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    EmolgaEmolga Posts: 47,291
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    My cousins getting married later in the year, we (OH and I) aren't invited to the day time which is fair enough, money and numbers etc

    Found out today though that we aren't invited to the night time either as its the same people as the daytime who'd going and they aren't having a typical night do (disco etc) they are having a singer and a grand piano

    I feel annoyed cause my dad and sister are invited but we aren't, my sister said she didn't think it was our thing as we would have to buy suits (so?) and that the place is really posh (again so?) she also said some partners weren't invited, I'm family though and other family have been invited

    I know people will probably say I'm in the wrong being pissed off but I can't help how I feel, nice to know what my family really think of me!

    *plays the world's smallest violin*
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    TrollHunterTrollHunter Posts: 12,496
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    Do you actually want to go to the wedding because you think you'll have a good time or do you want to go purely because you're family and as other members of your family are going, you feel you should also be included?

    If we forget it's a family affair, would you still actually want to go to the wedding? Are you more upset at being snubbed or at not being able to attend the wedding?

    Personally, unless it was one of my best friends or a sibling, I'd love the opportunity to not have to attend the tedium that most weddings are without coming up with a lame excuse!!
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    Miss XYZMiss XYZ Posts: 14,023
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    tiacat wrote: »
    Ive come very late to this thread and havent read all of it but I would be willing to bet my house, that if Tinks had been invited, she would have been straight on here saying that she is now going to have to say no to the invite as her cousin expects her to buy a suit and wear formal clothes and she's a rock chick dont you know and doesnt do that sort of outfit and anyway she will be in a lot of pain for the evening do and they cant afford to get cabs all that way to the wedding/do location and anyway they are busy that night and she should have given more notice and anyway she doesnt get on with half the people that are going and anyway she doesnt want her OH mixing with other women, blah blah blah

    Sorry Tinks, but I have had the mispleasure of countless of your threads about how you feel about various members of your family and even your OH and quite frankly I can see why your cousin didnt invite you, you probably give off an air of not wanting to socialise or be with them.

    Now, I dont have a problem with that, I dont like parties and formal occasions either, but if I wasnt invited to something I would be relieved, not moaning about it.


    Sorry if it's a really obvious question, but why do you call the OP "Tinks"? :confused:
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    dee123dee123 Posts: 46,274
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    LOL at all the responses.
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    elliecatelliecat Posts: 9,890
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    Having just got married, we didn't invite all our relatives we invited the ones we are close to, you have to draw a line somewhere. I had cousins I didn't invite as to be honest I can't even remember their names. My husband only invited his two aunts as his mum wanted them there.
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    RandomSallyRandomSally Posts: 7,072
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    Miss XYZ wrote: »
    Sorry if it's a really obvious question, but why do you call the OP "Tinks"? :confused:

    Because the internet is littered with posts from her in another guise.
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    Seamus SweeneySeamus Sweeney Posts: 3,997
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    Miss XYZ wrote: »
    Sorry if it's a really obvious question, but why do you call the OP "Tinks"? :confused:

    Because she (?) 'Tinks people still take her (?) seriously.
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    gdjman68wasdigigdjman68wasdigi Posts: 21,705
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    im confused with all of the Dime bar references....

    this thread is very bizzarre
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 6,924
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    Well all I can say is that now I am pissed off that I went to bed last night. You guys were on fire. Thanks for the great laugh this morning. :D:D
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    rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    I would go, I don't see family much so I make sure we go to all family events, we missed one which was Christmas night 2010 but we both had swine flu so I think it's fine we were absent then

    Oh come on, admit it was at least regular flu. Swine Flu. Puhlese! It's like men calling a cold man flu.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 12,190
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    Forget it....
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    GoatyGoaty Posts: 7,776
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    What the...

    After read this thread and OP's other threads, now I think OP is WUM!
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    rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    Goaty wrote: »
    What the...

    After read this thread and OP's other threads, now I think OP is WUM!

    I think you might be on to something.
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    ian_charlesian_charles Posts: 578
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    Goaty wrote: »
    What the...

    After read this thread and OP's other threads, now I think OP is WUM!

    A what?
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    Bex_123Bex_123 Posts: 10,783
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    Miss XYZ wrote: »
    Sorry if it's a really obvious question, but why do you call the OP "Tinks"? :confused:

    It's her name on some of the many other forums she posts on, plenty of which completely contradict what she says on here.
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    rbdcayrbdcay Posts: 12,041
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    vosnevosne Posts: 14,131
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    Bex_123 wrote: »
    It's her name on some of the many other forums she posts on, plenty of which completely contradict what she says on here.

    As long as the hamster earrings are true I'm not bothered about the rest.
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    TrollHunterTrollHunter Posts: 12,496
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    Bex_123 wrote: »
    It's her name on some of the many other forums she posts on, plenty of which completely contradict what she says on here.

    Thought I'd perhaps peruse some of these other forums so popped "ebonyhamster" into Google and the first result that came up was this:
    Black and Ebony Porn Videos > New - xHamster :o

    Maybe that's why you're not invited!
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    Seamus SweeneySeamus Sweeney Posts: 3,997
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    Thought I'd perhaps peruse some of these other forums so popped "ebonyhamster" into Google and the first result that came up was this:
    Black and Ebony Porn Videos > New - xHamster :o

    Maybe that's why you're not invited!

    A site devoted to deceased rodents :(

    I've already watched a great many tribute videos here as a mark of respect
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    Trsvis_BickleTrsvis_Bickle Posts: 9,202
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    Seems to type alright. ...... unless she's got a gadget like Stephen Hawking.......
    iPad.

    Was anyone else thinking 'headwand'?
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    Trsvis_BickleTrsvis_Bickle Posts: 9,202
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    A site devoted to deceased rodents :(

    I've already watched a great many tribute videos here as a mark of respect

    That site is a huge disappointment. There are hardly any videos on it featuring hamsters. :(
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    ian_charlesian_charles Posts: 578
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    So in conclusion, her family are more than justified in not inviting the whinging, self pitying, attention seeking porn rodent.
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] Posts: 3,181
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    Do you happen to have a `BO` problem, that don't always go down well
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    ian_charlesian_charles Posts: 578
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    Was anyone else thinking 'headwand'?

    Or probing tongue......
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    iiHEARTy0uiiHEARTy0u Posts: 13,737
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    Maybe its because of your hair.

    That thread you did in Fashion and Beauty cracked me up.

    The pictures of your beach babe wave hair were comical! :D
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