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Alcoholics and Drug Addicts

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    tellywatcher73tellywatcher73 Posts: 4,181
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    where`s this scheme? i know many sick people who could benefit from it as it`s 7 quid to get to the ddu, i`m surprised they havn`t been informed by the agencies they work with.

    In Scotland, the scheme is run by Transport Scotland and the concessionary pass can include a companion. I don't know how it works in other areas though.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 68,508
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    Addicts can be hard to like even when you love them. The money is a huge thing: any addiction is likely to end up costing the earth. I reckon a high percentage of addicts end up stealing from family members, and there is nothing like having to tell every visitor to make sure they don't leave any money where someone can get it. And addicts end up being very self-absorbed even if they are otherwise lovely people.

    Even when someone can fund their habit, I don't think anyone's personality has ever been enhanced by a major substance abuse problem. I did wonder whether the reason Stephen Fry's last autobiography was so poor was that his huge cocaine intake meant that, though hugely sociable, he didn't really care that much about other people. There is something coldly list-making about the way he records whom he has met and partied with.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    In Scotland, the scheme is run by Transport Scotland and the concessionary pass can include a companion. I don't know how it works in other areas though.

    ah, shame, i`m in england.
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    tellywatcher73tellywatcher73 Posts: 4,181
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    ah, shame, i`m in england.

    Quick google there and it's available in England too. As with Scotland, the person has to be considered disabled so it's not available to everyone with addiction.
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    The Gary SheenThe Gary Sheen Posts: 227
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    Great information.
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    day dreamerday dreamer Posts: 978
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    I know two people (a couple) who use drugs - cannabis mostly but possibly they dabble in stronger substances - supposedly for medical reasons and all it's done is made them so paranoid and lazy they can barely function.

    I'm really glad I never had any interest in the stuff.
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    annette kurtenannette kurten Posts: 39,543
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    Quick google there and it's available in England too. As with Scotland, the person has to be considered disabled so it's not available to everyone with addiction.

    ah so same as here, apart from the permitted travelling companion, i`ll investigate that, thank you.
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    The Gary SheenThe Gary Sheen Posts: 227
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    Weed isnt as safe as they say.
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    pie-eyedpie-eyed Posts: 8,456
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    My ex was an alcoholic. Addictions ruin lives and not just that of the addict.
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    tellywatcher73tellywatcher73 Posts: 4,181
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    Weed isnt as safe as they say.

    I think it's seen as a fairly "innocent" drug but can cause a lot of damage both financially and mentally. I know people who's relationship broke down due to the effect on one partner's mental health with prolonged use.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 11,133
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    I'm an alcoholic . Went sober for 4 and a half years , then I moved 100 miles away and found myself lonely and depressed , and hit the bottle again .

    The feeling of alcohol withdrawal is almost indescribable, and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy .

    Addiction changes the way you think and tears your life apart from the ground up
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 619
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    I've known at least 3 friends of friends that died with alchol playing a major factor in their deaths, and probably another couple that have had serious issues with alcohol.
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    gulliverfoylegulliverfoyle Posts: 6,318
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    my dad was a alky

    my advise, leave them to it, your wasting your time,YOU cant fix them, only they can

    they will either sort themselves out or they wont

    oh and remember despite theyre self pity, its nothing to do with you its them
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    The Gary SheenThe Gary Sheen Posts: 227
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    Some great informative posts here.
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    ElyanElyan Posts: 8,781
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    There's a fine line between liking a drink and becoming an alcoholic - or even down and out.

    Some huge event or other in your life might turn you to drinking more, then you may lose your job, your family, your home and so on. It can happen quickly too. Inside a year a person could go from living a happy life to sleeping in shop doorways.
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    getzlsgetzls Posts: 4,007
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    I agree
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    hazydayzhazydayz Posts: 6,909
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    The OP is a newly registered former member of the forum. Just another troll thread at the expense of people who genuinely need help.
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    Mountain_RunnerMountain_Runner Posts: 1,927
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    Alcoholism is difficult to define when to call a person an alcoholic.

    The simplest definition is a person who relies on alcohol on a daily basis.

    But then there is psychological addiction where alcohol needs to be consumed each day for the sake of it and Physical addiction where withdrawal form alcohol results in physical symptoms such as pain and the shakes.

    So do you regard someone who goes to the pub every evening of the week for a pint an alcoholic? Are they psychologically addicted?

    Even if its only one pint they will still go pub religiously but some people may visit the pub on odd occasions and have 7 or 8 pints but not be regarded as an alcoholic.
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    The Gary SheenThe Gary Sheen Posts: 227
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    Alcoholism is difficult to define when to call a person an alcoholic.

    The simplest definition is a person who relies on alcohol on a daily basis.

    But then there is psychological addiction where alcohol needs to be consumed each day for the sake of it and Physical addiction where withdrawal form alcohol results in physical symptoms such as pain and the shakes.

    So do you regard someone who goes to the pub every evening of the week for a pint an alcoholic? Are they psychologically addicted?

    Even if its only one pint they will still go pub religiously but some people may visit the pub on odd occasions and have 7 or 8 pints but not be regarded as an alcoholic.

    Emmerdale characters are all alkis then!
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    Mr Donald LoveMr Donald Love Posts: 63
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    I never understood how people could abuse drugs and alcohol together and not have major future health problems.
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