Ahh, must admit I'd missed that clue. Seems fairly obvious it's her now. Well you can understand why someone would pay big for Beth. Her career not exactly booming either. Charlene still coins it in, in various ways.
this should be taken with a pinch of salt since it was posted on Reddit but it is quite an interesting read. The 'famous person' said that she changed some of the details so they cannot find out who she is.
I feel so whiny and ungrateful even writing this: I am a famous person. I sing and act for a living, make a huge amount of money and I’m in magazines and on TV every few days. It all began when I was 19 so it’s not something I’ve been doing my whole life and I’m still not used to it. I honestly don’t think I ever will be.
I grew up in a poor country. The only reason I didn’t grow up very poor were my mom’s awesome money skills. I’m an only child, so it was just mom, dad and I. They both worked shitty low paying jobs and if something unexpected came up that we’d need money for, they’d take additional jobs and work their butts off. At one point my mom had three jobs and dad had two. When my mom was 40 she even went to school again so she wouldn’t have to struggle forever. She graduated while working two jobs. I am beyond grateful for everything they did and love them more than anything.
I got into this thing kind of overnight. It’s something I dreamed of doing when I was a kid, but never really had faith anything would come out of it. When I got paid for the first time I calculated how much my parents would have to work for that kind of money and then sobbed like a lil bitch for 5 hours because I felt so guilty. I promised myself I’d do anything to make their lives easier. I bought them a house and 2 cars and send them on fancy vacations every once in a while. I tried to talk them into quitting their jobs so I can provide for them full time like they did for me for so many years, but they said no way. They were so humble about it I was ashamed for even suggesting it.
The problem: my job makes it impossible to maintain friendships, relationships or see my family more than 3-4 times a year. The guys either wanna date me because of the money/fame, or the pressure of being constantly followed by the paps/written about on the internet becomes too much and they bail.
My two absolute best friends live in another country so I don’t see them that much either. I flew them over two times while on tour so we could just hang, but they got freaked out by the paparazzi waiting in front of the hotel. Usually my only two choices are either to go out to do fun things while trying to hide, or just stay in the hotel. Hiding usually works for a while and even if someone recognizes me I don’t really mind, I’ll sign a few autographs, take photos with kids, thank them and that’s it.
It’s the paparazzi that I hate with the fire of a thousand suns. They’re rude, inconsiderate and pushy, and they scare away everyone I love. Example: I was in mcdonald’s with my male best friend, I was dressed very casual with no makeup and I thought no one recognized me; a few hours later our picture is on the internet saying I got a new boyfriend; of course his boyfriend got pissed. When I went to dinner with my female best friend, they wrote something like “lonelydorknerd has a fat best friend” like she’s my charity case, and used an unflattering picture of her from the restaurant. I feel so bad, that shit hurts, and especially if you’re not used to it (and very few people are). They’re both very normal people with normal jobs. He’s in academia (a psychiatrist) so he’s kinda used to the attention, even though it’s the different kind, but he knows how to handle it. She is a full time nanny tho, a small town girl next door, and as much as she was fascinated by the whole thing at first, she got sick of it quite fast and I’m scared she might get sick of me too. She is already avoiding to meet in public and nowadays I only ever see her on skype or at my house when I’m not on tour or filming (which is rarely).
I dated my ex for 4 years (we were in college together). We broke up for reasons (at the time) unknown when I started getting more famous. He just stopped talking to me and went completely no contact. I was crushed for 2 years after that because he never let me know what the hell happened. He did contact me eventually. He said he was really sorry, how he had been jealous of my success and felt inadequate, everything felt too much and he didn’t know how to handle it. He said he knew I’d never make him feel inadequate on purpose and I was the perfect girlfriend and didn’t deserve to be treated the way he treated me. In the meantime he got a good paying job and got his shit together, said I was the love of his life and we dated for a while again. After a few more months he proposed, I said no because I couldn’t get over him disappearing on me, even though he said he’d never do it again. I miss him and regret saying no, although I’m not sure if it’s just my general loneliness speaking or we really were “meant to be”. I don’t think I’ll ever find out because after I rejected him he went no contact again, and he’ll just text me for birthdays etc.
