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People who call others "mate"

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    oilmanoilman Posts: 4,529
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    Here in Scotland, the old phrase was pal I.e. alright pal, but that has come to have a negative undertone I.e it means not my pal.

    The term that seems to taken over is bud (short for buddy I assume). OK it is used in a more friendly context rather than pal but I don't like being called part of a bush or flour.

    I actually would prefer something like .... I know - mate!
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    ChipDouglas82ChipDouglas82 Posts: 6,700
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    oilman wrote: »
    Here in Scotland, the old phrase was pal I.e. alright pal, but that has come to have a negative undertone I.e it means not my pal.

    The term that seems to taken over is bud (short for buddy I assume). OK it is used in a more friendly context rather than pal but I don't like being called part of a bush or flour.

    I actually would prefer something like .... I know - mate!

    I don't mind 'buddy' I've actually used that term a few times myself.
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    ChrissieAOChrissieAO Posts: 5,143
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    QuixoticQuixotic Posts: 668
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    I don't mind people calling me mate. They could call me worse things.
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    deans6571deans6571 Posts: 6,137
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    This is something that really bugs me. I don't mind it so much if the person calling me "mate" is an actual friend of mine.

    But it really bugs me if say, I order a take-away meal and the delivery guy calls me "mate".

    Is it something that annoys anyone else?

    ...surely its better than being called 'bruv', 'buddy', 'me old mucker', 'pal', 'chief' or 'boss' though?!

    I've been called all of these before...!!!!!
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    EuanMebabeEuanMebabe Posts: 1,188
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    The man, near retirement age, who emptied my septic tank this morning kept calling me "my bird". It was clearly meant as a term of endearment and I liked it. I must be mellowing! :) It's the same when older people call me "love". It's nice.
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