would have had myself before it happened to me. It's not so funny in reality.
Be strong, kick her out. Let her go to this away game and take the opportunity to change the locks.
It will be emotionally hard for you but its for the best. She knows that you know about her first encounter, yet she has continued cheating. She has no respect for you and the only way to move on is to forget about her.
You have already spoke to her once and it hasnt made any difference to her, so ignore that advice. She has made her bed and she can lie in it (albeit not in your house).
Good advice PF , the OP has got to treat her as an untrustworthy person and follow her around like an archetypal suspicious wife does. Basically give her a very tough time until you know where this relationship is going .
I'd look for some revenge f*** s too , has she got a sister ?