Yes, i wished my cat could understand me last Tuesday. I had to have her put to sleep as she was old and had trouble breathing. I held her tightly, cried into her neck and told her i loved her.
I hope she understood.
Ahh Porcupine, of course she would have understood!!! And I bet she had been with you so long she knew how much she was loved...
"cats live in the present". In a way they do, but they clearly remember where good (and bad) things happened, know where the food comes from and know that specific behaviours can cause things to happen, like getting fed or being let out. As predators, they have to have fairly sophisticated minds as hunting is a demanding way of feeding oneself compared to grazing.
They also clearly have what can only be called emotions, and I'd say I've seen frustration, greed, hate and jealousy from mine. Not sure they do love but it feels like it when they cuddle up and purr!
Do I want to understand what mine are thinking? Maybe not - it might not be nice about me!
My little kitty girl has different meows for different things, so I am (still, after 9 years) learning to understand her.
If she did understand me for a few minutes, I would tell her how much I love her, how important she is to me, and when I do really cruel and nasty things (i.e. take her in the car to the vet, for which, in her opinion, I should be reported to the RSPCA!!), it is only for her own good and I would never do anything to hurt her (even if I do let the vet prod her about and stick nasty painful needles in her!)
As long as it was only for a few minutes - I really wouldn't want her to understand everything I say all the time
my kitten chester, I say kitten but she is nearly a year old lol loves to greet me every morning with a face rub and purring her head off. also when I am outside when she is, she does a short double meow and I say her name back and she does the meow again, if I dont answer sh gets detressed and starts yowling
Yes, i wished my cat could understand me last Tuesday. I had to have her put to sleep as she was old and had trouble breathing. I held her tightly, cried into her neck and told her i loved her.
I hope she understood.
Oh Porcupine, that made me cry. I actually have tears rolling down my cheeks.
You were there for her and clearly from the way you describe letting her go gave her a lovely life. I have no doubt she understood.
Yes, i wished my cat could understand me last Tuesday. I had to have her put to sleep as she was old and had trouble breathing. I held her tightly, cried into her neck and told her i loved her.
I hope she understood.
Awww Porcupine. That is so sad.
But I'm sure your cat loved you as much as you did them and just by hugging her and cuddling her, she went onto a happier place with her last thoughts being of you.
Thank you very much. I miss my cats more than anything. In 6 months, 3 of my beloved cats have died of old age. They were all 18 (or approaching 18).
Now, all my little feline friends have gone, and clearing away their bowls, litter tray .... toys, was the hardest thing i have ever done. My heart literally ached.
I cried for 4 days, but now i just get upset when im alone with my thoughts.
I think cats are more perceptive than you think. About a year ago I fell quite badly in my kitchen, almost like a shot the cat ran over to me, put both her paws on my shoulder and started whimpering. I was in pain but was so touched by what she'd just done. She sat with me until I'd managed to get up and wouldn't leave me alone for the rest of the day.
I think they do know you love them which is why they react like that. She'll show you in her own time - although I hope for your sake it doesn't take a fall for her to show it!
When I fell over a few days ago, my cats did similar; however I get the feeling they were checking my tin-opening hand wasn't damaged.
I do sometimes wish they could talk. They have such strong personalities, I sometimes laugh to realise they have established them without a single word.
One of mine would sound like Margot from the Good Life, the other more like Jimmy Krankee.
I always talk to my cat. Always say good bye when I go to work and greet him when I return.
He has a girl-friend a pretty little tortie, and when he comes in from playing with her I ask if he's had a nice time, and he either answers with a trilling meow or a 'huh' type of noise, presumably the latter is when she's been an impossible female :rolleyes:
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Ahh Porcupine, of course she would have understood!!! And I bet she had been with you so long she knew how much she was loved...
They also clearly have what can only be called emotions, and I'd say I've seen frustration, greed, hate and jealousy from mine. Not sure they do love but it feels like it when they cuddle up and purr!
Do I want to understand what mine are thinking? Maybe not - it might not be nice about me!
If she did understand me for a few minutes, I would tell her how much I love her, how important she is to me, and when I do really cruel and nasty things (i.e. take her in the car to the vet, for which, in her opinion, I should be reported to the RSPCA!!), it is only for her own good and I would never do anything to hurt her (even if I do let the vet prod her about and stick nasty painful needles in her!)
As long as it was only for a few minutes - I really wouldn't want her to understand everything I say all the time
My boy has meows for: "Hey, there's my mate." (Next door's cat.) "Wanna go play."
And "Look at the birdies! Wanna go hunt."
Also "F-e-e-d m-e n-o-w."
The panicked "I've got to poo, let me out!"
(Regarding the last meow, he does use his litter tray, but he prefers going outside!)
He also huffs and puffs when he wants out and I won't let him because it's dark, in the deep of the night.
Oh Porcupine, that made me cry. I actually have tears rolling down my cheeks.
You were there for her and clearly from the way you describe letting her go gave her a lovely life. I have no doubt she understood.
Awww Porcupine. That is so sad.
But I'm sure your cat loved you as much as you did them and just by hugging her and cuddling her, she went onto a happier place with her last thoughts being of you.
Now, all my little feline friends have gone, and clearing away their bowls, litter tray .... toys, was the hardest thing i have ever done. My heart literally ached.
I cried for 4 days, but now i just get upset when im alone with my thoughts.
I appreciate all your kind words.
When I fell over a few days ago, my cats did similar; however I get the feeling they were checking my tin-opening hand wasn't damaged.
One of mine would sound like Margot from the Good Life, the other more like Jimmy Krankee.
Oh that's brilliant
He has a girl-friend a pretty little tortie, and when he comes in from playing with her I ask if he's had a nice time, and he either answers with a trilling meow or a 'huh' type of noise, presumably the latter is when she's been an impossible female :rolleyes:
I bent to stroke my daugher's slippers just yesterday.
I've have just PMSL
To put the slipper on the other paw, so to speak, when we got a new flip top bin my cat jumped onto it and went straight through the lid.
She then stayed in there pretending she'd done it on purpose.