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Are charity collectors allowed to harrass you.

bryemycazbryemycaz Posts: 11,738
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Today at the exit of the supermarket there was a guy collecting for disabled children. All well and good however as I had already given to two other similar collections earlier up the town, as well as my monthly charity donations. I did not give any to this guy.

He was in the main entrance lobby so could not avoid walking by him. I thought if I don't make eye contact then I can just leave. However he then said quite loud "We are collecting here for DISABLED children" (he didn't shout disabled just emphasised it a bit). I ignored him and carried on walking, I could have spoke but I do not want to justify myself to every charity worker that I see.

As I said I have my selected charities I cannot give to every single one going. I'm not heartless but I have to draw the line somewhere.
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    skipjack79skipjack79 Posts: 3,250
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    The only person who allows you to feel harassed is yourself, and I doubt minimum wage charity bods would achieve that.
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    R410R410 Posts: 2,991
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    I treat them like I do beggers, ignore them, if they push it I tell them to p*$$ off. Can't stand any type of sales people that try and cold sell to you.
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    OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    Lee Nelson does a sketch on this on "Well Funny People".
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    Glenn AGlenn A Posts: 23,877
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    We have a problem locally with East Europeans who sell the Big Issue and practically shove it in your face.
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    OhWhenTheSaintsOhWhenTheSaints Posts: 12,531
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    Glenn A wrote: »
    We have a problem locally with East Europeans who sell the Big Issue and practically shove it in your face.

    "Beeeeeeg issueeee pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease".
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    Pistol WhipPistol Whip Posts: 9,677
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    I just ignore them and go about my business.
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    We get a lot of them at the supermarkets where I live. The ones I've seen have been polite but I only usually give money when they're from the local animal rescue centres.
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    IzzySIzzyS Posts: 11,045
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    I thought I once read that strictly speaking, people collecting for charity aren't allowed to speak out and are only allowed to rattle their can(?). If they shout out for people to donate, it could be seen as causing a public nuisance or some such? I might be wrong though...
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    IzzyS wrote: »
    I thought I once read that strictly speaking, people collecting for charity aren't allowed to speak out and are only allowed to rattle their can(?). If they shout out for people to donate, it could be seen as causing a public nuisance or some such? I might be wrong though...

    Yeah I'm sure i've heard something like that too.
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    Pistol WhipPistol Whip Posts: 9,677
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    I thought they weren't allowed to rattle or shake their tins.
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    "Beeeeeeg issueeee pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease".

    Almost there, Saints. ;)
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    Pink KnightPink Knight Posts: 24,773
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    I was in Sainsbury's today and there were kids at the end of the checkout with buckets.
    It seems to happen in that shop more than others.
    Paid for 6 items with a credit card.
    Should have let them pack them for me before I got the card out.
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    IzzySIzzyS Posts: 11,045
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    I thought they weren't allowed to rattle or shake their tins.

    I couldn't remember for sure but im pretty sure their not allowed to start up conversations (unless the other person starts it, I presume) or otherwise shout out to people on the street.
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    FlannoFlanno Posts: 1,427
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    I thought they weren't allowed to rattle or shake their tins.

    Indeed.

    One of the rules states: 'Collectors should not cause danger, obstruction, inconvenience or annoyance to any person'

    This from the website: http://content.met.police.uk/Article/Street-collection-programme/1400012728085/1400012728085
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    I was in Sainsbury's today and there were kids at the end of the checkout with buckets.
    It seems to happen in that shop more than others.

    Paid for 6 items with a credit card.
    Should have let them pack them for me before I got the card out.

    Yeah they're always in Sainsburys here too. A very famous face helped them out recently so no doubt there would've been a huge queue at that checkout.
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    g4jcg4jc Posts: 839
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    I thought they weren't allowed to rattle or shake their tins.

    Son used to do collection days. So info from him :p NOT allowed to rattle or yell!

    Charities have to get permission to place collectors/have collection days, so a complaint because of collectors being 'smart a***s' is would not be good.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 480
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    Depends what charity it is whether I donate or not, and I hate the hard sell some give you. One chased me down the street once on my lunch hour trying to embarrass me but I just told him to p*** off.

    I don't understand the foreign Big Issue sellers, surely our homeless have got enough to contend with, without having to compete with foreigners for donations? Definitely don't give to them, gawd I sound like a right scrooge. :o
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    davidmcndavidmcn Posts: 12,111
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    IzzyS wrote: »
    I couldn't remember for sure but im pretty sure their not allowed to start up conversations (unless the other person starts it, I presume) or otherwise shout out to people on the street.

    The OP isn't about one in the street, is it. They can do whatever the supermarket allows them.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 507
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    one of our local big issue seller is a foreign lady, always chatting on her Iphone while randomly shouting "Big Issue" to people as they walk past.
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    ChickenWingsChickenWings Posts: 2,057
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    Nobody is allowed to harass you. If they were the word harass would kinda lose its meaning.
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    ChickenWingsChickenWings Posts: 2,057
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    Radiance26 wrote: »
    one of our local big issue seller is a foreign lady, always chatting on her Iphone while randomly shouting "Big Issue" to people as they walk past.

    That's hilarious! :D
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    Hugh JboobsHugh Jboobs Posts: 15,316
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    bryemycaz wrote: »
    Today at the exit of the supermarket there was a guy collecting for disabled children. All well and good however as I had already given to two other similar collections earlier up the town, as well as my monthly charity donations. I did not give any to this guy.

    He was in the main entrance lobby so could not avoid walking by him. I thought if I don't make eye contact then I can just leave. However he then said quite loud "We are collecting here for DISABLED children" (he didn't shout disabled just emphasised it a bit). I ignored him and carried on walking, I could have spoke but I do not want to justify myself to every charity worker that I see.

    As I said I have my selected charities I cannot give to every single one going. I'm not heartless but I have to draw the line somewhere.

    I agree it's annoying. But I'm not sure I'd go as far as calling that harassment.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 59
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    I thought they weren't allowed to rattle or shake their tins.

    Personally, I don't recall anyone shaking or rattling their tins at me, but I've had them obstructing my path (mostly in the entrance of a supermarket) or just generally getting in my way. What pisses me off no end is when they try to tell you about the charity they're collecting for - and when you tell them you aren't interested - they answer with, "Listen....". 'No, I don't want to [censored] listen...that's why I'm ignoring you!'
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    bryemycazbryemycaz Posts: 11,738
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    I agree it's annoying. But I'm not sure I'd go as far as calling that harassment.

    I forgot to put down that I was the only person leaving the store at the time. There was no-one coming in either so this guy was directing his voice at me.
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