why is lesbian sex deemed acceptable where as gay isnt?

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  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    dee123 wrote: »
    Cause' sadly still in 2013 white, old, straight men decide a hell of a lot.

    Although to hear the way they moan on DS you might not believe it.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,450
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    I would rather see 2 lipstick lesbos at it than 2 hairy sweaty ass robbers.;)
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    Because the world is ruled and defined by straight males (This is a man's world)

    So lesbians are deemed acceptable as at least they are deemed sexually attractive and if lucky with let the straight male join in (in his dreams!)

    But gay males are not sexually attractive and the very thought therefore disgusts some straight males. (Or thought what they are doing thinking about gay sex, we don't actually know)

    It's hang ups from years ago and the church is playing it part in trying to keep us dumb and held back.
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    rgflynn wrote: »
    I would rather see 2 lipstick lesbos at it than 2 hairy sweaty ass robbers.;)

    But it's not about or anything to do with what any one person is sexually attracted to or finds a turn on. It's about what is acceptable. But that seems to be defined by some as just what they like sexually.
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    dee123 wrote: »
    Cause' sadly still in 2013 white, old, straight men decide a hell of a lot.

    Not surprisingly two of just that sort have been elected heads of their powerful religions.
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    pugamo wrote: »
    Lesbian sex doesn't involve insertion of a large penis into a small orifice. That's probably why.

    Sadly out in the real world, the penises are not that big and (I've heard) the straight male likes the orifice to be small and object to loose and baggy ones.
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    Fizgig wrote: »
    Lesbian sex has never been illegal in this country.
    It was male anal sex that was illegal.

    Which clearly shows that the laws and world is defined by straight males. And sadly, (to a lesser extent) still is.
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    rgflynn wrote: »
    I would rather see 2 lipstick lesbos at it than 2 hairy sweaty ass robbers.;)

    Ah.

    It appears we were all wrong, and the correct answer is actually "because it's 1973".
  • cnbcwatchercnbcwatcher Posts: 56,681
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    alfster wrote: »
    Not if the erect penis is mine...especially when it's involved in any one of the stages of the naked women's arousal.

    :D:D:D;)
  • ArtymagsArtymags Posts: 18,136
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    It might also be because, until comparatively recently, gay sex between men was a criminal act punishable by imprisonment. Oscar Wilde got several years hard labour in Reading Gaol for beng a homosexual. So for generations homosexuality was something considered really criminal and even evil.
    Whereas no laws were ever made against lesbian acts - reputably because Queen Victoria refused to believe that any ladies would ever behave in such a way!
  • ArtymagsArtymags Posts: 18,136
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    Glowbot wrote: »
    Wasn't it all anal sex? It might be urban legend but i heard female anal sex was only recently legalised.
    Yes - you are quite right. Anal sex used to be illegal even between husband and wife - and still is in some states of America.
  • GlowbotGlowbot Posts: 14,847
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    Artymags wrote: »
    Yes - you are quite right. Anal sex used to be illegal even between husband and wife - and still is in some states of America.

    That's more likely just something you ladies tell us to put us off :D
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,450
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    stoatie wrote: »
    Ah.

    It appears we were all wrong, and the correct answer is actually "because it's 1973".

    :D the 70s rule
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    rgflynn wrote: »
    :D the 70s rule

    I assume that's why you've decided to make them your home.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,450
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    stoatie wrote: »
    I assume that's why you've decided to make them your home.

    I'm joking. mug
  • MoonyMoony Posts: 15,093
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    Because the world is ruled and defined by straight males (This is a man's world)

    So lesbians are deemed acceptable as at least they are deemed sexually attractive and if lucky with let the straight male join in (in his dreams!)

    But gay males are not sexually attractive and the very thought therefore disgusts some straight males. (Or thought what they are doing thinking about gay sex, we don't actually know)

    That's got nothing to do with the world being ruled by "straight males" though - its simple supply and demand consumerism.

    The largest consumers of porn are straight men - therefore the type and variety of porn being offered is in general - likely to reflect their tastes.
  • stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    rgflynn wrote: »
    I'm joking. mug

    And there was me thinking you were using "ass robbers" in a scientific or legal sense. Glad you were just joking. That's all OK then. As you were.
  • Kolin KlingonKolin Klingon Posts: 4,296
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    That's always puzzled me:

    Now I don't expect a straight man to find anal sex with another man a turn on or something that they would want to do ever, but some of them obsess about anal sex with a woman and yet see two gay men doing exactly the same act as an abomination.

    This is alien to me for as a gay man, anything and everything lesbians do does nothing sexually, but I don't have a problem with anything they both consent to. Why should I? What's it got to do with me?

    So it seems that some straight males problem is that they think they can and should comment and dictate what others do in their sex life. And the only thing that does nothing for them is sex with another man and so it's that which is attached.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,095
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    Glowbot wrote: »
    That's more likely just something you ladies tell us to put us off :D

    Unlikely. Because saying No is enough, or should be.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,450
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    stoatie wrote: »
    And there was me thinking you were using "ass robbers" in a scientific or legal sense. Glad you were just joking. That's all OK then. As you were.

    That's that sorted then.
  • zwixxxzwixxx Posts: 10,295
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    Sadly out in the real world, the penises are not that big and (I've heard) the straight male likes the orifice to be small and object to loose and baggy ones.

    just like women prefer their purses, right ?! :)
  • Pisces CloudPisces Cloud Posts: 30,239
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    Because a lot of men like the idea of lesbian sex, but don't like to see two men going at it. Although, maybe some women like watching gay men having sex.
  • VoynichVoynich Posts: 14,481
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    We did this a few days ago. Gay sex makes straight guys ill.
  • SirMickTravisSirMickTravis Posts: 2,607
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    I remember an elderly Aunt of mine saying she wasn't too comfortable with gay men, but well it's a fact of life. 'However', she continued, 'I think two women is absolutely disgusting.'
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 527
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    GetFrodo wrote: »
    lesbian sex = hot
    gay sex = not


    obvious innit ;)

    totally agree.
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