so phil will still have lexi when hes with sharon. thats exactly what i wanted
You want Phil to carry on depriving a girl of HER child, just to prove to YOUR satisfaction that he didn't use Lexi purely to have Sharon go out with him?
You want Phil to carry on depriving a girl of HER child, just to prove to YOUR satisfaction that he didn't use Lexi purely to have Sharon go out with him?
No i dont want phil to have what he wants long term but i want to see what hes like when he has lexi and sharon
Lola will get lexi back evuantually but it has to be done right. The case in my family is still ongoing and hasnt been anywhere near sorted so id be annoyed if phil helped lola get lexi back in the end
You want Phil to carry on depriving a girl of HER child, just to prove to YOUR satisfaction that he didn't use Lexi purely to have Sharon go out with him?
No i dont want phil to have what he wants long term but i want to see what hes like when he has lexi and sharon
Lola will get lexi back evuantually but it has to be done right. The case in my family is still ongoing and hasnt been anywhere near sorted so id be annoyed if phil helped lola get lexi back in the end
I'm sorry, but you have just answered no to my post by agreeing with it.
Lexi is not an experiment, and Lola's feelings for her are real, they cannot be turned off until you have satisfied yourself that Phil can or can't play happy families with Sharon and LOLA' s baby.
It will be done right, Phil will be forced to give her up by the social when they decide Lexi is ready to go home, he does not have a say.
I'm sorry, but you have just answered no to my post by agreeing with it.
Lexi is not an experiment, and Lola's feelings for her are real, they cannot be turned off until you have satisfied yourself that Phil can or can't play happy families with Sharon and LOLA' s baby.
It will be done right, Phil will be forced to give her up by the social when they decide Lexi is ready to go home, he does not have a say.
lola will get lexi back eventually i dont really care either way when she does get her back wether its this year or next year
ive always seen this as part of phils storyline more than lola's he wants to recreate the family that he has lost he will still have lexi when sharon moves in with denny. remember that scene when they were all there after he came back from cornwall ?
it wont be done right if phil is happy to give lexi back to lola. if he is all smiles cos he has sharon now and lexi doesnt matter as much. i want him to lose lexi not just give her back when socials decide lola is ready to have lexi back.
lola will get lexi back eventually i dont really care either way when she does get her back wether its this year or next year
ive always seen this as part of phils storyline more than lola's he wants to recreate the family that he has lost he will still have lexi when sharon moves in with denny. remember that scene when they were all there after he came back from cornwall ?
it wont be done right if phil is happy to give lexi back to lola. if he is all smiles cos he has sharon now and lexi doesnt matter as much. i want him to lose lexi not just give her back when socials decide lola is ready to have lexi back.
Mona, I'm sorry but that first paragraph is the most horrible thing I have heard, you are not a mum, but if you were you would never say that, this storyline is not about Phil's feelings it is about Lolas, to deprive a loving mum of her child for 6 months is bad enough, but you would have her wait 12 months or more to get her child back, just so you can have your "thing" about Phil and his goings on, I know many on here are Phil and Sharon shippers, I'm not one of them, but I'm sure most would agree that Lexi should not be held onto just to see Phil playing Pappa Bear with Sharon, Denny and Lexi.
lola will get lexi back eventually i dont really care either way when she does get her back wether its this year or next year
ive always seen this as part of phils storyline more than lola's he wants to recreate the family that he has lost he will still have lexi when sharon moves in with denny. remember that scene when they were all there after he came back from cornwall ?
it wont be done right if phil is happy to give lexi back to lola. if he is all smiles cos he has sharon now and lexi doesnt matter as much. i want him to lose lexi not just give her back when socials decide lola is ready to have lexi back.
Oh right I get it.
The thing is I see it as part of Lola's story line and it will only be done right if Lola gets Lexi back when Phil sees what a good mum she is which I believe she will prove shortly according to DS spoilers.
Phil's story line is getting Sharon back which is also on the cards and he will indeed be smiling away.
Mona, I'm sorry but that first paragraph is the most horrible thing I have heard, you are not a mum, but if you were you would never say that, this storyline is not about Phil's feelings it is about Lolas, to deprive a loving mum of her child for 6 months is bad enough, but you would have her wait 12 months or more to get her child back, just so you can have your "thing" about Phil and his goings on, I know many on here are Phil and Sharon shippers, I'm not one of them, but I'm sure most would agree that Lexi should not be held onto just to see Phil playing Pappa Bear with Sharon, Denny and Lexi.
the reason why im not bothered when it happens is because we already know she will get her back. this is a soap and im more interested in phils side of things than lola's. phils being horrible and he deserves proper punishment for what hes put her through. i dont want him to hand her back happily and all smiles.
