FWIW, the main thing that this demonstrates, to me, is more about the different ways male vs female strippers see their role.
A female stripper is there to do a job and she's not interested in allowing the audience to do anything more than look.
A male stripper (one who allows girls to give him a BJ) is, possibly, more into the whole idea of turning the event into some kind of sexual fantasy.
I did once have a chat with a stripper that seemed to confirm this...
A guy I know had an 18th birthday party and they hired this girl as a stripper for him.
Her act was actually pretty, erm, personal (and extremely hawt).
At one point she was lying on a pool table while he was "drinking from the furry cup".
The finale of her act was to wrap a cloak around herself and the guy and "finish him off". :eek:
Sooo....
A few months later somebody organised another party and was determined to get the same stripper back for a repeat performance.
This time, however, her performance was thoroughly mundane, although very professional.
Later on she was sitting in the lounge (dressed) with a few people and somebody mentioned that her performance that night didn't live up to expectations.
Most people around were p*ssed so she ended up talking to me and she said, quite simply, that the previous show had been with a sexy young guy and there was a good atmosphere so she felt like "taking things a bit further" whereas this performance hadn't seemed like anything particularly special so she just gave the punters what they paid for, nothing more.
I suspect the same applies to male strippers but, being guys, they're a lot less choosy about deciding to take their act that bit further.
Sounds etrememly dangerous letting a large group of drink fuelled women loose on your person - I'm sure there must be a health and safety directive that suggests they take their false teeth out first
Pornographic? Good God, some people need to get out there and live a little.
Oh come on!! Do you not agree it crosses the line between titillation and pornagraphic? How is a man flaunting his erect penis not pornagraphic? What is pornagraphic then? Getting female members to fist him?:rolleyes:
Oh come on!! Do you not agree it crosses the line between titillation and pornagraphic? How is a man flaunting his erect penis not pornagraphic? What is pornagraphic then? Getting female members to fist him?:rolleyes:
I think it's the other way round, have a google, there are plenty of pics of male strippers getting a bj from someone in the crowd in the middle of the show, but as the op says this sort of thing does not happen when the stripper is female and the audience male.
It does. A friend of ours arranged some girls/boys nights out. The girls night was first and we all went off to what was just a giggly strip show, lots of fun, but no seedy antics.
Our other halves then went to their show, which we expected to be the same, and so did they, but they were quite shocked. The strippers' instructions to the audience was (use your tongues if you like, but no fingers - they can hurt) :eek:
They then went round each table, climbing on the tables and letting the blokes .......well...... use their tongues :eek:
Did they reconcile? How did she explain the cancellation to everyone and her family?
Have to say if I was the husband to be and saw that, Id be pretty gutted.
Yeah they got back together. Unmarried though as of right now. He tore her mates to absolute shreds for allowing it and for being prepared to do a 'what goes on a night out, stays on a night out' type of thing. Felt very let down by the whole thing but at least they are back on track now.
Told the family something along the lines of they needed time apart and wanted to be sure they were doing the right thing. They never suspected a thing as far as I'm aware. Who knows what chinese whispers they pick up on though.
Yeah they got back together. Unmarried though as of right now. He tore her mates to absolute shreds for allowing it and for being prepared to do a 'what goes on a night out, stays on a night out' type of thing. Felt very let down by the whole thing but at least they are back on track now.
Told the family something along the lines of they needed time apart and wanted to be sure they were doing the right thing. They never suspected a thing as far as I'm aware. Who knows what chinese whispers they pick up on though.
What a mug, he deserves to get cheated on again for that.
If the stripper is being fellated, he isn't a stripper, he's a prostitute.
No, only if he's being paid FOR being fellated. If he's just going for it on work time, that's different. If you shag someone in the stationery cupboard of your office, it doesn't make you a prostitute just because you were paid to be there.
If you are a woman who fellatios a stripper, then you might as well leave the club and either stand on the nearest street corner or find the nearest porno agency.
Frankly, if you have so little self respect that you do the above, you might as well go the whole hog and get paid for it.
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That was sort of my point. Why don't they just strip naked? An erect penis is very pornagraphic.
Pornographic? Good God, some people need to get out there and live a little.
A female stripper is there to do a job and she's not interested in allowing the audience to do anything more than look.
A male stripper (one who allows girls to give him a BJ) is, possibly, more into the whole idea of turning the event into some kind of sexual fantasy.
I did once have a chat with a stripper that seemed to confirm this...
A guy I know had an 18th birthday party and they hired this girl as a stripper for him.
Her act was actually pretty, erm, personal (and extremely hawt).
At one point she was lying on a pool table while he was "drinking from the furry cup".
The finale of her act was to wrap a cloak around herself and the guy and "finish him off". :eek:
Sooo....
A few months later somebody organised another party and was determined to get the same stripper back for a repeat performance.
This time, however, her performance was thoroughly mundane, although very professional.
Later on she was sitting in the lounge (dressed) with a few people and somebody mentioned that her performance that night didn't live up to expectations.
Most people around were p*ssed so she ended up talking to me and she said, quite simply, that the previous show had been with a sexy young guy and there was a good atmosphere so she felt like "taking things a bit further" whereas this performance hadn't seemed like anything particularly special so she just gave the punters what they paid for, nothing more.
I suspect the same applies to male strippers but, being guys, they're a lot less choosy about deciding to take their act that bit further.
Oh come on!! Do you not agree it crosses the line between titillation and pornagraphic? How is a man flaunting his erect penis not pornagraphic? What is pornagraphic then? Getting female members to fist him?:rolleyes:
would anyone on DS even contemplate this??
He might get double nectar points if he does.
Yours might be, but mine most certainly isn't
Did they reconcile? How did she explain the cancellation to everyone and her family?
Have to say if I was the husband to be and saw that, Id be pretty gutted.
Well, I can believe it, I've met him and he's gorgeous in the flesh
(It wasn't me in the photo though, honest :D)
Off to trawl google images.......................
It does. A friend of ours arranged some girls/boys nights out. The girls night was first and we all went off to what was just a giggly strip show, lots of fun, but no seedy antics.
Our other halves then went to their show, which we expected to be the same, and so did they, but they were quite shocked. The strippers' instructions to the audience was (use your tongues if you like, but no fingers - they can hurt) :eek:
They then went round each table, climbing on the tables and letting the blokes .......well...... use their tongues :eek:
You sound fun :eek:
Yeah they got back together. Unmarried though as of right now. He tore her mates to absolute shreds for allowing it and for being prepared to do a 'what goes on a night out, stays on a night out' type of thing. Felt very let down by the whole thing but at least they are back on track now.
Told the family something along the lines of they needed time apart and wanted to be sure they were doing the right thing. They never suspected a thing as far as I'm aware. Who knows what chinese whispers they pick up on though.
What a mug, he deserves to get cheated on again for that.
Is being disgusted at the idea of performing oral sex on a complete stranger in a bar full of drunks, being prudish?
I think most of us just like to keep our fun to ourselves and usually with people we actually know (well, at least had a conversation with!)
I was only joking, calm down dear!
And your right by the way
I was expecting to know who Chico was as it is meant to be popular knowledge on here.
Uh, I may be missing something... but isn't that the point?
No, only if he's being paid FOR being fellated. If he's just going for it on work time, that's different. If you shag someone in the stationery cupboard of your office, it doesn't make you a prostitute just because you were paid to be there.
Frankly, if you have so little self respect that you do the above, you might as well go the whole hog and get paid for it.
everyone you see in those clubs has probably been paid for some form of adult work by the production company.