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Is the rape of a 90 year old woman so shocking because of her age?

ustarionustarion Posts: 20,322
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http://news.sky.com/story/1289217/90-year-old-dragged-off-street-and-raped

If we heard that a 19 year old woman was raped would we be as shocked? Is this reaction wrong?
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 651
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    I think it's a natural instinct to 'feel' something more if you can identify/empathise with the victim or the victim is from one of the more vulnerable sections of society elderly/children that we are almost programmed to respect or protect. I also think the more difficult to understand a crime the more it jolts or shocks us.
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    Pumping IronPumping Iron Posts: 29,891
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    Yes it's more shocking due to her age. Just as the rape of a 9 year old, or a seriously disabled person would be more shocking.
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    FizixFizix Posts: 16,932
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    Yes it's more shocking due to her age. Just as the rape of a 9 year old, or a seriously disabled person would be more shocking.

    ^ this, its about the additional vulnerability of the victim. Rape is terrible anyway but when the victim is particularly vulnerable it makes it more shocking.
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    TakaeTakae Posts: 13,555
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    It doesn't shock me more, but it does make me angrier. I tend to feel this way about any act that harms a vulnerable person - elderly, child, person with a disability, etc.
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    The added vulnerability makes it more shocking I think. Not that it necessarily should. Rape is rape after all and horrific whatever the age of the victim.

    Also, some people do often wrongly question rape and victim blame. Which they probably wouldn't in this case.
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    Cheetah666Cheetah666 Posts: 16,036
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    Yes it's more shocking due to her age. Just as the rape of a 9 year old, or a seriously disabled person would be more shocking.

    ^ This.
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    occyoccy Posts: 65,159
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    There are some sick people in this world.
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    Louise32Louise32 Posts: 6,784
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    Yes it is shocking.

    Although obviously all rape and sexual violence is wrong regardless of age.

    I think I recall an elderly woman being raped and not long after dying from it so I suppose with the age of the person they are at greater risk of death by it from the trauma.
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    ThatJoshThatJosh Posts: 734
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    Yes, it's definitely more shocking. You would have thought a person couldn't get be so awful, but people just continue to surprise us.. :(
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    Louise32 wrote: »
    Yes it is shocking.

    Although obviously all rape and sexual violence is wrong regardless of age.

    I think I recall an elderly woman being raped and not long after dying from it so I suppose with the age of the person they are at greater risk of death by it from the trauma.

    Exactly. Surely it takes a certain level of sickness for rape to even enter someone's head. For them to do it to a 90-year-old woman is proof they shouldn't be allowed anywhere near another human being. Dogs have been put down for less, and these people should be treated in similar fashion.
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    VelvetIdiotVelvetIdiot Posts: 13
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    I personally think it is equally shocking no matter who the victim is due to the severity of what has been done. :mad:
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    JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    Just when you think humanity couldn't sink any lower, something like this happens.
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    Louise32Louise32 Posts: 6,784
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    Exactly. Surely it takes a certain level of sickness for rape to even enter someone's head. For them to do it to a 90-year-old woman is proof they shouldn't be allowed anywhere near another human being. Dogs have been put down for less, and these people should be treated in similar fashion.

    Yes I'm inclined to agree.

    Rapists often get somewhat ridiculous sentences, out in 5 years or whatever when really they should be getting 20 years to life imprisonment.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 29,701
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    Yes it's more shocking due to her age. Just as the rape of a 9 year old, or a seriously disabled person would be more shocking.
    Fizix wrote: »
    ^ this, its about the additional vulnerability of the victim. Rape is terrible anyway but when the victim is particularly vulnerable it makes it more shocking.

    I concur.
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    dekafdekaf Posts: 8,398
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    Poor woman. I hope she gets over this ordeal soon. I can't wait to see the digusting low-life that did this.
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    Cg_EvansCg_Evans Posts: 2,039
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    That is one sick sadistic puppy...no words

    All rape is shocking whoever it happens to...saying this is more shocking is lessening the crime in other circumstances as if it is mitigated by not being the most shocking IMO I would substitute more shocking for sicker
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    Cg_EvansCg_Evans Posts: 2,039
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    And lets see what the wonderful CPS/judicial system come up with when they catch him...you now the CPS who were presented with evidence of brutal attack on a dementia patient in a care home by the careworker as outlined in Pime Ministers Questions today in parliament and decided not to prosecute because it "wasnt in the public interest"

    Irresponsible MUPPETS....if that iSNT in the public interest wtf is???

    >:(
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    performingmonkperformingmonk Posts: 20,086
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    Louise32 wrote: »
    Yes I'm inclined to agree.

    Rapists often get somewhat ridiculous sentences, out in 5 years or whatever when really they should be getting 20 years to life imprisonment.

    So many of them re-offend as well. A sorry state of affairs.
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    Louise32Louise32 Posts: 6,784
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    So many of them re-offend as well. A sorry state of affairs.

    Yeah they definitely need to increase sentencing.

    Keep them in jail and they won't re-offend.
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    Bus Stop2012Bus Stop2012 Posts: 5,624
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    This similarly horrific one got an indeterminate sentence with a minimum of, wait for it........... 4 years and 9 months.


    http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bradford/8495749.stm

    although the judge said he'd probably serve significantly longer.
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    VelvetIdiotVelvetIdiot Posts: 13
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    If the UK still had the death penalty, I would be happy for the rapist to be hung for what they did! :mad:
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    CravenHavenCravenHaven Posts: 13,953
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    now this has gone nationwide the cops had better be sure they checked her state and story properly, because now and then demented people abscond from care homes in a confused state...
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    Mrs TeapotMrs Teapot Posts: 124,896
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    ustarion wrote: »
    http://news.sky.com/story/1289217/90-year-old-dragged-off-street-and-raped

    If we heard that a 19 year old woman was raped would we be as shocked? Is this reaction wrong?

    I actually did think hearing the news earlier that all rape is shocking. I think the fact that it's unusual (but not unheard of) for it to be an elderly lady and the trauma could have a bigger effect on her physical health makes it seem worse. That said a young or younger person being raped has to spend the rest of their entire life finding a way of coming to terms and getting over a most horrific act!
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    bazzaroobazzaroo Posts: 6,848
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    Any rape (male or female) is truly horrific but I think cases like this hit home harder because we can't help but think 'this could have been my mother/grandmother'.

    Thankfully this kind of incident is very unusual, my thoughts go out to poor victim and her family and I just hope that when the bastard is caught that the most severe penalty possible is handed down.
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    zx50zx50 Posts: 91,271
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    His time for entering prison will be nearing. Fancy dragging a female off the street and raping them. Crazy.
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