The thing is I see it as part of Lola's story line and it will only be done right if Lola gets Lexi back when Phil sees what a good mum she is which I believe she will prove shortly according to DS spoilers.
Phil's story line is getting Sharon back which is also on the cards and he will indeed be smiling away.
well i do not want phil to end up happy cos he has sharon. that is why i want him to have lexi when hes with sharon. they seem to hint that this good will of phils will not last long.
The thing is I see it as part of Lola's story line and it will only be done right if Lola gets Lexi back when Phil sees what a good mum she is which I believe she will prove shortly according to DS spoilers.
Phil's story line is getting Sharon back which is also on the cards and he will indeed be smiling away.
But it is not up to Phil whether she goes back to her mum, the foster carer/one with the custody order are just her temporary guardian, it is the Social Services who decide when she goes back, Phil can put his case til he is blue in the face, if he tries to hand her over before time or hold onto her when she is released to her mum, he will be in breach of the custody order himself!
the reason why im not bothered when it happens is because we already know she will get her back. this is a soap and im more interested in phils side of things than lola's. phils being horrible and he deserves proper punishment for what hes put her through. i dont want him to hand her back happily and all smiles.
well i do not want phil to end up happy cos he has sharon. that is why i want him to have lexi when hes with sharon. they seem to hint that this good will of phils will not last long.
It's just one of those things I'm afraid mona: we don't always get what we want. Well except me in this particular situation :cool:
Lexi will get Lola back and Phil will reunite with Sharon. Can't wait lol
the reason why im not bothered when it happens is because we already know she will get her back. this is a soap and im more interested in phils side of things than lola's. phils being horrible and he deserves proper punishment for what hes put her through. i dont want him to hand her back happily and all smiles.
well i do not want phil to end up happy cos he has sharon. that is why i want him to have lexi when hes with sharon. they seem to hint that this good will of phils will not last long.
So you want him punished for putting lola through the hell of not having her baby for 6 months, but are quite happy for her to go through the hell of not having her for 12 months, in order to achieve this?
But it is not up to Phil whether she goes back to her mum, the foster carer/one with the custody order are just her temporary guardian, it is the Social Services who decide when she goes back, Phil can put his case til he is blue in the face, if he tries to hand her over before time or hold onto her when she is released to her mum, he will be in breach of the custody order himself!
Of course. Phil has made it difficult though by lying about Lola's behaviour and it worked. When he sees she's a good mum and he has a break through regarding this it will happen.
Of course. Phil has made it difficult though by lying about Lola's behaviour and it worked. When he sees she's a good mum and he has a break through regarding this it will happen.
True, but Trish is onto him;) (Lord,never thought I would be backing Trish as the good guy:D).
True, but Trish is onto him;) (Lord,never thought I would be backing Trish as the good guy:D).
Well whether it's Phil loosening his grip or Trish becoming a better social worker or the law coming into play or a bit of all of them Lola will be getting Lexi back and the sooner the better as far as I'm concerned
It's just one of those things I'm afraid mona: we don't always get what we want. Well except me in this particular situation :cool:
Lexi will get Lola back and Phil will reunite with Sharon. Can't wait lol
well i dont think she will cos phil and sharon get back together week 16 and the spoilers say lola will get lexi back in the next couple of months after that. so phil will still have lexi living with him when he has sharon.
So you want him punished for putting lola through the hell of not having her baby for 6 months, but are quite happy for her to go through the hell of not having her for 12 months, in order to achieve this?
yes i want him punished. i didnt say i want to wait 12 months or whatever. what i meant was it doesnt matter how long it takes phil needs punished. lola will get lexi back i just dont want phil being all smiles when she does.
Of course. Phil has made it difficult though by lying about Lola's behaviour and it worked. When he sees she's a good mum and he has a break through regarding this it will happen.
yes he was meant to have changed and been nicer when lola kidnapped lexi and sharon gave him home truths but that good will didnt last long. i dont think this one will either.
