Urgent cat's advice needed!
songbird0311
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Hi all,
I am sorry this will probably be a long message, but I truly need a constructive advice. Please help me.
Last night when coming home from work, a neighbour was standing on the one of the entrances of the block of flats where I live. I have seen her before and I know that she has two small (few months old) kittens. I see them on her bay window all the time. They seem to be indoor cats.I have two furboys myself and recently took in a female stray, that no charity wanted to help me with.We had few conversations regarding the cats, but nothing more. She seemed a little bit strange. So last night, when she saw me, she just shoved her flat keys in my hand, telling me that she was knocking on my door earlier with a favour to ask. She told me that her husband just passed away couple of weeks back and she needed to go to her cousin for the night, and if I could feed her cats in the morning. I didn't know what to do, but felt sorry for the cats. I asked her to show me into the flat and tell me where the food, litter etc is. I knew that if I didn't agree, she would leave them alone anyway. She had left plenty of food and water for the cats, and the tv was on. The tray looked a mess. So after re-assuring me that she will be back tonight,and after I insisted on taking her phone number and giving her mine, I took the keys. I went in the morning and feed the cats, changed their water and litter, and brought them some toys to play with. I noticed that one of the cats(beautiful white with spots) had scabs all over her back and around the neck.Some missing fur too. The other one was very scared and wouldn't let me approach her. I left them with the tv on. Tonight after work, I went back and did the round again. Just want to mention that the flat is a tip. It's a studio flat and everything is all over the place. So after she didn't call me to collect her keys by 8pm, I tried to call her mobile few times and it went to answering machine. I left her a voicemail to call me back. She did after an hour and said there was something wrong with her phone and she will be back home tomorrow afternoon... and the line went dead. I tried to call her back to no avail. So my question is: 'What do I do if she doesn't come back tomorrow either???' These poor kittens are on their own for 2 days. Although I go there and try to spend few minutes with them, they don't know me, and surely one of the cats needs to be seen by a vet. I am working tomorrow till 5pm, and if she doesn't come back by then, what do I do? And even when she comes back - what do I do? Please give me some advice, I am so upset and I can't stop thinking about these poor kittens...
I am sorry this will probably be a long message, but I truly need a constructive advice. Please help me.
Last night when coming home from work, a neighbour was standing on the one of the entrances of the block of flats where I live. I have seen her before and I know that she has two small (few months old) kittens. I see them on her bay window all the time. They seem to be indoor cats.I have two furboys myself and recently took in a female stray, that no charity wanted to help me with.We had few conversations regarding the cats, but nothing more. She seemed a little bit strange. So last night, when she saw me, she just shoved her flat keys in my hand, telling me that she was knocking on my door earlier with a favour to ask. She told me that her husband just passed away couple of weeks back and she needed to go to her cousin for the night, and if I could feed her cats in the morning. I didn't know what to do, but felt sorry for the cats. I asked her to show me into the flat and tell me where the food, litter etc is. I knew that if I didn't agree, she would leave them alone anyway. She had left plenty of food and water for the cats, and the tv was on. The tray looked a mess. So after re-assuring me that she will be back tonight,and after I insisted on taking her phone number and giving her mine, I took the keys. I went in the morning and feed the cats, changed their water and litter, and brought them some toys to play with. I noticed that one of the cats(beautiful white with spots) had scabs all over her back and around the neck.Some missing fur too. The other one was very scared and wouldn't let me approach her. I left them with the tv on. Tonight after work, I went back and did the round again. Just want to mention that the flat is a tip. It's a studio flat and everything is all over the place. So after she didn't call me to collect her keys by 8pm, I tried to call her mobile few times and it went to answering machine. I left her a voicemail to call me back. She did after an hour and said there was something wrong with her phone and she will be back home tomorrow afternoon... and the line went dead. I tried to call her back to no avail. So my question is: 'What do I do if she doesn't come back tomorrow either???' These poor kittens are on their own for 2 days. Although I go there and try to spend few minutes with them, they don't know me, and surely one of the cats needs to be seen by a vet. I am working tomorrow till 5pm, and if she doesn't come back by then, what do I do? And even when she comes back - what do I do? Please give me some advice, I am so upset and I can't stop thinking about these poor kittens...
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If I was in the same situation I would, for the moment, carry on feeding her cats and calling in when I could before and after work.
If you don't hear from her, she doesn't answer her calls and she hasn't returned in a couple more days perhaps then it would be sensible to contact the RSPCA for advice.
When she returns you could mention the scabs on the cat's back. It is likely she is not up to date with the flea treatments, it may be that she hasn't even noticed or, if she has, she hasn't had time to get the cat to a vet. One of my 3 cats sometimes gets scabs when she's stressed due to over-grooming but she's perfectly healthy in every way, never had fleas. I delayed her last vet visit for a couple of weeks hoping they would clear up themselves while I tried to understand what was stressing her. I'm sure this lady's household has been in considerable stress in recent weeks if her husband was ill before he died......
I would advise giving this lady a little more time and try to understand what she may be going through at the moment.
Also sometimes there are "kind" vets who will take them in, give a medical check up, and then give the cat to a charity.
Your neighbour, has obviously got some life problems, she must have been feeling pretty desperate to just leave
Just wondering as before I started using really good clumping cat litter unless I cleaned the tray at least twice a day my cat Boo in protest would poop right next to it. He's a little sod likes things done just so.
Now I use good litter it needs checking twice a day but most days I will only need to scoop once.
She probably gave you the keys because she knew you had cats and so could be trusted with hers'. You said she left lots of food and water for the cats (even if the place was in a mess) and she originally intended to be just one night away. I have left my cats alone for a night on many occasions. Knowing you were able to check on her cats gave her the confidence to stay away longer.
I am trying to view the situation from her perspective, she obviously has a lot of issues. Grief affects us all in different ways but I do agree that she has acted a little irresponsibly with regards to the welfare of her cats. I don't normally ask my neighbours for any help but, if anything happened to my parents in Ireland, I would need to leave my home (in England) at very short notice and the family I would normally depend on to check on my cats would likely be going over to Ireland too. I could contact my professional cat sitter but she may not be available at short notice. In that situation I too may have to ask a neighbour to care for my cats but I would only ask a neighbour who I knew loved cats herself. I believe, at a time of intense grief, that my cats 'may' take on secondary importance - although I have often been accused by family members of thinking and caring more about my cats than about any of them .
It is lovely that you are showing such concern for the cats and I'm sure the owner really appreciates what you are doing.
Oh of course you mentioned that about her flat, sorry. . Good luck. Please keep us up to date with how it all goes. It looks like you may now have this lady and her cats in your life.
I think you're a star of a neighbour to do what you did, somebody else could have turned around and said no.
As for cat litter, if you want cheaper but decent litter, I get mine from Asda. The brand is Bob Martin Clumping litter, £6.48 for 20L.
Here's a link, I don't know if it'll work as I'm doing from my online shopping log in link
If you try golden grey get the unscented one in the blue bag. Scented cat litter is vile.
She will have a lot to do, so just keep looking after her cats until she returns.