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Birthday advice
I'm 29 on Saturday, my mum is off for the day and wants to take me bowling or something. I agreed earlier, but been thinking about it and been worried about it because I think it's a bit sad going bowling with your mum at my age. I am working Saturday night so can't really do much, and was just thinking it would be normal ish day and I would see some mates or something.
I will feel bad saying no and seeing mates, but if my mates suggest something I don't want to be laughed at if I go bowling with my mum instead.
I just feel a bit worked up as well because if we go, I will feel like people will think there's something wrong with me to still be going bowling with my mum.
Just wanted to know what other people thought about this.....
I will feel bad saying no and seeing mates, but if my mates suggest something I don't want to be laughed at if I go bowling with my mum instead.
I just feel a bit worked up as well because if we go, I will feel like people will think there's something wrong with me to still be going bowling with my mum.
Just wanted to know what other people thought about this.....
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Does bowling finish really late nowadays? I only ask because maybe if it's over by 10pm you could arrange to go for a drink with mates after, if it crops up? If it's an afternoon thing, it'll be well over by evening, will it?
If you don't arrange anything with mates and they ask what you did, just tell them you gave your mum your time because it's been years since she got to spend time with you like this on your birthday.
I had a similar situation earlier this year, but I'm not suggesting this is what your mum's doing. Basically, I had a feeling one of my lads would be on his own on Valentine's Day and he'd been a little sensitive about it, so I asked him if he'd keep me company unless he had anything else planned, even if someone asked him out last minute. He was completely happy with it, and we got a Chinese takeaway in and had a couple of glasses of wine. He'd told his mates he was treating his old mum to a takeaway because he loves her. Which is true! (Edit: He's 26, by the way.)
Hope you enjoy your birthday
Excellent!! Great outlook, and if you were one of my lads and I heard that, I'd be very happy with him. Plus, it shows any mates you tell how much you value your mum, and there's nowt wrong with that at all.
Have a lovely time, and a great birthday. x
It has been a while since we spent time together on my birthday as we both used to work as manager/supervisor in a newsagent so covered each other., and last few years one of us has been working. Worrying about it is just me being me really. I think it's a great idea now I thought about it. As I just thought to myself if the biggest thing I can worry about is my mum wanting to go bowling with me then I should get a grip really haha.
Your birthday No1 song was Move Closer, by Phyllis Nelson. I bought it that week! :cool:
My son is nearly the same age as you and we often go bowling or to the cinema or a show together, we really enjoy each other's company and neither of us could care less what anyone else thinks. It's not their business anyway.
Have a brilliant time
Have a great birthday OP.
Happy birthday for Saturday, its mine today I spent it with my parents, and on Saturday Im going out on the piss with my mates. Try it like that maybe? delegate some time for your mum to be with you and some time for your mates.