I never believed Phil was using Lexi to get Sharon. I'd be nice if Sharon and Phil got together (couldn't careless about either of them) and Lola got her baby back ASAP. Nothing about this storyline along with the tedious love triangle interests me
I never believed Phil was using Lexi to get Sharon. I'd be nice if Sharon and Phil got together (couldn't careless about either of them) and Lola got her baby back ASAP. Nothing about this storyline along with the tedious love triangle interests me
well theyve been happening along side each other. in my opinion i think phil wants to recreate the family that hes lost so lexi and sharon come as a package.
if he gives lexi back as soon as he has sharon then it leads me to believe he used lexi to get sharon
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but why wouldnt the incident with lola kidnapping lexi make him realize it?
Why would Lola kidnapping Lexi make Phil unsure about his abilities as Lexi's carer
Phil may start to question his abilities when / if Lexi gets sick and he sees how well Lola copes. Well there's certainly a possibility for this.
sharon giving phil some home truths and phil seeing how scared lola was was supposed to stop him in his tracks.
True. Who knows
No it isn't.
Yes I think this will happen.
You want Phil to carry on depriving a girl of HER child, just to prove to YOUR satisfaction that he didn't use Lexi purely to have Sharon go out with him?
No i dont want phil to have what he wants long term but i want to see what hes like when he has lexi and sharon
Lola will get lexi back evuantually but it has to be done right. The case in my family is still ongoing and hasnt been anywhere near sorted so id be annoyed if phil helped lola get lexi back in the end
Sounds like it to me.;)
I'm sorry, but you have just answered no to my post by agreeing with it.
Lexi is not an experiment, and Lola's feelings for her are real, they cannot be turned off until you have satisfied yourself that Phil can or can't play happy families with Sharon and LOLA' s baby.
It will be done right, Phil will be forced to give her up by the social when they decide Lexi is ready to go home, he does not have a say.
lola will get lexi back eventually i dont really care either way when she does get her back wether its this year or next year
ive always seen this as part of phils storyline more than lola's he wants to recreate the family that he has lost he will still have lexi when sharon moves in with denny. remember that scene when they were all there after he came back from cornwall ?
it wont be done right if phil is happy to give lexi back to lola. if he is all smiles cos he has sharon now and lexi doesnt matter as much. i want him to lose lexi not just give her back when socials decide lola is ready to have lexi back.
Mona, I'm sorry but that first paragraph is the most horrible thing I have heard, you are not a mum, but if you were you would never say that, this storyline is not about Phil's feelings it is about Lolas, to deprive a loving mum of her child for 6 months is bad enough, but you would have her wait 12 months or more to get her child back, just so you can have your "thing" about Phil and his goings on, I know many on here are Phil and Sharon shippers, I'm not one of them, but I'm sure most would agree that Lexi should not be held onto just to see Phil playing Pappa Bear with Sharon, Denny and Lexi.
Oh right I get it.
The thing is I see it as part of Lola's story line and it will only be done right if Lola gets Lexi back when Phil sees what a good mum she is which I believe she will prove shortly according to DS spoilers.
Phil's story line is getting Sharon back which is also on the cards and he will indeed be smiling away.
But it is not up to Phil whether she goes back to her mum, the foster carer/one with the custody order are just her temporary guardian, it is the Social Services who decide when she goes back, Phil can put his case til he is blue in the face, if he tries to hand her over before time or hold onto her when she is released to her mum, he will be in breach of the custody order himself!
It's just one of those things I'm afraid mona: we don't always get what we want. Well except me in this particular situation :cool:
Lexi will get Lola back and Phil will reunite with Sharon. Can't wait lol
So you want him punished for putting lola through the hell of not having her baby for 6 months, but are quite happy for her to go through the hell of not having her for 12 months, in order to achieve this?
Of course. Phil has made it difficult though by lying about Lola's behaviour and it worked. When he sees she's a good mum and he has a break through regarding this it will happen.
True, but Trish is onto him;) (Lord,never thought I would be backing Trish as the good guy:D).
Well whether it's Phil loosening his grip or Trish becoming a better social worker or the law coming into play or a bit of all of them Lola will be getting Lexi back and the sooner the better as far as I'm concerned
yes i want him punished. i didnt say i want to wait 12 months or whatever. what i meant was it doesnt matter how long it takes phil needs punished. lola will get lexi back i just dont want phil being all smiles when she does.
yes he was meant to have changed and been nicer when lola kidnapped lexi and sharon gave him home truths but that good will didnt last long. i dont think this one will either.
well theyve been happening along side each other. in my opinion i think phil wants to recreate the family that hes lost so lexi and sharon come as a package.
if he gives lexi back as soon as he has sharon then it leads me to believe he used lexi to get sharon