My Ex Boyfriend: The Sex Offender
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I met Michael when I was 16, he was 17.
We met on a chatroom dedicated to a band we were both into at the time, at this time I was also an awkward teenage girl looking for someone to validate my identity, to tell me I was pretty.
We were together for about 10 months, we didn't see each often though as we lived about 40 minutes away from each other.
He was just generally very weird but as I was at that awkward stage thinking I was fat, ugly annd always would be unloved I convinced myself we were a lot like Romeo and Juliet.
When I finally broke it off, we still chatted on MSN where he had a lot of new girlfriends and then this happened:
http://genderberg.com/phpNuke/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=68
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bristol/3638464.stm
I've self-harmed a lot and generally felt like sh!t since, I've always felt like I could have prevented this if I stayed together with him. God I'm sorry. This is just something I needed to get off my chest.
We met on a chatroom dedicated to a band we were both into at the time, at this time I was also an awkward teenage girl looking for someone to validate my identity, to tell me I was pretty.
We were together for about 10 months, we didn't see each often though as we lived about 40 minutes away from each other.
He was just generally very weird but as I was at that awkward stage thinking I was fat, ugly annd always would be unloved I convinced myself we were a lot like Romeo and Juliet.
When I finally broke it off, we still chatted on MSN where he had a lot of new girlfriends and then this happened:
http://genderberg.com/phpNuke/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=68
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/bristol/3638464.stm
I've self-harmed a lot and generally felt like sh!t since, I've always felt like I could have prevented this if I stayed together with him. God I'm sorry. This is just something I needed to get off my chest.
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I think you'd really benefit from talking about this to someone face to face. Can I suggest counselling?
Thats an easy assumption to make, but if he is a peadophile, he will have found victims wether he was still with you or not. In fact he may have found it easier to do so whilst appearing to be in a normal relationship.
It really, really isn't your fault - but perhaps some sort of counciling would be of help? It obviously weighs heavily on your mind.
All the best.
It's not your responsibility hun, he chose to do this. We can't look into the future and see, and even if we could, that's no way to live your life, staying with someone just so they don't commit a crime.
Have you ever sought help for your self-harming?
I have sought help, but sometimes drs aren't that great.
Good luck to you. You deserve to put this behind you and look forward now
It sounds like you were a little insecure prior to your meeting him and this has added to things for you.
As everybody else is saying you have done nothing wrong,
Has your doctor ever referred you?
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The blame lies entirely with HIM and her parents. WTF were they thinking!!!!!!!! They should be on the register too IMO.
You are not responsible for any of this. Please get the help you need to stop the self harm.
hahaha I don't mean to be harsh but I was very very insecure prior to ay meeting
I didn't like to say it too strongly
Has your doctor referred you though, I understand about the self harming that's why I'm asking
Her identity is secret. Apparently he looks 17/ 18. But her parents let them have sex in their house, with their permission. :mad: :mad:
Please OP, please listen to the peeps here, and remember you're not on your own if you need support at any time.
Someone in my imdiate family was one too
The people who should be held accountable are your ex, the girl's parents, and the judge.
I hope you get some help to deal with the issues this has left you with. Good luck.
Hindsight is always 20/20, don't go down that road!
It's really not your fault, you are in no way to blame.