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Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 17:57

Well the guy I spent all my time with alone on the Xmas works do kissing and cuddling till 5 in morn now acting awkward and off with me and doesn't rember much as he had too much to drink... How am I supposed to take that

I always felt he liked me but we do work in same room but was telling me how he thought I was awesome person etc yet get bk in work and he's acting real off.

He would always tease me in work and have my no now I feel unattractive and rejected

Frankie_Little · 25/12/14 - 18:32

You're working Christmas day?

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 18:56

Frankie_Little wrote: »

You're working Christmas day?

No I'm off now

KennedyC · 25/12/14 - 19:00

It's possible that he doesn't remember much and probably thinks he went too far. I suggest you let him know that you enjoyed yourself but would like to go on a proper date with him.

Marie4eva · 25/12/14 - 19:00

Sparklygal wrote: »

Well the guy I spent all my time with alone on the Xmas works do kissing and cuddling till 5 in morn now acting awkward and off with me and doesn't rember much as he had too much to drink... How am I supposed to take that

I always felt he liked me but we do work in same room but was telling me how he thought I was awesome person etc yet get bk in work and he's acting real off.

He would always tease me in work and have my no now I feel unattractive and rejected

You know what ignore him too and act all happy and you know what be happy because its his loss not yours. Show him you didnt care either and don't let him ruin the holidays for you.

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 19:21

Just was so happy on night the things he said - I was amazing,cool how I was beautiful with me till 5 in morn snogging and cuddling yet acting like he is 😒

Always felt he liked me way he teased me in work and always stuck up for me ...

Wolfsheadish · 25/12/14 - 19:59

Sparklygal wrote: »

Well the guy I spent all my time with alone on the Xmas works do kissing and cuddling till 5 in morn now acting awkward and off with me and doesn't rember much as he had too much to drink... How am I supposed to take that

I always felt he liked me but we do work in same room but was telling me how he thought I was awesome person etc yet get bk in work and he's acting real off.

He would always tease me in work and have my no now I feel unattractive and rejected

You're supposed to chalk it up to experience and make sure you don't let yourself be treated that way again.

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 20:21

I know that but must've been an attraction for him to stay with me all that time.. People said they thought something was going to happen

Wolfsheadish · 25/12/14 - 21:29

He's male. He was drunk. You were willing. Move on and don't let it spoil your fun

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 22:13

I know but he's been so off and we didn't even have sex

Wolfsheadish · 25/12/14 - 22:23

Then be thankful you didn't and in future beware of pooping on your own doorstep!

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 22:31

Lol there is that but always felt he had a thing for me yet now there's tension between us 😳

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 22:32

Why are guys like this does he see me as an embarrassment or summat makes me feel ugly and rejected

kate36 · 25/12/14 - 22:37

I agree...chalk it up to experience... Furthermore, do you really want another date with a guy that treats you this way?

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 22:39

He told the guys in my room he only remembers bits but way he was on night thought he was interested 😒

kate36 · 25/12/14 - 23:11

Sparklygal wrote: »

He told the guys in my room he only remembers bits but way he was on night thought he was interested 😒

Sounds like he's trying to save face in front of the lads...typical bloke!!!
Its up to you but I wouldn't waste another minute on someone who blew hot and cold like that...and treated me with so little respect

Sparklygal · 25/12/14 - 23:24

What u mean save face? This bus has slightly made me feel unattractive an rejected as the things he said I believed at time he meant them

kate36 · 25/12/14 - 23:33

Sparklygal wrote: »

What u mean save face? This bus has slightly made me feel unattractive an rejected as the things he said I believed at time he meant them

Was alcohol involved?;-)

My point exactly... If he makes you feel like that I'd ask yourself is he as genuine as you thought? My guess...probably not just my opinion mind

Wolfsheadish · 26/12/14 - 03:07

Sparklygal wrote: »

What u mean save face? This bus has slightly made me feel unattractive an rejected as the things he said I believed at time he meant them[/QUOTE]

It's a sad fact of life that a man with a hard-on will say anything. No one can make you feel bad about yourself unless you allow them to. Is this man-child worth it?

Daffodil67 · 26/12/14 - 03:42

Wolfsheadish wrote: »

Sparklygal wrote: »

What u mean save face? This bus has slightly made me feel unattractive an rejected as the things he said I believed at time he meant them[/QUOTE]

It's a sad fact of life that a man with a hard-on will say anything. No one can make you feel bad about yourself unless you allow them to. Is this man-child worth it?

This.

Sparklygal, been there a few times. I'm probably a lot older than you at 42 but from reading your posts it takes me back to those utterly confusing times and I agree you will feel horrible but he isn't worth it.

Play it very cool around him, but don't expect anything to happen.

kate36 · 26/12/14 - 05:33

Wolfsheadish wrote: »

Sparklygal wrote: »

What u mean save face? This bus has slightly made me feel unattractive an rejected as the things he said I believed at time he meant them[/QUOTE]

It's a sad fact of life that a man with a hard-on will say anything. No one can make you feel bad about yourself unless you allow them to. Is this man-child worth it?

Couldn't say it better myself

Sparklygal · 26/12/14 - 08:32

Daffodil67 wrote: »

Wolfsheadish wrote: »

This.

Sparklygal, been there a few times. I'm probably a lot older than you at 42 but from reading your posts it takes me back to those utterly confusing times and I agree you will feel horrible but he isn't worth it.

Play it very cool around him, but don't expect anything to happen.

I agree but it's not me that is being funny yep it is true guys will say anything but way he's been up until this point I thought diff

[Deleted User] · 26/12/14 - 09:56

Forget him. He isn't worth your time thinking about it and pulling it to bits. Think yourself lucky you didn't take it further, you would have felt much worse.

Sparklygal · 26/12/14 - 10:16

I know just fed up of this crap I said to him on night he'd be funny with me... Wouldn't mind not like I'm hit with ugly stick

TUTV Viewer · 26/12/14 - 10:46

Sparklygal wrote: »

Well the guy I spent all my time with alone on the Xmas works do kissing and cuddling till 5 in morn now acting awkward and off with me and doesn't rember much as he had too much to drink... How am I supposed to take that

I always felt he liked me but we do work in same room but was telling me how he thought I was awesome person etc yet get bk in work and he's acting real off.

He would always tease me in work and have my no now I feel unattractive and rejected

What is you company policy on corporate lust?

Sparklygal · 26/12/14 - 10:50

It's relaxed but we are in the same room

Hey there!

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