I also dated a few other guys in the meantime, both famous and non-famous, but it just didn’t work out, for reasons I already mentioned.
Apart from the paparazzi/tabloids/****ing perez problem, there’s also the obvious I-don’t-have-time-for-anything problem. If I’m not touring or filming, I’m recording, doing interviews or events. I honestly don’t have time to poop. I see my therapist once a week and go to the gym twice a week and those are the only 2 things I do that are not work related. Days off usually make me even more depressed because they’re usually in the middle of the week so there’s no time to fly out to see my family or friends or fly them over, and I just stay home alone, throw myself a pity party and contemplate how ****ing lonely I am. Easter is coming up and there will be a huge family gathering at my parents’ and it makes me so depressed to think it will be another one I’ll miss. At this point I just wanna be like **** everything and just go home and hug my mom. I can’t though, because I am filming on location in ****ing Croatia and can’t just bail.
I have no idea how my colleagues from the industry do it. How they date, see their families or start their own families. My manager says it’s normal and I should just suck it up because “this level of fame won’t last forever” and I should make the best of it. I don’t know if I can, tho.
I don’t know what my question is. I just needed to talk to someone I don’t pay to listen to me, and my friends are probably sick of hearing me whining over skype. What should I do? How do I stop feeling this way? Do I just drop everything and become an accountant or whatever?
Reading it I thought it was Rihanna especially with her saying that she comes from a poor country and her parents worked a few jobs. She also said that even if she quit the business she would still be papped for another 5 years or so which in rihannas case is super true, she is that famous. She does work a lot she has that movie to promote now she has a new album. I also remember when she took a year or so out - no new music or anything. There was also a blind awhile back where it was revealed that Rihanna pays for a few peoples college fees and on that thread she says this "I'd rather pay for my cousin's college tuition and maybe be called naive by people who don't know me, than just sit back and watch her struggle like her parents. That's the thing. I don't even care about this money at this point. I feel like it's blood money. I would give it all away to my family and friends (and I've kinda been trying to do that but they're stubborn lol) if it meant we'd all be happy and comfortable and could live a normal life."
On the other hand it cant be her because she does her fair share of 'attention seeking' not wearing many clothes going out/posting LOTS of stuff on instagram, she always posts pictures of her niece (?) so I doubt she sees them "a few times a year". She also has her best friend/photographer with her most of the time.
Unfortunately , She's deleted her profile but the comments which are like [deleted] are her. Hope it makes sense, took me forever to get used that website.
I've seen discussions on this else where - Only Girl in the World was ruled out pretty quickly. Filming in Croata would suggest a Game of Thrones star.
You also have to take into account that details have been fudged they have changed things to make it harder to work out so there is no reason to assume that they are in fact not from the USA or that they are actually a singer.
The solution if it's real seems to come from the paparazzi photos in a fast food restaurant and the "Fat Friend".
Not right at this minute as far as I know, but definite connections to that area though. Wouldn't be a huge leap to suggest she might have done some filming there.
that could very easily be a lie as well. Is anybody from GOT really that famous? If the show finished tomorrow the next time you'd hear from these people would be when they have something to promote. I suppose we'll have to see if GOT gets any "guest stars".
I suppose we'll just go crazy trying to figure it out! Hope the person finds some peace.
that could very easily be a lie as well. Is anybody from GOT really that famous? If the show finished tomorrow the next time you'd hear from these people would be when they have something to promote. I suppose we'll have to see if GOT gets any "guest stars".
I suppose we'll just go crazy trying to figure it out! Hope the person finds some peace.
Don't think it's anyone from GoT.
I'm inclined to agree with fefster - it's the lady with the Voice.
Hobbit definitely fits the story, but he isn't A-list by any stretch of the imagination
Well, I've just read the original blind at I think suggestions as to Sherlock, Hobbit and the rest don't fit by a country mile. Having said that, I have no idea, except it wouldn't surprise me if all concerned were Americans in some US show most of us haven't heard.
