Having A Girl As A Friend...

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• Henderson Posts: 11,952

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  12/05/10 - 21:53 #2

  I need someone to iron my clothes....

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• A321 Posts: 6,363

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  12/05/10 - 21:54 #3

  Even better. Abide by the 3-F's.

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• solarflare Posts: 22,377

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  12/05/10 - 21:56 #4

  megatron_man wrote: »

  what's the point in a girl friend if you can't have a relationship with them?? anyone agree?

  
  For the same reasons you might want to have guy friends - who you don't feel the need to shag/get involved with?

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• megatron_man Posts: 873

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  12/05/10 - 21:58 #5

  solarflare wrote: »

  For the same reasons you might want to have guy friends - who you don't feel the need to shag/get involved with?

  
  nah nothing to do with sex...

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• [Deleted User] Posts: 1,459

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  12/05/10 - 21:58 #6

  megatron_man wrote: »

  Do people want them????/......i mean...as a guy...i don't want a girl as a friend unless it is in the relaionship......
  
  is anyone else the same????....what's the point in a girl friend if you can't have a relationship with them?? anyone agree?

  So girls are only good for relationships not as friends? :rolleyes:
  
  I love having girls as friends. Sometimes they are best.

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• [Deleted User] Posts: 10,273

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  12/05/10 - 22:01 #7

  I feel the same about having man friends. I'm one of those 'men and women can't just be friends' people. My friends think thats ridiculous and insist they can, but their track records say otherwise.

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• silentNate Posts: 84,079

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  12/05/10 - 22:04 #8

  megatron_man wrote: »

  Do people want them????/......i mean...as a guy...i don't want a girl as a friend unless it is in the relaionship......
  
  is anyone else the same????....what's the point in a girl friend if you can't have a relationship with them?? anyone agree?

  
  MOST immature opening post to a thread I've seen here.
  
  If you are sad enough to be friends only with members of the same sex then go ahead, more fool you.

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• *weeschmoo* Posts: 9,713

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  12/05/10 - 22:05 #9

  My best friend is a bloke (I am a female) we have never fancied each other, I think the point is well, he's my friend and I am his.

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• [Deleted User] Posts: 15,411

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  12/05/10 - 22:05 #10

  megatron_man wrote: »

  Do people want them????/......i mean...as a guy...i don't want a girl as a friend unless it is in the relaionship......
  
  is anyone else the same????....what's the point in a girl friend if you can't have a relationship with them?? anyone agree?

  
  Are you one of the 12 year olds who post here?

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• Henderson Posts: 11,952

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  12/05/10 - 22:06 #11

  *weeschmoo* wrote: »

  My best friend is a bloke (I am a female) we have never fancied each other, I think the point is well, he's my friend and I am his.

  
  
  I bet he secretly wants to boff you....

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• megatron_man Posts: 873

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  12/05/10 - 22:07 #12

  silentNate wrote: »

  MOST immature opening post to a thread I've seen here.
  
  If you are sad enough to be friends only with members of the same sex then go ahead, more fool you.

  MsMarmalade wrote: »

  Are you one of the 12 year olds who post here?

  
  :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

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• 2-Pot Screamer Posts: 34,238

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  12/05/10 - 22:11 #13

  If the OP says he couldn't have a girl as a friend, it's probably true - for him.
  
  Until he's old enough to shave, anyway.

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• Jimmy Connors Posts: 117,806

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  12/05/10 - 22:14 #14

  A few of my very closest friends are female. No sexual attraction at all. It is possible to have a platonic friend of the opposite sex OP.

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• megatron_man Posts: 873

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  12/05/10 - 22:18 #15

  i do enjoy female company...but hate the stuck up type.

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• Stiffy78 Posts: 26,260

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  12/05/10 - 22:20 #16

  My closest friends are split pretty equally between the genders.
  Most of us met at uni and there were some fairly short lived relationships in the early days but we've remained a close knit group for about 12 years since any of that was happening. I value good friendship from either sex.

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• Jimmy Connors Posts: 117,806

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  12/05/10 - 22:21 #17

  megatron_man wrote: »

  i do enjoy female company...but hate ther stuck up type.

  
  Are you talking about women in general or a particular type of woman? I do not understand the above sentence.

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• *weeschmoo* Posts: 9,713

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  12/05/10 - 22:24 #18

  Henderson wrote: »

  I bet he secretly wants to boff you....

  
  No, he doesn't. He has good taste.

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• Henderson Posts: 11,952

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  12/05/10 - 22:24 #19

  megatron_man wrote: »

  i do enjoy female company...but hate the stuck up type.

  
  Do you have a wonderful sister?

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• Henderson Posts: 11,952

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  12/05/10 - 22:25 #20

  *weeschmoo* wrote: »

  No, he doesn't. He has good taste.

  
  He's a man, he's not fussy.
  
  That sounds bad, I dont mean you're not up to his standard...
  
  Im gonna stop talking now....

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• irishguy Posts: 22,172

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  12/05/10 - 22:25 #21

  Have you ever noticed that a lot of fiction tries to throw close friends of opposite sex together? I wonder if this is why people think its impossible for close friends of an opposite sex to remain platonic?

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• *weeschmoo* Posts: 9,713

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  12/05/10 - 22:28 #22

  Henderson wrote: »

  He's a man, he's not fussy.
  
  That sounds bad, I dont mean you're not up to his standard...
  
  Im gonna stop talking now....

  
  Aye, probably best.
  
  He doesn't see me as a female though, just as me. I pride myself on being the only female he hasn't fancied.

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• kim1994 Posts: 7,332

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  12/05/10 - 22:32 #23

  Henderson wrote: »

  He's a man, he's not fussy.
  
  That sounds bad, I dont mean you're not up to his standard...
  
  Im gonna stop talking now....

  
  prob a good idea:D:D Of course men and women can be 'just' friends, it is a bit immature to think otherwise

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• stoatie Posts: 78,106

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  12/05/10 - 22:34 #24

  megatron_man wrote: »

  Do people want them????/......i mean...as a guy...i don't want a girl as a friend unless it is in the relaionship......
  
  is anyone else the same????....what's the point in a girl friend if you can't have a relationship with them?? anyone agree?

  
  So just out of interest, how do your relationships usually work out?

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• megatron_man Posts: 873

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  12/05/10 - 22:38 #25

  stoatie wrote: »

  So just out of interest, how do your relationships usually work out?

  
  welll 2bh....nothing has lasted more than a few days

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• MAW Posts: 38,777

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  12/05/10 - 22:39 #26

  Henderson wrote: »

  Do you have a wonderful sister?

  
  I'm quite enjoying some of your posts today:D

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