How long was it before you said 'I love you' to your partner?

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Just wondered how long everyone here waited before confessing your love to your partner.
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  • Elphie_LivesElphie_Lives Posts: 4,455
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    About 5 months in to the relationship.
  • A321A321 Posts: 6,363
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    Just as I was reaching the vinegar strokes.
  • JonDoeJonDoe Posts: 31,598
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    Knowing me, probably about a week. :o

    I was right though, I still do, twenty years later. :)
  • PamelaLPamelaL Posts: 67,688
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    A321 wrote: »
    Just as I was reaching the vinegar strokes.

    The vinegar strokes? :confused:

    Actually on second thoughts, don't answer that.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 36,630
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    All the time, but she doesn't answer.. well, other than the odd "WOOF!"
  • JonDoeJonDoe Posts: 31,598
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    PamelaL wrote: »
    The vinegar strokes? :confused:

    Actually on second thoughts, don't answer that.

    I'm sure you can figure it out Pam. :D
  • netcurtainsnetcurtains Posts: 23,494
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    About five days after meeting, it was love at first sight but I wanted to show some decorum and wait a bit.
  • PamelaLPamelaL Posts: 67,688
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    JonDoe wrote: »
    I'm sure you can figure it out Pam. :D

    Yep, I think that was what was happening when I was proposed to. :D
  • PamelaLPamelaL Posts: 67,688
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    All the time, but she doesn't answer.. well, other than the odd "WOOF!"

    Awww, that is so sweet. :)
  • darkjedimasterdarkjedimaster Posts: 18,621
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    After 2 months, my girlfriend text me saying that she couldn't hold it in any longer & told me, I must admit that it took me by surprise but I realised that I felt the same & so I phoned her to tell her. :)
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 294
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    2 weeks. We both knew though.
  • Tom_TitTom_Tit Posts: 6,336
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    I can't remember.

    I knew my wife was the one as the night i met her we stayed in the same bed, fully clothed and just had a laugh and a real nice time together with no sexual goings on at all. It was magical that night.

    Prior to her i was a real dog and would shag anything in sight.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 10,273
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    About a month I think.
  • nuttytiggernuttytigger Posts: 14,053
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    After 2 months, my girlfriend text me saying that she couldn't hold it in any longer & told me, I must admit that it took me by surprise but I realised that I felt the same & so I phoned her to tell her. :)

    Thats the exact same way I told my now husband I loved him - well, I was on the phone to him and my friend was shouting, nutty loves you, so we hung up, I then texted him telling him, and then he phoned to say he loved me too, this was after 3 months.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 410
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    I think we'd only been together just over a month! He was the first to say it, but I knew from the get go that he was the one :)
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 608
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    9 days. :)
  • WokStationWokStation Posts: 23,112
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    About a month or so (we were already living together, lol). I chickened out and played her Perfect Girl by The Cure :D
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 32,379
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    I don't know how many weeks it's was. I knew I loved her from the minute I met her. She was stunning.

    Engaged after couple of months and married after 5 months.

    Just 40 years ago last week. The families said it wouldn't last:D:D:D
  • fat controllerfat controller Posts: 13,757
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    We've been together over ten years now, do you think it will be time soon?
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 1,141
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    kimbo72 wrote: »
    2 weeks. We both knew though.

    Same here, had our one year anniversary the other day and it was just as good as the first date.
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 2,938
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    He told me after 2 months and I told him after 3 months. I wasn´t expecting to fall in love after just getting out of a long long relationship 2 months before and was looking forward to being single and having a bit of fun. Mine was heart says one thing and head says another. Went with my heart.
  • GonerilGoneril Posts: 1,257
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    The second time we went out together. I remember thinking I'm going to marry this man...I did.
  • Compton_scatterCompton_scatter Posts: 2,711
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    6 years and 2 months later and I still haven't. I'm still in doubt! (no joke)
  • darkmothdarkmoth Posts: 12,265
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    I've only said it when pushed to. Like when he's said it and then done the whole "don't you feel the same":rolleyes:
  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 12,845
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    About a year in this relationship and I still haven't said it. I do love her but I'm scared she won't say it back...ahh the stresses of teenage relationships ;)
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