Well, I've just read the original blind at I think suggestions as to Sherlock, Hobbit and the rest don't fit by a country mile. Having said that, I have no idea, except it wouldn't surprise me if all concerned were Americans in some US show most of us haven't heard.
I still thinks it's meant to be the one from Spaced who is now in 'space' trek and does some impossible misson work.
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impression about last week's Big
Question... It wasn't Kylie
From Popbitch
So it wasn't Kylie, but another Neighbours alumni
I knew it was torn
Wrong Impression is the clue here ;-)
Yep, I got the clue. That's how I knew it was another Neighbours star
Ahh, must admit I'd missed that clue. Seems fairly obvious it's her now. Well you can understand why someone would pay big for Beth. Her career not exactly booming either. Charlene still coins it in, in various ways.
Reading it I thought it was Rihanna especially with her saying that she comes from a poor country and her parents worked a few jobs. She also said that even if she quit the business she would still be papped for another 5 years or so which in rihannas case is super true, she is that famous. She does work a lot she has that movie to promote now she has a new album. I also remember when she took a year or so out - no new music or anything. There was also a blind awhile back where it was revealed that Rihanna pays for a few peoples college fees and on that thread she says this "I'd rather pay for my cousin's college tuition and maybe be called naive by people who don't know me, than just sit back and watch her struggle like her parents. That's the thing. I don't even care about this money at this point. I feel like it's blood money. I would give it all away to my family and friends (and I've kinda been trying to do that but they're stubborn lol) if it meant we'd all be happy and comfortable and could live a normal life."
On the other hand it cant be her because she does her fair share of 'attention seeking' not wearing many clothes going out/posting LOTS of stuff on instagram, she always posts pictures of her niece (?) so I doubt she sees them "a few times a year". She also has her best friend/photographer with her most of the time.
Who do you think it is?
Here is the link to the thread http://www.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/30hx1g/me26_f_being_famous_is_making_me_lonely_and/
Unfortunately , She's deleted her profile but the comments which are like [deleted] are her. Hope it makes sense, took me forever to get used that website.
You also have to take into account that details have been fudged they have changed things to make it harder to work out so there is no reason to assume that they are in fact not from the USA or that they are actually a singer.
The solution if it's real seems to come from the paparazzi photos in a fast food restaurant and the "Fat Friend".
Is she currently in Croatia filming??
Not right at this minute as far as I know, but definite connections to that area though. Wouldn't be a huge leap to suggest she might have done some filming there.
Edited to say that Cosmopolitan magazine Croatia had an interesting cover in a January this year http://magazines.famousfix.com/tpx_40599301/cosmopolitan-magazine-croatia-january-2015/
that could very easily be a lie as well. Is anybody from GOT really that famous? If the show finished tomorrow the next time you'd hear from these people would be when they have something to promote. I suppose we'll have to see if GOT gets any "guest stars".
I suppose we'll just go crazy trying to figure it out! Hope the person finds some peace.
The RIP guess is good one though.
Don't think it's anyone from GoT.
I'm inclined to agree with fefster - it's the lady with the Voice.
But RIPs family are in London why would she have any difficulty seeing them at Christmas? Plus I don't think her family is that hard up.
They were pretty hard up as far as I know. Wiki it - lots of info on there.
It says "grew up" in a poor country, but RIP moved to London when she was one. I suspect the whole piece is elaborate fiction.
Well, I've just read the original blind at I think suggestions as to Sherlock, Hobbit and the rest don't fit by a country mile. Having said that, I have no idea, except it wouldn't surprise me if all concerned were Americans in some US show most of us haven't heard.
I still thinks it's meant to be the one from Spaced who is now in 'space' trek and does some impossible misson work.
Imdb says he's married rather than in a de facto relationship. I tend to think it's made up.
People STILL pay for LiLo. What can i say? There's no accounting for taste.
Which famous British actor likes to follow ladies into the toilets of upmarket restaurants and asks them if they'd mind weeing into his hands?
Good grief😨