Letting someone in your house that hates you....
Long and complex story. ( pesudo names are used!) I have a very good friend, Tracey. Don't see a lot of each other as live a couple of hours drive away. She went to uni near where I live, and know a fair few people in the area. She will often come up once or twice a year, and visit as many people as possible in one day out.
Tracey is gay. I am not, and have no interest in women. She's not had any serious girlfriends (that I've known about) until one she met a few months ago, Lisa. I was introduced to Lisa at a mutual friends house, and she seemed a bit shy, but we spoke about dogs, as we both have one. At this point surrounded by people.
I had to go and sort out some stuff with Tracey (pick up some stuff out of the garden shed), and then I was going home. Said goodbye to Tracey, who had wandered off to do something else, then I went to get in my car. Lisa and another girl were then outside in the garden feeding birds or something. Said goodbye, only response was from other girl. Lisa did not even look at me or acknowledge me.
I'm pretty sure that Lisa is jealous of me (kind of fair enough as Tracey is one of my best friends) however Lisa radiated hate towards me the minute I met her. Which quite frankly is her problem, but the next time Tracey comes on her visits, Lisa will be coming, and to be honest, I'll be dammed if I invite someone into my house that has been so shockingly rude to me before.
Thoughts?
Tracey is gay. I am not, and have no interest in women. She's not had any serious girlfriends (that I've known about) until one she met a few months ago, Lisa. I was introduced to Lisa at a mutual friends house, and she seemed a bit shy, but we spoke about dogs, as we both have one. At this point surrounded by people.
I had to go and sort out some stuff with Tracey (pick up some stuff out of the garden shed), and then I was going home. Said goodbye to Tracey, who had wandered off to do something else, then I went to get in my car. Lisa and another girl were then outside in the garden feeding birds or something. Said goodbye, only response was from other girl. Lisa did not even look at me or acknowledge me.
I'm pretty sure that Lisa is jealous of me (kind of fair enough as Tracey is one of my best friends) however Lisa radiated hate towards me the minute I met her. Which quite frankly is her problem, but the next time Tracey comes on her visits, Lisa will be coming, and to be honest, I'll be dammed if I invite someone into my house that has been so shockingly rude to me before.
Thoughts?
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(The house that hates you )
Could it be that?
If the relationship lasts you may see this girl twice a year so who really cares if she likes you, just do the adult thing and be nice to her, you might find that once she is comfortable around you that you gain another friend.
Why did you talk about dogs to somebody who you think has hated you since the minute she met you? And how does a shy person go about radiating hate - do they sneer and glare at you, without actually meeting yours (or anybody elses) gaze?
No, at the most a mild dislike. From the thread title you'd think she'd been bunny boiling.
Can't see what she did to warrant such a strong reaction from you, myself. I presume there must be more to this than you've said.