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Can a lack of physical relationship send you to madness?

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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,915
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    It's probably good to dip your wick at least once. After that, get a cat or a dog. In years to come, you'll realise it was the best choice.
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    marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    :cry:

    Maybe I should take a pill or something. I heard there are pills you can take which take your mind of such things.

    Or I could just pay for it. :p NOT

    You could pay for a super hot bodied escort, but then you might just get performance anxiety and make you feel worse. But what's the point in paying over £100 for a average looking escort. It's a vicious circle lol
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,391
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    I should not have started this thread, not its making me think about it even more lol.

    I think I will just have to go clubbing one friday night. No other solution.
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    marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    I should not have started this thread, not its making me think about it even more lol.

    I think I will just have to go clubbing one friday night. No other solution.

    Can I suggest Saturday night instead? My theory's always been, go Saturday as sunday most people are not working.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,391
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    I don't think men are any different.

    A comforting hug is a lovely, powerful and ordinary human thing.

    I've given them to men, and felt them just relax.

    Human contact is very important, more important than sex.

    I don't think women realise, when its bad, its bad. You feel like you want to smash something up, and you can't concentrate on anything. :cool:
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,391
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    marc_p88 wrote: »
    Can I suggest Saturday night instead? My theory's always been, go Saturday as sunday most people are not working.

    May well do, But I suffer from bad anxiety after drinking, I use the weekend waiting for it to go. But anything for the cause.;)
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    RogerBaileyRogerBailey Posts: 1,959
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    May well do, But I suffer from bad anxiety after drinking, I use the weekend waiting for it to go. But anything for the cause.;)

    You don't seem to mention wanting to get to know a girl or anything else about wanting a good reciprocal relationship. If it's purely sex you are after, it shows. No wonder girls tell you to go away.
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    You don't seem to mention wanting to get to know a girl or anything else about wanting a good reciprocal relationship. If it's purely sex you are after, it shows. No wonder girls tell you to go away.

    Not at all, girls just don't like me, the look of me that is. The club I was referring to is not a place you get to know a girl. It is well known for girls that just want to sleep around.

    I don't know any other way to meet a girl in my circumstances. I can't speak to a girl, even if I just say hello or try to start a conversation its a no no with them.

    I am trapped really, either way.
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    RogerBaileyRogerBailey Posts: 1,959
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    Not at all, girls just don't like me, the look of me that is. The club I was referring to is not a place you get to know a girl. It is well known for girls that just want to sleep around.

    I don't know any other way to meet a girl in my circumstances. I can't speak to a girl, even if I just say hello or try to start a conversation its a no no with them.

    I am trapped really, either way.

    Poppycock. There will be plenty of women who are attracted to you. It doesn't matter what you look like, there will always be girls who will be happy to go out with you. Ok maybe they won't be model types themselves, but you have to be realistic.

    Do you just approach very attractive girls or are you realistic?
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,391
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    Poppycock. There will be plenty of women who are attracted to you. It doesn't matter what you look like, there will always be girls who will be happy to go out with you. Ok maybe they won't be model types themselves, but you have to be realistic.

    Do you just approach very attractive girls or are you realistic?

    To be honest if I went to the club I would not really care what they looked like as long as they were my age.:o

    If I wanted to meet a girl seriously at a party I would just speak to any girl. Its the drink you see.

    A girl did try to kiss me once at the club I refer to, but I was not expecting it and It sort of made me panic. She then walked off. Beer goggles. So I'm sure I would get lucky if I went back.

    I am not that sort of person to have a one night stand, but I am 22, I cannot leave it much longer.
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    JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    Poppycock. There will be plenty of women who are attracted to you

    No there won't.
    It doesn't matter what you look like

    Yes it does
    there will always be girls who will be happy to go out with you

    No there won't ;)
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    marc_p88marc_p88 Posts: 1,133
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    Poppycock. There will be plenty of women who are attracted to you. It doesn't matter what you look like, there will always be girls who will be happy to go out with you. Ok maybe they won't be model types themselves, but you have to be realistic.

    Do you just approach very attractive girls or are you realistic?

    Last bit is BS. Any guy can get a very attractive woman with a great personality and confidence.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 4,391
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    No there won't.



    Yes it does



    No there won't ;)

    Thanks for that.:D:D
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    SULLASULLA Posts: 149,789
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    Not at my age:o
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    Lewi26Lewi26 Posts: 11,841
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    If youve never had any sort of physical relationship with somebody by the age of 22 its clearly a personality issue that you need to address
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    zoundszounds Posts: 10,730
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    I'm 48 and haven't had a physical relationship for about 7 years now, I'm perfectly fine, isn't it, isn't it.
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    FMKKFMKK Posts: 32,074
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    Lewi26 wrote: »
    If youve never had any sort of physical relationship with somebody by the age of 22 its clearly a personality issue that you need to address

    Ouch.
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    RogerBaileyRogerBailey Posts: 1,959
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    No there won't.



    Yes it does



    No there won't ;)

    This forum occasionally gives me breathtaking new insights into life, through thoughtful and incisive comment.

    But this isn't one of those times.
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    RogerBaileyRogerBailey Posts: 1,959
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    zounds wrote: »
    I'm 48 and haven't had a physical relationship for about 7 years now, I'm perfectly fine, isn't it, isn't it.

    I can't say it would bother me at all if that side of things was to end forever now tbh. It's the most overrated activity ever.
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    JasonJason Posts: 76,557
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    This forum occasionally gives me breathtaking new insights into life, through thoughtful and incisive comment.

    But this isn't one of those times.

    heh, thanks :)

    I'll give you credit though, at least you didn't trot out the "there's someone for everyone" line ..
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    DomestosDomestos Posts: 7,014
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    I don't think women realise, when its bad, its bad. You feel like you want to smash something up, and you can't concentrate on anything. :cool:

    Sounds psychopathic
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    Victoria SpongeVictoria Sponge Posts: 16,645
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    I can't say it would bother me at all if that side of things was to end forever now tbh. It's the most overrated activity ever.
    For you maybe, but not for someone who actually has a sex drive. And having a sex drive (or not having one) isn't something one can control.
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    PicklebumPicklebum Posts: 1,423
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    Lewi26 wrote: »
    If youve never had any sort of physical relationship with somebody by the age of 22 its clearly a personality issue that you need to address

    Pathetic. Comments like that make people, like the OP, think there is something wrong with them for not having had sex by their early 20s.
    Not everyone is comfortable with shagging anything that moves
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    stoatiestoatie Posts: 78,106
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    tothegrand wrote: »
    I don't think women realise, when its bad, its bad. You feel like you want to smash something up, and you can't concentrate on anything. :cool:

    If that's what sexual frustration does to you, it's probably best you never enter a long-term relationship. I don't think many women see guys who get violent urges when they're not satisfied as keepers, really.
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    Lewi26Lewi26 Posts: 11,841
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    Picklebum wrote: »
    Pathetic. Comments like that make people, like the OP, think there is something wrong with them for not having had sex by their early 20s.
    Not everyone is comfortable with shagging anything that moves

    Who said anything about shagging everything that moves? He hasn't had a kiss or even a hug from the opposit sex even though he clearly wants it so its not a choice like your making out. I'm not saying there's something really wrong with his personality or anything just maybe he tries to hard around girls and needs to relax or become more confident and a bit less desperate. Or he could be trying it on with girls who are ridiculously out of his league because no matter what he looks like there would definitely be a girl out there who woul of at least kissed him by now!
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