No Friends

Steve35Steve35 Posts: 2,468
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Are there other people on here who don't have any like me?
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  • hisdogspothisdogspot Posts: 23,348
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    Is your real name Billy, Steve ?
  • James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    I have one friend and lived here 13 years before I met her.

    In my entire life I've only had two.
  • MAWMAW Posts: 38,777
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    I have one friend and lived here 13 years before I met her.

    In my entire life I've only had two.

    Have you checked your deodourant?
  • hisdogspothisdogspot Posts: 23,348
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    I have one friend and lived here 13 years before I met her.

    In my entire life I've only had two.

    What about when you were in school ?
  • AddisonianAddisonian Posts: 16,377
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    Steve35 wrote: »
    Are there other people on here who don't have any like me?
    What have you done to try and find friends?
  • Steve35Steve35 Posts: 2,468
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    hisdogspot wrote: »
    What about when you were in school ?

    I had 4 good mates in school, but we lost contact after.
  • James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    MAW wrote: »
    Have you checked your deodourant?

    It's more me I'm not really a people person prefer to be by myself most of the time
    hisdogspot wrote: »
    What about when you were in school ?

    That's where the other friend was
  • Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    No, although I had a severe lack of friends at school and it was the most miserable time of my life.

    I honestly don't know if I could cope without my friends, sometimes.

    OP, are you happy with your lack of friends situation or are you looking to change it? There are websites that arrange meet ups with like minded people and I've known people make great new friends from these. I was thinking of going to one myself as it's always nice to meet people!
  • Steve35Steve35 Posts: 2,468
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    Addisonian wrote: »
    What have you done to try and find friends?

    The usual thing, don't really fit in.
  • Steve35Steve35 Posts: 2,468
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    Bex_123 wrote: »
    No, although I had a severe lack of friends at school and it was the most miserable time of my life.

    I honestly don't know if I could cope without my friends, sometimes.

    OP, are you happy with your lack of friends situation or are you looking to change it? There are websites that arrange meet ups with like minded people and I've known people make great new friends from these. I was thinking of going to one myself as it's always nice to meet people!

    I wouldn't say 100% happy, but i can do everything that i want when i want:D
  • NoseyLouieNoseyLouie Posts: 5,651
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    I have two friends whom I haven't seen in two years, phone occasionally that's it. I had loads in school. I am not fussed as I am busy with my life and have my family close. I am quite content.
  • towerstowers Posts: 12,183
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    MAW wrote: »
    Have you checked your deodourant?

    Some people just aren't comfortable around other people or aren't very social, even a litter of puppies will have its brave ones and its nervous ones, right from birth.

    I've only ever had a few close friends throughout my 35 years.
  • Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    Steve35 wrote: »
    I wouldn't say 100% happy, but i can do everything that i want when i want:D

    I can too :D

    Seriously, there are loads of ways to meet new people if you so wished.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,759
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    I have two friends :). I did have more or so i thought but they screwed me over (not literally) last year and only today saw one and she blanked me for no reason, so i screamed.
  • hisdogspothisdogspot Posts: 23,348
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    Steve35 wrote: »
    I had 4 good mates in school, but we lost contact after.

    Do you work ? ... do you socialise ? ... are you isolated and not able to meet people ( make friends ) ?

    Don't mean to pry Steve, but it matters if having no friends makes you unhappy ( are you unhappy about it ? ... you didn't say )
  • dawnrayddawnrayd Posts: 6,746
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    Steve35 wrote: »
    Are there other people on here who don't have any like me?

    I'd say it's highly likely.
  • Steve35Steve35 Posts: 2,468
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    hisdogspot wrote: »
    Do you work ? ... do you socialise ? ... are you isolated and not able to meet people ( make friends ) ?

    Don't mean to pry Steve, but it matters if having no friends makes you unhappy ( are you unhappy about it ? ... you didn't say )

    See above.
  • James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    towers wrote: »
    Some people just aren't comfortable around other people or aren't very social, even a litter of puppies will have its brave ones and its nervous ones, right from birth.
    .

    That's me I was even the same at nursery at junior school my Mum had to be called in as I kept to myself to much I didn't talk to the students or teachers unless they spoke first (if I had a problem with the work I used to figure it out myself) and then I said as little as possible.

    I've even had to see a psychiatrist over it as I can get physically sick if I have to meet or talk to people.
  • Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    That's me I was even the same at nursery at junior school my Mum had to be called in as I kept to myself to much I didn't talk to the students or teachers unless they spoke first (if I had a problem with the work I used to figure it out myself) and then I said as little as possible.

    I've even had to see a psychiatrist over it as I can get physically sick if I have to meet or talk to people.

    The fact you're a full time carer for family members probably hasn't helped matters, James.
  • James FrederickJames Frederick Posts: 53,184
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    Miss XYZ wrote: »
    The fact you're a full time carer for family members probably hasn't helped matters, James.

    Very true however the one friend I do have I met because of that.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,129
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    Friends are over-rated...they only want stuff.
  • CasualCasual Posts: 2,696
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    Have you tried Adult Friend Finder?
  • LaceyLouelle3LaceyLouelle3 Posts: 9,682
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    I can honestly say I don't have any friends. I have a few people who I spend time with occasionally and talk to sometimes and I really don't feel like I'm missing out most of the time.
  • Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    I can honestly say I don't have any friends. I have a few people who I spend time with occasionally and talk to sometimes and I really don't feel like I'm missing out most of the time.


    You know you have a friend in HaloJoe!! :D;)

    As do all females under a certain age lol
  • OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    I don't have many friends my own age that I can go for a pint with etc.
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